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"Our world has been hijacked by political correctness," Ms. Yang- one of China's most popular advice columnists (Author, 'advice dispenser', & former model). "I'm criticized for telling the truth about the differences between men and women."

She compared managing a relationship to taking an examination. "If there's something wrong with the exam, it's not my job to change how it works, but to tell my followers how to take the exam and score a high grade under the existing circumstances."

-Yang Bingyang, also known by her online alias as, Ayawawa

Reference: Karoline Kan- the New York Times, China, Where the Pressure to Marry is Strong, and the Advice Flows Online 6.18.2017

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Ayawawa explains on her WeChat home page, "M.V." stands for male value, "P.U." refers to paternity uncertainty.

She elaborated: "A man's "M.V." [Mate Value] is determined by his age, height, looks, wealth, IQ, emotional quotient [EQ or Emotional Intellegence], sexual capacity and willingness to make a long-term commitment." The eight elements in a woman's M.V. are her "age, looks, height, bra cup size, weight, academic degrees, personality and family background."

As for "P.U." [Paternity Uncertainty], Ayawawa said, "In human evolutionary history, a man's great concern is that he cannot be certain if he is the father of his partner's child." So she advises her female readers: "Don't wear revealing clothes. Don't be always posting pictures of yourself drinking in a bar. Be a lady, speak softly, be modest."

-Yang Bingyang, also known by her online alias as, Ayawawa

Reference: Karoline Kan- the New York Times, China, Where the Pressure to Marry is Strong, and the Advice Flows Online 6.18.2017