yangyang seems like someone who has a lot of love to give. if anything, HE would be the clingy one in the relationship. yangyang would constantly be tackling you to the ground to try to tickle you or smother your face with kisses. he needs someone who can return his level of affection!!
xiaojun would absolutely bask in your affection, he LOVES all of the attention you give him and is very proud of it. he lowkey shows you off too. xiaojun wouldn't hesitate to kiss your hand in front of the others but the moment you do anything to him he gets all blushy.
ten is always seen hugging literally everyone in nct so i feel like he would love having a s/o that returns the affection. it gets him all smug and cocky. you would just be holding onto his arm and he'd be all like "damn if you want me just say so 😂😂😂"
hendery strikes me as someone who adores having a clingy s/o but doesn't want to admit it. he tries to act normal about it for the sake of his heart (palpitations go brrr). but when you randomly steal a kiss from him out of nowhere, he can't help but freeze and awkwardly stand there with his hands stiffly by his side LMAO
kun doesn't really mind it, doesn't really care for it either. if you're more touchy, he'll reciprocate the action. if you're not, that's totally okay, he'll find other ways to show his love for you, like cooking for you. overall, kun just likes how you rely on him because he enjoys taking on that role of responsibility.
winwin doesn't seem like he would be big fan of having an overly affectionate s/o ngl. you try to hug him for more than 5 seconds? winwin lowkey pushes you away from him 💀 it's not that he doesn't like you!!! he just needs his own space and prefers to show affection differently.
Kun: He doesn’t let things get to him easily. He is very secure and emotional mature I feel. At the end of the day, he knows that you want to be with him and nobody else matters.
Winwin, Hendery & Yangyang: They both would be alright but from time to time they feel it. I feel like Winwin would just never bring it up. Hendery would probably say something to his partner if he ever felt that way. He would rather communicate than keep it to himself. Yangyang would only say something if it starts to really bother him and it becomes overwhelming.
Ten & Xiaojun: They both can be possessive but not in a toxic way. They both would be able to communicate with you if they ever feel this way. Ten would hint at first. Like he would say things like “oh you and ____ seem pretty close.” You can tell when Xiaojun is jealous because it's painfully obvious.
yangyang - hear me out on this one. he might not be as experienced as the other members, but i think he has a lot of fantasies and kinks he wants to explore. generally i don't think there is much that he would say no to. don't be fooled by him, he might seem innocent the first few times with his partner, but for kinks he would give everything and anything a try.
ten - i don't think i need to elaborate much on this one. the only reason i put him second is because he has a little more boundaries than yangyang
kun - quite kinky, but also not too kinky. by now he knows very much what he likes and doesn't like and also doesn't feel the need to explore further unless his partner really wants to. he has a good few kinks and is happy with it
sicheng - he's a wild card to me sometimes if i'm being honest. he has a good amount of kinks, nothing out of the ordinary. actually, I think he and kun could be placed on the same level of kinkiness. overall he's just a little bit reluctant to explore?
dejun - does not have any extreme kinks. he likes to keep things simple and safe. that doesn't mean he doesn't have kinks though or that he's not willing to explore! i think he secretly would love when his partner just takes control and tries something new with him
hendery - just needs some guidance and someone he 100% trusts to explore. at first you might think he's quite lame when it comes to kinks, but he's the type to have a deep and dark fantasy, but he won't bring it up until you do. you just gotta observe him well to find out
yk some of the nct members strike to me as independent on their own so i want to know in your humble opinion who'd mtl likely be codependent in relationships?
nct mtl to be codependent in relationships
note: i never thought about this so i picked out some members and here’s my opinion. i actually think they’d like to do anything with you and would really enjoy your companionship, pretty miss you when you’re away for too long
*taking this from the exo request i did, loved looking into this and learning more about astrology and such ^^ plus, like i've said...i need more wayv on here hehe love those guys*
*a little fyi before you continue, this is my personal opinion + their sun signs ♥*
MOST
kun
winwin
xiaojun
hendery
yangyang
ten
LEAST
kun:
okay, kun is a capricorn and they have a tendency to feel possessive/jealous when someone comes in with higher specs than they have. what i mean by higher specs [in the updated version of kimi wa petto the main girl talks about wanting a boyfriend who: is tall, went to a prestigious school [harvard etc], has a well paying job [more than not makes a higher salary than her] so think of specs in that sense. kun is such a multi-talented person and seems to want to try out and get some kind of certificate in a lot of his hobbies ☺️
with all of his interests [no doubt he has done stuff we don’t know and it’s probably awesome to hear everything he’s done] i think if he got a whiff of some person walking in like "yeah i went to blah blah blah school" and "i've invested blah blah blah into w/e" and “i've been to blah blah blah country doing this type of work for w/e reason" and his s/o shows signs of intrigue/interest or astonishment that is when he'll feel like "hold up..." 😠😤
winwin:
he's a scorpio the end.
jkjk despite the fact that winwin is a scorpio [my scorpio brother from another mother] i wanted to put him further down on the list. it's weird...i'm either not paying attention to him as much as the others [he does sometimes fade into the background for me, typical scorpio behavior at times] so it's like..."in what situation would winwin be jealous?" 🤔
however, with scorpio's we get possessive/jealous when someone enters our territory. look i've read on so many occasions and i've experienced this myself, but we can sum up whether someone is good/bad/whether we like them or not, from the first couple of seconds of meeting them. it's a weird thing and i have a pretty good winning streak in this department 😉 so if he deems someone as a threat you better believe he’s going to act possessive in some shape or form
i'll also say this, we're constantly trying to figure people's intentions out and that in itself can mean some possessive behavior. i'ts like always wondering what a persons ulterior motive is. so with winwin being a scorpio [even if i don't 100% see him being this high up on the chart] something is telling me to put him here, so i'm going with my gut!
