Combination of a theory I saw somewhere and something of my own
So someone pointed out that not all Twisteds bear injuries, and in some descriptions, it mentions emotions. They theorized that maybe all the Toons are already infected and just need to be pushed over the edge to transform
Taking that a step further, here's some additions
The ichor incident occurred when all the Toons came in contact with ichor. This caused them to become large, aggressive, and distorted versions of themselves, wreaking havoc on the building. Many members of staff were injured and maybe even killed, and those who remained spoke out about unsafe work conditions, ultimately leading the the center shutting down.
Dandy, the only one with any amount of awareness, desperately wanted people to come back. So, a bit of experimenting on himself layer, he developed a cure. At the first sign of success, he administered it to everyone else, reversing the transformation. However, there were two problems
1. None of the Toons had any recollection of what happened prior to being cured
2. Everyone's bodies became incredibly unstable. The lingering ichor affected their occipital lobes (which controls what they see, hear, and feel. This is, of course, assuming the Toons have brains that function like humans)
Seeing that the humans did not return, Dandy grew even more frantic. He started sending everyone down to harvest tapes, figuring that maybe he'd find something in them he could use, either to bring people back to GardenView or find a way out.
Due to the stress he puts upon himself and the lingering effects from when he was testing potential cures, Dandy often falls ill (hence why Astro and Pebble worry for him). He hides it around everyone except for his two closest friends
The Twisteds that Toons can see are not real. They're just fleeting memories from the ichor incident, sounds and sights the Toons experienced before being cured, not that they know that. Taking damage from those Twisteds is just the Toons growing less stable. Upon losing all 3 hearts, they retreat back to the surface and recieve a new dosage of the cure.
The only Twisted that is real is Dandy, hence why he does 3 hearts of damage rather than 1. He does real damage to Toons, often leading to them having to retreat back to the surface
The lower floors do not actually look the way the Toons perceive them. Once again, this is just the Toons vaguely reliving things they experienced pre-cure. Dandy is the only one who can see what's actually down there, but with him also being highly unstable, a majority of the time, he sees it the same as the others
Dandy is blamed for the ichor incident because someone figured out that he knows more than he lets on. They told everyone else, stirring resentment for him. Astro and Pebble don't (or won't) fully believe it, but Pebble is a dog, and Astro never says anything about it.
Okay, maybe it was more than SOME additions, but it just grew more coherent the more I wrote.
Uh
-🟩 yap anon (or somethin idek if I wanna use an anon tag. I haven't been using one to begin with)
yap anon, stuck in my head anon (new), usaid anon, sapphic ship anon
yap anon
CAS
CAS
CAS
It's yap anon with an update
We hung out
And as we were walking to my house she said that she has to tell me something
She said that it didn't feel right how she told me she liked me so spontaneously back in October and that she's sorry about it and stuff
And in a moment of bravery I said that I should tell her something to
And I told her how I liked her but felt bad cuz I was just after a breakup and I thought it passed but that night in October like made me realise it didn't
And we were just like cool good to know
And I asked if that means she'd like to go out
And she said if you'd like idk I'm not good at this
And so now we are dating or like ITS SOMETHING
this is great news
awww this is so exciting, congratulations! keep communicating, it sounds like you both want the same things, you just have to keep talking to each other <3
PS. saw your other ask, congrats on getting a girlfriend, ahhhh!
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stuck in my head anon (new) CW: abuse
Hi Cas! How are you?
There's something that has been stuck in my head for a few days and i want to share it with you, so here is my rant lol
You know how in the marauders fandom James' parents are tipically portaited as the Best, most loving, mature adults around? Aleays looking out for everyone, etc
Well then why the fuuuuck did they not care about Regulus when Sirius left grimmaul place? Like i kno this part of the story (canon) tends to be changed a lot to fit the fic, sometimed Sirius takes Reg with him, sometimes he leaves but is still in good terms with reg, sometimes reg follows some time lates, whatever; BUT when the fic featires "black brother angst" tipically it means Sirius left and left reggie alone.
So, imagine you are Effie and Monty (perfect, good, kind people right?) and one day your 15/16 yo son's bets friend comes to your house in a panic, in a really bad shape, because of how awfully abusive his parents are, you decide to take him in, he becomes your second son basically, and you know for fucking certain that he has a little brother who must be also sufrering the same abuse, and you WHAT? Just don't give a fuck!? Wtf how could they do that!!!?
