Judgment about the past.
We believe that people cannot change, we reject that people can change because of some event (reoccurring or not) happened. And it IS important for us to realize that it was wrong, to then admit your wrongs and claim 'I am different now'. Not to say that past actions do not matter but, it's the way in which we observe them that truly matter. It's in the way that we handle these past actions that truly makes all the difference. Life is in constant change, no matter to what extent everyone is always in a changing state; events take place and everyone takes away something from their emotions whether it be 'good' or 'bad'. It's in the manner that we choose to learn and grow that we change, always. Choose to be blind sided or open your eye to see the inevitable change.
