I’ve recently discovered I’m an nb lesbian, which is great for me. I want to be somewhat androgynous in my appearance and swagger if that makes sense. I considered changing my name to fit my needs but I want a few opinions if my current name sounds more masc or fem or inbetween. It’s Tatum
i think thats a great name!! it sounds pretty androgynous to me, and a quick google search seems to bring up both men and women with that first name. some ppl might consider it more on the masculine side just due to its association with channing tatum, but i don’t think thats a very significant association esp since thats being used as a last name
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