Like must fics that focus in reg, explore how the brothers get together and try to fix their relationship, all the 'blame' or discussions of who should have done things differently, it's never never mentioned the fact that the two adults who knew what was going on and were doing something about it just never cared about regulus
All this to say that i don't think they were as good as they were portaited as, because how could they take one brother in and literally give him a brand new good life and leave the other (younger) one to fend for himself
And if you add a little jegulus on top of that, it just makes it more tragic imo
Regulus supremacy forever hahaha
Hi!
I'm not sure if you want a realistic explanation or not but as an adult (in age, if not maturity level) I can give you one!
First, I agree that Effie and Monty are definitely not realistic portrayals of parents. All parents have flaws, and that's important for kids to know. I do think they can do a lot more, thought of course this is all fiction.
HOWEVER
As someone who has been aware of abusive situations before and who has REPORTED abusive situations before, the sad truth is that sometimes it is VERY hard to get children out of abusive situations. The situation with Regulus is actually a very common one: Walburga and Orion were likely very good at hiding any abuse they committed and had a lot of influence on local people. Monty and Effie have NO power, because they are not family members, so they cannot sue for any rights.
This isn't to say abuse shouldn't be reported, and I would hope in this hypothetical case that the Potters did report, but often even when abuse is reported, not much is done because the parents are good at hiding it. Also Regulus could have been taught to lie, for fear of retribution. And if the Potters just showed up and kidnapped him, they would be in BIG trouble. Also many governments are shit at following up, having a good reporting system, etc. We know nothing about the Ministry's system, so there's a lot to think about...
It's a very difficult situation and my heart absolutely breaks for anyone dealing with it IRL
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usaid anon
hello again!
okay, your other ask
I am SO sorry. I can't even imagine living life like that. I have some students who have moved a lot and it breaks my heart to hear about how hard it is to make connections and make friends. I think the worst part is, your parents aren't acknowledging your feelings. Sure, sometimes our parents have jobs that we hate, and I understand to a certain extent that maybe your mom can't change her job right now, but for your parents to just tell you to suck it up? that's so unfair. you have a right to your feelings and they should be respected and acknowledged, even if there's no way to help the situation right now.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way, you deserve recognition of your feelings <3
Also I'm sorry your parents can't do much about the other thing </3 You don't deserve that
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sapphic ship anon
hiii it's sapphic ship anon how are you?
I'm almost pretty sure she likes me as a friend because she kept like hinting like "oh I do these stuff for my friend's it's a normal platonic thing" AND my other friend was trying to help wingman and she was like "why is he trying to be your wingman LOL" BUT he also said "you could probably convince her to like you" when he was talking to her about me and like asking and what not and she said oh really I don't think she (me) like me that way like maybe she's just being nice and I'm over thinking it but anyways have a fantastical day!!! :)
ugh it's so hard because maybe she's just hiding her feelings or maybe she's being honest? I don't know, I'm so awful at this stuff because I ALSO overthink. But keep me updated because I need to know now lol
Ok ok it is me yap anon, and I couldn't help but notice that one of your reblogs that just so happened to mention slapping 😏
So you know my mind got working and I've decided that subby roomate Sukuna is that way to go with this, so lemme lay out the situation >:D
Sukunas being a bastard like usual but this time he has endangered DUN DUN DUNNN bj or Brat.jr and that is our Son OUR CHILD so we get into an argument about his antics and it's like arguing to a brick wall he can't really fathom why we're so upset "it's just a fish?" Is what he would say and then WA BAM (in the comic I'm working on this is the sound for being slapped)
So now we're apologizing for getting heated, and Sukuna is going to hide behind a counter we think it would be to gain distance but NO ITS TO HIDE HIS BONER and like the freak he is, he would most likely jerk off to the thought of us slapping him
He'd probably slap himself while jorking it to try and recreate it- WOAHH WHO SAID THAT
This wind is crazy bro *is currently inside curled up in a blanket fort that rivals medieval castles*
Anyways sorry if I Jumpstart you with this freaky yap but I couldn't hold my silence 😔
HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY/NIGHT :DDD
YAP ANON BABE YOURE GONNA KILL ME DEAD!!! (Positive askskskdks)
Oh my god IMAGINE he got the wrong kind of food for Brat Jr, like he got beta fish food instead of goldfish food by mistake and we’re like “… bro there’s a picture of the fish on the package HOW did you fuck that up??”
So OF COURSE he’s gotta be snippy in return, because he is A Man and cannot admit he made a mistake ASMSMSZM (Men™️ amiright lmfao), love him to death but he can be a total ass sometimes because well, it’s SUKUNA!! “It’s just a fish it’s not a big deal.” But it IS a big deal because this is our baby, even if every time it’s tank cleaning time we nudge Sukuna like “it was YOUR idea to get him so…. You should clean it” we do still love our lil goldfish!!
