12, 13, 14
12 - if they’re not cool with open poly, can’t date em. i’ve also turned someone down recently because they do a lot of harder drugs regularly (i’m ok with frequent or even “excessive” pot smoking more than im ok with any kind of drinking). im easily stressed by people doing drugs im less familiar with or are more risky, mostly because i don’t know what to expect and i don’t like being the Singular Sober Person Responsible For Dialing Emergency Services. but if it’s like sex-related turn-offs, anybody who refers to their genitals by a nickname takes the life right out of me tbh. and i turn right around and walk into a church if anybody starts talking like a tumblr daddy dom.13 - primarily that there were less queer/lgbt people than there really are. i also thought that no cis queer dude would ever want to date me since im trans. i used to think that all gay men were the “campy sassy” tropes but im really glad that’s not true.14 - get the fuck away from your best friend and never speak to them again while you still can, also you’re a dude and thats why you hate yourself so much, also don’t worry your dad loves you and will go to the ends of the earth for you, also don’t stop engaging with your hobbies or with school, also don’t major in fashion design you dunce.
