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Not kidding, it totally did take me over 40 years for me to learn to love myself. Thankfully, others have loved me along the way, even when I didn't love, or even like myself very much. As a single mom of 2 seriously amazing and ridiculously intelligent kids (20 and 12), I really don't have time for those who don't like me. I'm far too busy keeping up with my kids and my life to have time to worry if someone likes me or not. Rest assured, I'm NOT paying attention to the haters. It feels so good to be able to say that finally. For so long I tried to make everyone like me. I was a people pleaser, but I was getting lost in what everyone else's opinions of me were. And, believe me, *everyone* has opinions. What I needed to realize, and finally did a few years ago, is that at the end of the day the only people whose opinions of me actually matter is God's and my kids. When I'm good with them, I'm good. Period. I can sleep well at night knowing that they know me and love me in spite of my many flaws. And when I'm doing the right thing by them, the rest of my life tends to fall into place. Funny how that works. #SoloMio #SingleMom #SingleMomLife #WhenImGoodWithGodImGood #DoTheRightThingBecauseItsTheRightThingToDo #GodsGotMe #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #Peace #FoundYourNose #ItWasInMyBusiness #HatersGonnaHate #ComfortableInMyOwnSkin #GotNoTimeForHaters #OrGames #ThankfulForThoseWhoLoveMe #MomTalk #GenX #Follow https://www.instagram.com/p/Cg0FrCfpCIL/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Not kidding, it totally did take me over 40 years for me to learn to love myself. Thankfully, others have loved me along the way, even when I didn't love, or even like myself very much. As a single mom of 2 seriously amazing and ridiculously intelligent kids (19 and 11), I really don't have time for those who don't like me. I'm far too busy keeping up with my kids and my life to have time to worry if someone likes me or not. Rest assured, I'm NOT paying attention to the haters. It feels so good to be able to say that finally. For so long I tried to make everyone like me. I was a people pleaser, but I was getting lost in what everyone else's opinions of me were. And, believe me, *everyone* has opinions. What I needed to realize, and finally did a few years ago, is that at the end of the day the only people whose opinions of me actually matter is God's and my kids. When I'm good with them, I'm good. Period. I can sleep well at night knowing that they know me and love me in spite of my many flaws. And when I'm doing the right thing by them, the rest of my life tends to fall into place. Funny how that works. #SoloMio #SingleMom #SingleMomLife #WhenImGoodWithGodImGood #DoTheRightThingBecauseItsTheRightThingToDo #GodsGotMe #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #Peace #FoundYourNose #ItWasInMyBusiness #HatersGonnaHate #ComfortableInMyOwnSkin #GotNoTimeForHaters #OrGames #ThankfulForThoseWhoLoveMe #MomTalk https://www.instagram.com/p/CSE4wzLLhGm/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Not kidding, it totally did take me 40 years for me to learn to love myself. Thankfully, others have loved me along the way, even when I didn't love, or even like myself very much. As a single mom of 2 seriously amazing and ridiculously intelligent kids, I really don't have time for those who don't like me. I'm far too busy keeping up with my kids and my life to have time to worry if someone likes me or not. Rest assured, I'm NOT paying attention to the haters. It feels so good to be able to say that finally. For so long I tried to make everyone like me. I was a people pleaser, but I was getting lost in what everyone else's opinions of me were. And, believe me, *everyone* has opinions. What I needed to realize, and finally did a couple years ago, is that at the end of the day the only people whose opinions of me actually matter is God's and my kids. When I'm good with them, I'm good. Period. I can sleep well at night knowing that they know me and love me in spite of my many flaws. And when I'm doing the right thing by them, the rest of my life tends to fall into place. Funny how that works. #SoloMio #SingleMom #SingleMomLife #WhenImGoodWithGodImGood #DoTheRightThingBecauseItsTheRightThingToDo #GodsGotMe #EverythingYouDoMatters #EverythingYouDoNotDoMatters #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #Peace #FoundYourNose #ItWasInMyBusiness #ComfortableInMyOwnSkin #GotNoTimeForHaters #OrGames #ThankfulForThoseWhoLoveMe https://www.instagram.com/p/CDZKNOIAjnt/?igshid=zwt97fqraqlk

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Not kidding, it totally did take me 40 years for me to learn to love myself. Thankfully, others have loved me along the way, even when I didn't love, or even like myself very much. As a single mom of 2 seriously amazing and ridiculously intelligent kids, I really don't have time for those who don't like me. I'm far too busy keeping up with my kids and my life to have time to worry if someone likes me or not. Rest assured, I'm NOT paying attention to the haters. It feels so good to be able to say that finally. For so long I tried to make everyone like me. I was a people pleaser, but I was getting lost in what everyone else's opinions of me were. What I needed to realize, and finally have, is that at the end of the day the only people whose opinions of me actually matter is God's, my kids and my mom. When I'm good with them, I'm good. Period. I can sleep well at night knowing that they know me and love me in spite of my many flaws. And when I'm doing the right thing by them, the rest of my life tends to fall into place. Funny how that works. #SoloMio #SingleMomLife #WhenImGoodWithGodImGood #DoTheRightThingBecauseItsTheRightThingToDo #GodsGotMe #EverythingYouDoMatters #EverythingYouDoNotDoMatters #LiveALifeYouWontRegret #Peace #35mmWorld #ComfortableInMyOwnSkin #GotNoTimeForHaters #OrGames #ThankfulForThoseWhoLoveMe https://www.instagram.com/p/B0rQHNGAbNl/?igshid=w4et8bosjj22