#will maybe delete

[bawdylanguageee]

aye man I’m so black I saw Earth Wind and Fire and Lionel Richie the other night. 

(ignore the box and bag in the background, summer cleaning)

[404unfortunately]

George’s byeee

[fadeoutfade-in]

hello today was hell and I would say I’m so glad it’s over but the truth is tomorrow will be the exact same probably!!! have a great night

[purrsimmer8]

So I know that Nordhaven is inspired by scandinavia in general but why every simmer I’m following (mostly French YouTube) speaks more about the similarities of Nardhaven with Amsterdam, Suede and not about the similarities with Denmark ?

Iverstad is literally inspired by the “Nordhavn” quarter of Copenhagen 😭

And there is the “The little mermaid” statue, the bicycle joke etc.

In my main save Nordhaven is only Denmark because Amsterdam is a part of my Windenburg (Lykke Center)

Just wanted to talk about this 😂

[eternalstrigoii]

I am bereft in dead frogs in this town, and also dragonflies. Change, death, and rebirth. The magical universe could not be any more heavy-handed and I appreciate it, though I am not sure what this means beyond clinging to my last little shred of optimism and hoping for the best.

[viperbooty]

i dont get why people wanna fake mental illnesses like why online and offline i see people who wanna “feel special” and fake shit but when someone who actually has it comes along and calls'em out on it they suddenly “pfffffff what do youuuuu know about being xxx besides i googled it duh ok i know what i have” …. i just dont understand maybe its just me i dont see my own issues as leverage to get pity from people (tho i do have episodes which i apologize for and try to find ways to prevent those) because i dont go walking around to people and be like “I SEE THINGS IN THE DARK, IM CONSTANTLY LOOKING OVER MY SHOULDER, I GET SEVERE DEPRESSION EPISODES, I HAVE ANGER ISSUES” cause ya know people would look at me fuckin crazy like – idk tho like hey fakers you want my issues c'mere ‘nd take'em i dont want'em. im tired of being a buzzword to someone like thats whats unique about me, my problems, not my hobbies or my own interests nah its the issues is whats interesting. i just dont get it i really dont if someone could explain why id probably have far less anger against those who i see fakin shit to get attention

[small-mountain-bear-blog-blog]

relationship/mildly abusive stuff beneath the cut

so last night I tried to break up with my boyfriend of a year and a half, and it d i d  n o t go at all as I had expected. I really wanted to minimize the hurt and confusion so I went into it with the goal of having a (somewhat civilized???) discussion, and it turned into me being yelled at for two and a half hours while I sobbed and tried to explain myself. like, no

if the way you respond to me trying to leave is by lashing out in anger and accusations and arguments, do you REALIZE how much of an issue that is and how completely un-fucking-likely it is that there is even the smallest chance of me wanting to get back with you?? we’re taking a break because he basically wouldn’t take no for an answer and I compromised by saying I need time to think about it, but the more I think about it the more I realize what a hell hole it would be if I went back.

ho. ly. shit.

the things he were saying (/yelling without pause to let me speak my mind) were so cliche abusive things, e.g. “you can’t leave because I haven’t done anything to hurt you,” “what your friends say doesn’t matter because they don’t really know what’s going on,” “you aren’t giving me enough reasons as to why you’re doing this” and “this can’t happen/I refuse to believe you or give you credit for what’s happening”

these are all things and attitudes I never saw a glimpse of in him, but fuck, if that’s how I know he acts under pressure then fuck him. seriously fuck him

[swamp-aesthetic]

Al and I have broken up. It's a 'pause' sort of thing. We still love each other, and we're best friends still. But we need time apart. Holy fuck I'm going to miss him.