Hey I wanted to let you know that I love your Sid/Sidalia content! I did have a question regarding the timeline, if that's okay. I was curious as to why they break up. And how they get back together later.
hi thank you!! that means so much 🥺
the break up happens because of their issues with communication - sid often assumes that d’alia will just understand how he feels while he won’t put words to his fears, while d’alia assumes what’s best for him/them and won’t ask for what she wants of him, so it leads to them tiptoeing around each other when d’alia returns from ultima thule until it reaches a breaking point. d’alia (wrongly and one-sidedly) decides it’s better if she isn’t someone else who sid has to worry about dying and hurting him, and sid doesn’t explain how he actually feels, that loving and being with her is worth the risk of more loss and heartbreak.
I tried to seed this a little in midnight mercies with sid wrangling his nightmare out of himself to talk to her about how the fear of losing her affects him, and d’alia freezes and then deflects, and then sid just simply tries to physically reassure her and hope she understands. but it’s something that sticks with her……..
their reunion happens during the DT patches timeskip where I’ve shoved the tank role quest into the timeline so d’alia has to go back to ishgard. she can’t help but check in on sid and rielle, of course, so she seeks him out. it’s stilted and weird but the love is still there, but sid asks her to stay with him at their old place in empyreum so she’s not reverting to her spiraly ways if she stays at the forgotten knight’s inn, and they end up sleeping together but unlike before, they actually talk through their residual feelings and the miscommunication of their split, so they decide to try again.
um I did not mean for this to be such an essay but thank you for asking!!!!! it’s been on my mind lately so I’m glad to talk about it too <3













