it's been years but i still think about you destiel
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it's been years but i still think about you destiel
And yet—- I still don’t know the size of that box.
the long awaited return of "what's in spoon's inbox"
INCLUDING: a bunch of CRUSH crumbs #crushcrumbs
David mills my boy WHATS IN THE BOX :(
It’s all about the packaging isn’t it?
I've seen the highly mysogistic answers on your post about interacting with women as a man and I wonder if you condone that thinking? Do you really think women are the ones to blame for chosing not to hang out with men? As much as I feel sad about your situation and I myself try to be a little bit more open to talking with men and not just ignore them, it feels really simplistic to just simplify our reactions to "ugh mysandry!!". I get we're all tired about terfy male-exclusionism ideas but this is not the same at all.
No, I don't, and I started writing a reply to one of them before realizing that there were other things I needed my energy for.
I know I'm treated that way because women have to be cautious around men in general. I know that a guy acting too friendly can be a warning sign. If my neurodivergence cuts into it, that's an intersection of gender and disability and can be looked at a lot more accurately through acknowledging the complexity of the situation and not "yeah, women suck" (which no one said outright but it comes off as being angry at women and not at the societal situation).
That's what it is, a societal situation. Women act that way because that's how they stay safe. I know that I'm not a threat but they don't. By adulthood, many of them have learned that they need to do this from experience, whether personal or from someone close to them.
I especially hate it that it was compared to trans women being catcalled. It's nowhere near the same thing. My situation makes things a little more lonely at most, it mainly bothers me because I don't like it when I make people uneasy, while catcalling is straight up sexual harassment.
I talked about it because this is my blog and I wanted to speak about my experience. The issue is relatively small when you compare it to why it exists (dangerous psychological/physical experiences from men). I didn't see this as proof of institutional misandry or unreasonable man hating, I see it as the result of patriarchy.
POV: Ryan and Maya in the last ep
Great job with the sharpie.