#with him.

[morning-frostie]

need me a man who is either (a) ben willbond or (b) as big of a ben willbond enjoyer as i am, for an easy bonding activity

[teruwasright]

What a lot of tbhk fans refuse to admit is that especially when it comes to Hanako they use the "he's morally gray"/"all the characters are questionable!" To water down his actions and they think labeling him as morally gray means you can't label him as bad.

They try and lump all the characters together with the statement "there all bad in a way!" To change the subject and make him seem not as bad-

And yes in my opinion this is STILL trying to justify his behavior bc you're lumping in a bunch of characters that haven't even done HALF of what he's done in the same group as him to make his actions seem "less bad"

Im sorry no- they aren't "all bad in ways" when you're trying to lump them in with a murderer, emotional manipulator and someone that sacrificed an innocent girl bc "he loves her!" and refuses to acknowledge his wrongs and even apologize.

It is by fare the weakest argument I've ever seen and it pmo sm.

[itspileofgoodthings]

as the anti-Helen of Troy my mission is to make the space where men are not something that can be so Fun and Safe.

[adhdleorio]

tender love and care has now been FULLY PROGRAMMED!! and WILL BE RELEASED ON FEBRUARY 14TH!

We’ll still be using the next day to polish up the game and do some dialogue tweaks - but the programming is all done! The changes that you guys voted on (removal of romantic tonpa route + catholic kurapika jokes) have also all been made. 

We apologize for being thoughtless in our inclusion of these two items - and are incredibly sorry to all of those who were made uncomfortable by them. We appreciate your feedback immensely. 

This completion also means that Tender Love and Care: A Leorio Dating Sim will be released on February 14th! No soft release anymore! We really hope you’re looking forward to it!

[positivebees]

I hate love it’s not real, it’s just a bunch of chemical reactions happening inside the brain, which latch onto some specific person you meet by chance, who just happen to meet the right criteria for you and who problaby has a compatible immune system to yours. and say they look at you and it becomes impossible for you to breathe and you still remember the look in their eyes even days afterwards and you feel this deep intense thing growing inside you - that’s fake, not real, just a bunch of dopamine, don’t get lost in the feeling, it’s a trick, same as art, it only has meaning if we give it meaning and I’d rather go to a museum

[v0ideddr3ams]

I need a batfam fic where Bruce forgets Duke is black. Living in Gotham.

And also forgets Damian is from the Middle East. Living in america.

And Dick is Romani. LIVING IN AMER—

[transxfiles]

Regarding nude modeling, how do models deal with periods? It’s something I’ve always been curious/concerned about. (I’m also very sorry I don’t know whether you are a menstruating person or not.. If you can’t speak from experience, do you know how others deal with it?)

i actually made a post about this the other day. i haven't talked to other nude models (the system we use to sign up is anonymous for our own safety and most sessions only require one model, so we don't have overlap with each other) so i'm only speaking from my experience here. i'm sure other models have other thoughts on this.

i do get a period, and it's impacted my ability to work before. i've had exactly one instance where i called out of work "sick" (without disclosing that it was because i was on my period) and said that i was unfit to model for the day. no one wants their model to show up actively sick, so my boss didn't ask any follow up questions and just told me to rest up and that he hoped i felt better soon. the reason i called out wasn't because of blood, though - it was because of intense pain caused by cramping. if i'd been able to get through the pain, i probably would have been able to model that day.

there's a couple different ways to do nude modeling even if you're bleeding. i've considered investing in a diva cup (which seems like the easiest and most immediate solution) because they're discrete and reusable. i haven't felt the need to use one yet because i'm very aware of my body and i get frequent enough bathroom breaks on the job that i'm good at avoiding a situation where i would be actively bleeding down my leg at work. there was once instance where my period started early, i felt it start, and i had to excuse myself to go to the restroom to assess how strong the flow was going to be and whether or not i'd be able to stay for the rest of the session. it ended up being a light flow, so i made it through the last 30 minutes of the session no problem. my most recent session i had an almost non-existent flow and a bathroom break every 30 minutes minimum so i was fine to model (though i kept a black towel with me just in case). if i had a regular cycle, i would probably try to avoid booking gigs on my period just in case. however, hrt has made my cycle irregular and my period much less frequent, so i can't really track it accurately anymore.

nude modeling gigs have slowed down for me right now especially as i focus more on stagehanding with summer concert season upon us, so it's not gonna be on my mind as much as it would be in the winter months. i am probably gonna use some of my stagehanding money to buy a diva cup for future use and it will be something i keep in my nude modeling kit that i bring to future sessions just in case i start my period on the job again. it doesn't hurt to have the added security of it and it certainly brings peace of mind.