#wwwarmaiden

[suburbanjustice]

wwwarmaiden

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god what the fuck is it with the dreamwidth rp...

And the disgusting homophobia. I had to stop RPing there. Lots of 4channers too

holy shit i had no idea there were 4channers there

what a niche

also yeah a disturbing trend i’ve noticed is that there’s an abundance of ota or m/m characters but like basically every female character is listed as m/f and i’m just like.... yall aren’t slick

[gingerisaspice]

wwwarmaiden reblogged your post and added:

That’s nice. I’m sure they appreciate your gringo...

literally dont know what you want to see then if i cant share their information without being shut down. their twitter is jerichowing and they arent on tumblr anymore so if i cant speak to you then they can 

[goth-cow-gf]

@wwwarmaiden replied to your post: are white women playing the victim when they get...

What happened now?

http://wardenblues.tumblr.com/post/164355290934/

[lizbertmegafig]

wwwarmaiden replied to your post “i got assigned the Garden Officer in my guild so i tend to the garden...”

What world do you play in?

i’ve got characters in faerie and excalibur, but right now i’m focused on goblin because ive got some friends there

[korrasera]

It Followed Me Home, Apparently

If you want to see another example of what it's like to interact with a manipulative abuser, I present to you the little joy I was greeted by today, when I was greeted by two messages after loading my dashboard.

One is an anon that I already replied to, who was telling me that I was a terrible actress. This was pretty confusing, and then I read the second message, in which someone was messaging me to tell me they went to poke the hornet's nest and wwwarmaiden/glaschus and asstigmatism got all butthurt and immediately thought I was sockpuppeting and the whole thing is honestly one giant clusterfuck.

As if anyone could ever see me writing less than two paragraphs as a reply to someone, seriously. *rolls eyes*

That said, this does seem like a good thing to talk about if only to help people recognize this kind of behavior so they can avoid it in the future.

For wwwarmaiden/glaschus's narrative to take hold, she has to push two ideas:

1) That I flipped out at her because she called me a racist.

This is a lie on her part, but it's an expected one. When we are challenged on doing something shitty, as people we tend to deflect in whatever way possible and cast ourselves as the victim/defender.

In actuality, I called her out first. The reason we had a discussion at all is because I criticized how she and clara-the-slytherin-graduate attacked geekandmisandry, pointing out that she didn't demonstrate racism and was in fact being hella ableist and aphobic, in addition to her history of transphobia.

But, and here's an important part, in order to make her story work she needs to sell herself as someone who is bravely calling out a racist, so all of what she's saying and all of what her supporters are saying is that I reacted to being called a racist.

It's not hard to see that they're lying and I'm not, the posts are there to look at.

2) That I won't let it go.

Honestly? It does take some work to let things go, but if you're reading this and you followed that whole debacle, then you will know that I haven't talked about it in several days. Once wwwarmaiden/glaschus and I went at each other and finally both mutually blocked, I had a couple more days of people coming into my asks about it, saying basically the same kind of shit. And then I was done.

By comparison, as soon as they were able wwwarmaiden/glaschus and asstigmatism both seem to still be obsessed enough with me to accuse someone else of being my sockpuppet, which is like...yeah, ladies, let it go.

Just to reiterate the important parts.

wwwarmaiden/glaschus is a manipulative abuser who makes accusations of racism against people she doesn't like, which includes anyone who criticizes her. Doesn't matter why you criticize her, to her, doing so is racist. She's also ableist, having literally said that the majority of disabled people who object to ableism are doing so to defend their own bigotry and racism. She's also said that the entire ace community are racists and that she doesn't trust them nor does she believe they have any place in the LGBTQ+ community.

She's also mocked a non-binary person for their identity and their pronouns and then claimed that doing so was a mistake because she speaks ESL, even though she immediately doubled down on her shittiness immediately following that which kinda suggests that English being her second language didn't present any actual challenge for her.

Additionally, she surrounds herself with other exclusionists like herself that are very happy to go to bat for her. She said the term 'cult of personality' to criticize someone, but I'm guessing she wouldn't like seeing that statement pointed at her.

As for my stake? I pointed out that she was abusing people and when I realized that she has a history of not just doing so but also changing her username to escape the fallout from being a manipulative abuser I upped that to a call out because I think she's an actual danger to the people she might interact with on tumblr. Maybe she's a weak danger, since she's just going to try to make people's lives hell, but her clique's penchant for authoritarianism and bullying certainly makes it a real danger.

wwwarmaiden/glaschus is a manipulative abuser. I recommend you block her and don't interact with her at all if you don't want to become a target for her abuse.

[gothhabiba]

wwwarmaiden replied to your post: As much as Naomi Scott wasn't my first choice for...

Schrodinger’s WOC: white or brown depending on whether we need to be dismissed or villainized

hashtag relatable

[suburbanjustice]

wwwarmaiden

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got sold a very expensive defective computer model...

Definitely send it back

god believe me i am

[gothhabiba]

wwwarmaiden replied to your post: I’m actually white you guys

We Are All White

under full communism there is only one ethnicity and we all have to share it