#way_of_life

[terkwaz95]

اللَّهُمَّ عَافِنِی فِی بَدَنِی، اللَّهُمَّ عَافِنِی فِی سَمْعِی، اللَّهُمَّ عَافِنِی 
فِی بَصَرِی، لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ أَنْتَ. اللَّهُمَّ  
إِنِّی أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنَ الْكُفْرِ، وَالفَقْرِ، وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ عَذَابِ القَبْرِ، لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ أَنْتَ

[dzeta-horsy]

26.08.2023

...Джуало но бергало, Пеймыт инмын тылсиос, Джуало но куашкало, Шур кузя лэзем выжыёс...

About partnership

Today's young human expects from a partner for life to correspond to several requirements. A partner for life should also be the best sexual partner, the best soulmate, a responsible citizen, earn enough money, and have the same vision of the future as you. Sometimes they also add having a good education, being vegeterian/vagan, being very clean, and visiting a psychotherapist. All of these at the same time or some of them in any configuration could be necessary. All of these requirements are understandable, but isn't it too much? Have you ever seen a man who has all of these qualities?

Sometimes one can start to imagine that a potential partner has some qualities he does not have in order to call him parten for life. However, such lie couldn't live so long; it would be discovered in several months or years, and it would hit you quite badly when you realized it.

Wouldn't it be better not to expect all of these qualities to be contained in one person? In traditional families, the only requirement for a partner was to be able to manage a household. Humanity lived like this for thousands of years, while the long list of requirements for a partner appeared only about a hundred years ago. It is a new feature, and it seems to me that not all of us got used to it.

One of the solutions is to have polyamorous relationships, so you can have a partner per need. At the same time, most people disrespect polyamorous relationships, so they have to lie to their partners for life in order to allow themselves having their plenty of needs to be satisfied. Another option, which is the most socially acceptable, is to have a partner not for life but for several years, telling everyone and yourself that you are looking for the best one.

From this point of view, it sounds cruel that popular culture tells us that one's love for life is a romantic ideal that is necessary for everyone who wants to be a respectful member of society. There are dozens of examples, from insurance to simple communication, that show that being married is more acceptable in society.

Nevetheless, if we stop dreaming of being conformal and think of being satisfied and realized instead, are there any options for those who don't want to have a crowd of people nearby?

It seems to me, that for those people, the only option is to stop waiting for things from other people and look for these things in themselves. As it was said, you were born alone, you will die alone, and maybe you are living your life alone as well. In the end, you are the only spectator of your life; you can understand every action deeper than anyone else; and you are the only one who can truly judge and forgive you. These needs are the most important for human being, and the only one who can satisfy them is yourself.

[khanafaquewajid]

Understanding the Purpose of Life:

Bees understand the purpose of their being and live their whole life to achieve it. They know that they may not be able to eat all what they are gathering, but they continue to do so and give it back to their community. So should be the case of believer. We should not just be concerned about ourselves only and should not spend our whole life to better our dunya. We need to see the bigger purpose of life and act accordingly. How useful would be a worker whose master lays down his purpose in front of him and his actions are exactly the opposite.

“___ On the authority of Ibn Umar ◌ؓ , who said: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ, took me by the shoulder and said: “Be in this world as though you were a stranger or a traveller/wayfarer.” 

Ibn Umar ◌ؓ  used to say: “When evening comes, do not expect (to live till) morning, and when morning comes, do not expect (to live till) evening. Take from your health (a preparation) for your illness and from your life for your death.” __” [Al-Bukhari]

[sps-raghav]

Ideas are funny little things, they won’t work unless you do. We had this one.. 😀 #Latepost #traveltime #crazyones #buddies #awesome #behappy #friends #mandu #trust #adventure #way_of_life #raghav-sarkar (at Jahaz Mahal)

[its-samara-berthold]

[awesomekorfball]

Korfball is not just a sport. It is a way of life.