”the silence of CCs in the face of abuse is miserable and has been a problem for decades” and “there are many reasons someone might be silent and not all of them are actual support in any sense of the word dont immediately blame people when they might have been in danger” and “the abuse wilbur did was fuelled by his misogyny” and “there is a lot of concerning stuff being said about male CCs- mostly minors- that indicate there might have been abuse behind the scenes there too and ignoring child abuse because the victim is a boy isn’t fighting the patriarchy it’s just also silencing victims” and “CCs should speak out” and “it’s been like six hours goddamn statements can take weeks” and “people who are victims can also enable abuse and they need to be held accountable” and “holding victims accountable for that sort of shit is not the same as people who aren’t have some basic fucking compassion” and “don’t assume anyone is a victim without evidence” and “manipulating, intimidating, and making people feel small and worthless is abuse like even if the words aren’t used that is straight up abuse that is an allegation of abuse” and “stop fucking misgendering nonbinary CCs you sound like terfs oh my fucking god” can all coexist at once actually.
