#xanderthepander

[anothergaystoner]

Pictures of cats on my wheelchair. Feel free to reblog with pictures of cats on your wheelchairs. I’ll periodically update as I acquire more pictures of cats.

[anothergaystoner]

Sorry This Song Isn't About You - Alexander Jasper-Jay Wrote and recorded this song all before work this morning.

[teaganisanawesomepossum]

xanderthepander replied to your post: So I haven't told my parents that I've had top...

Are you going to tell them?

I should probably tell them at some point in time. Maybe come the summer when I visit their cottage or this weekend if they ask/say something about seeing the date on my calendar back at Christmas.

[thefrontbotttoms]

Alexander Jasper-Jay Campbell (I know I have a long name, I'm sorry)

Holy moly a- action cat - gerard wayl- lane boy - twenty one pilotse- ease - elvis depressedly x- xo - fall out boya- a-punk - vampire weekendn- nth degree - morningwood d- dance miserable - patrick stump e-  electric feel - mgmt r- reckless abandon - blink-182j- jesus - brand newa- ala mode - mindless self indulgence s- sail - awolnation p- passenger seat - death cab for cutie e- explode - patrick stump r- recover - chvrches j- jim bogart - the front bottoms a- about a girl - the academy is... y- your life is a lie - mgmt c-  call it what you want- foster the people a- alien days - mgmt m-  my girls - animal collective p- paper planes - mia b- baby day -animal collective e- east jesus nowhere - green day l- landslide - senses fail l- Laugh till i cry - the front bottomsno more please!! 

[anothergaystoner]

Hey look I made a return to youtube!!!!!

[teaganisanawesomepossum]

xanderthepander replied to your post: Taking my parents to counselling helped me if you can't do that try writing them a letter if that doesn't work you may have to cut them off for a bit for the sake of your own mental health.

We did go to counselling together. That didn't go over well very well. Almost the entire time they were attacking my life and not listening. I think the big problem is they don’t listen or understand or want to understand. 

[insipidrainbow]

I hate you for that post I fell for it and omg dude I was scared. It took longer for me to get then i would like to admit.

I HATE ME FOR THAT POST TOO

[deaflepuff]

Hey, I recently started to lose my hearing. I'm having a really hard time understanding some of my friends who talk too fast, too softy, or when they just aren't looking at me. My grandfather is completely deaf in one ear, which is the same ear as my bad ear, and I grew up watching him struggle to understand everything going on around him. He never learned ASL and cut me off after I came out as trans so I really can't go to him for this. I want to learn ASL, I know some but not much. (1/2)

I feel like making deaf or HOH friends would really help me. Not just to learn ASL but also to just not feel so alone. So I'm reaching out to you. I went through your blog and you seem really cool. I hope this didn't weird you out. but I would love to skype with you or any other people in the deaf/ HOH community. If you could help that would be great. (2/2)

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Well first off, let me tell you... You are never alone and you have me, and others who are here for you. I’m always here for you and to talk if ever needed. So are others as well. Second, you didn’t weird me out at all! No way. Weird is good, being weird is fantastic :)

On my page there is a tab on the left side that says “Other Deaf/HOH Tumblrs” which is a list of all the Deaf/HOH Tumblrs on here (The list keeps growing). I have no problem skyping with you or Glide-ing you as well! Either or! I know others are willing to help out too. 

I know what its like having people who just don’t get it... and they should seriously learn to accommodate another person if they want that friendship/family connection to continue. At least be respectful if they must.