oh and one last thing…it takes scorpios sooooooooooooo and i do mean soooooooo long to put their faith and trust in people. when you’ve worked that long trying to trust someone i can tell ya this — you will fight to keep that person in your life 😋 c'est la vie to whoever tried to barge into the relationship 🤣
xiaojun:
xiaojun is a leo and this may come as a shocker [not really] but leo's like to be adored [think alex the lion from madagascar 😊] he wants to be his partners one and only [so sweet] 🥰 and he wants all their love and attention and when that is going to someone else...well...those negative feelings start to bubble. it’s not bad, his s/o just needs to shower him in affection and attention and remind him how much they love him and he'll be fine
[i have a leo friend and he gets sulky if i don't give him attention...it's exhausting 😮💨😅]
hendery and yangyang:
THE LIBRAS ♥
okay, libras are about balance ⚖️ but i'll say this just like virgos [my mom's a virgo] they COMPARE/ JUDGE [well mom judges but same diff in this case] libra's will feel this possessive/jealous feeling when they look at others as a possible threat. in this case, "man he's taller than me" or "why is he so good looking...is he even real?" think about things like that.
i think both hendery and yangyang are soooooooooooo chill but i mean...yangyang has said it that he thinks he's cute [he is love you yangyang] but it's when negative nancy decides to pull up in her car with comparison charlie [totally made up comparison charlie 🤣] is where things get muddled and the need to keep their partner away from that person, or wanting to keep their partners focus on them comes into play
ten:
finally, our pisces...
okay, so my dad is a pisces and i don't know if it's a trait that pisces people have but they just seem to have A LOT OF CONFIDENCE... like “yeah i love love and i know how to work a room and my charms to get what i want”
[ten saying he has honey skin and you need to taste it as an example] 😅
don't get me wrong pisces people do get jealous and possessive but out of the other signs, not as much. it's like they know when they get jealous and then stop it before it gets out of control. also, they seem to be in their own dream and fantasy world half the time [no offense my pisces people love you guys] but unless someone was flirting right in front of him, or he caught on rather quickly to a situation happening he probably won't know. also fyi, this is definitely not a sign you want to make jealous - he'll feel hurt/disappointed more than jealous/possessive so please be careful with a pisces they feel their feelings so deeply
Jisung - not just cos of his age - he just seems like the sort who’s afraid of getting fans upset. very conscious of keeping the right image. Plus I think he gives off too much nervous energy to pursue someone. If they pursue him he would probably run and hide.
Sungchan - again he’s young, but he also has this air of innocence about him.
Renjun - sure, he rejected the pure boy image. Sure we have seen him dance to 119 and Havana. He’s even tried humping a tree in the chilling vlog. But you can’t fool us mr Huang. You’re still a virgin.
Mark - he’s overworked, I don’t think he has had the time in between being in 4 units including super m. Plus he’s got strong religious beliefs. Might have fooled around but not gone all the way.
Jaemin - putting him here cos he seems to be very guarded and needs to be in an established relationship before going all the way.
Hendery - He seems like he will take his time. Coming from a family with 3 elder sisters he probably keeps a respectful pace in love and relationships and ensures he’s truly committed before going all the way. probably more interested in gaming than sex.
Yangyang - he probably has a lot of knowledge in his head (thanks Wine Aunt!) but there’s also a very shy side to him. Has an air of innocence too.
Haechan - behind the scenes I really think he takes his work very seriously and is focussed on it, and spends his free time gaming. The only reason why I’m putting him here is he strikes me as being a horn dog. Not only that he’s surrounded by more experienced ppl (cough Johnny)
Jeno - I can’t read jeno. I’m only putting him here cos he was brought up Catholic, and says he is now no longer one. As someone who was brought up Catholic and now says she’s no longer one I’m quite sure he’s catching up on meeting his needs. If he isn’t he’s channeling all his energy into working out
Lele - he’s fearless and very free spirited, the sort who will do what he feels like on a whim. That probably includes anything regarding the opposite sex. Importantly he now stays alone with daegal. After he became a legal adult in Korea it was no longer required by law for him to stay with a guardian so mummy Zhong went back to China. This is why of all the Dreamies I have him as the least likely to be one. The only reason why he’s not 100% wilding is because Kun has him on an invisible leash.
Jungwoo and Sicheng - there’s more to these two that meet The Eye. The whole innocent thing is just an act to me at least. Sicheng was popular in school and age of consent in China is 14. Don’t ask me why it’s so Low.
Doyoung - he sings like his pregnant wife ran away with another man there’s no way he’s inexperienced with love. They mostly ended badly though. Lol and I bet his bro isn’t one
Taeyong - as an expert in cancer men (ok 1 cancer man aka my bf) I can tell you they crave relationships and bonding both physically and emotionally.
Taeil and Kun - these dudes are so chill they must be getting sex on the regular.
Xiaojun - he hung out with the theatre crowd before joining SM. China isn’t as conservative as Korea. Go figure.
Shotaro - have you seen his TikToks? Dude knows what he’s doing. Then he joined SM and they sanitised him. Also age of consent in Japan is 13. I kid you not.
Jaehyun - the smirk on his face says it all. He gets regular pussy. And not the same pussy.
Johnny - dude probably lost it even before he landed on Korean soil. Sorry.
Lucas - another one who lost it before landing on Korean soil (Hong Kongs age of consent is 16 by the way) Lucas seems like the type who always needs to have a gf. If he doesn’t have one he’s pretending his phone is his gf. There was this Weibo live where Lucas joked about having a gf and the look on Kun and Sichengs face looked like they were unhappy he let a secret out in the open.