Maybe he makes some little comment like “If it dies I’ll get you a new one” and we FLIP on him, because how DARE you!!! That’s our SON!!
And he loves being a menace so he jokes like “how do you know it’s still the same fish? Maybe I got a new one while you were gone.” He’s just trying to rile us up for fun, sarcastic smirk plastered on his face but he ends up pushing it too far when we get more angry, making the super smart and bright decision to roll his eyes and mutter “so dramatic” under his breath
MAYBE this is just me but…. PERSONALLY….. I would not hesitate to slap him at that point ASKSKKS
So we WA BAM his face, and he’s SHOCKED into silence, his eyes going wide in surprise and his smug grin dropping like a dead fly. And it’s just SILENT for a little too long, cogs turning in both our heads and his but for two TOTALLY different reasons.
On OUR end, our thoughts are “oh fuck oh shit why did I do that”
But on HIS end he’s thinking “fuck that was hot. Why was that hot”
I LOVE the idea of him not knowing he was into it before that moment, just giving him complete whiplash in surprise. The tips of his ears turn pink and he basically BOLTS behind the kitchen counter because this has gotta be the most inconvenient time to be wearing grey sweatpants, so he presses his hips flush against the counter to try and hide his dick cause he’s getting hard 😵💫
We’re apologizing PROFUSELY, saying that we crossed the line and it won’t happen again; but he’s having trouble paying attention and just goes “mhm” and turns on his heel to go up to his room. We think he’s PISSED, like he can’t even look at us but we are so so wrong
And oh my GOD your idea with him slapping himself while jerking off wAIT YOURE ONTO SOMETHING!!!! 😵💫😵💫😵💫
I can’t decide which scenario I like better: either him imaging us being rough with him in bed and he ends up instinctively slapping himself without even realizing for a second, ORR him actively deciding to slap himself to try to recreate it and he keeps hesitating and trying to gauge how much force to put behind it MMMMMPPPHHH
I’ve had this ask eating my brain for the past week u have no idea likE!!! THE IDEA IS SO HOTTT AAAA I LOVE IT
I hope u have a LOVELY DAYYYY THANK U FOR THE FOOD YAP ANON ASKSKSM
y'know Martyr's(that 1x4 skin) kill anim for shed got me thinking about something.. Spectre probably dont care how survivors getting killed. like Martyr's kill anim for shed is least violent out there. She.. just headbutt him and slaps him. realistically,(imo) shed probably just going to have bad brain damage but alive! lol
yap anon
[ threw this together fast as i could. if anyone has notes on how shedletsky is gonna be killed, it’s gonna be 1x trust]
[spectre on the other hand, doenst care much long as the dude dies yk, all in a days work]
hey, cas. its intrusive thiughts anon. how sre you?
dont have anything sad really this time because life's just been getting shittier and i just dont have the energy anymore
BUTTTT ive been watching this anime (my first!!) cz my bsf really liked it and its this girl stidying art in london pre ww1 and whilst the show is nice, its making me wish id gotten to persue my dreams instead of what my parents wanted.
ANYWAYSSSSSSSS
i was also asked by a teacher to contribute to this thing we have at our school (translated to hope diaries) which is released once a year. the theme this year was empathy and idk if i did well. ny friend (red) liked it but idk if its acc good.
Hi!
I didn't copy the whole thing, just for space reasons, but WOW those poems were amazing. I think the point of poetry is to make people feel emotion and when you reread you get something different each time, and you definitely did that. amazing!
I'm sorry that the anime is making you feel sad. Remember that it's never too late to pursue new things- even if you're, like, 80 and retired. <3
Yes, feel free to send me a private ask! Just remind me to reply privately or I won't remember.
Sending love!
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mirrorball anon
Hi!
I think there's a difference between letting something go, and processing the emotions behind it. I've had a lot of shit happen to me as well, and I can't say I'll ever let it go in the sense that I'm no longer affected by it at ALL...but I can say that through talking, distance, time, and therapy, it no longer debilitates me or negatively affects my life.
Your past will always be a part of you, but it doesn't have to define you, you know? <3
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hijabi anon
Hi cas!!!
Not sure if you remember but I was hijabi anon (I believe?) and I think the last time I sent a ask was nearly a year ago.
I just wanted to update and kinda just rant a bit. I figured out I wasn’t bi but actually a lesbian and I don’t think I’ll ever want to marry a man (there goes my plan to fall in love with a man eventually and keep my family ig lol) and realizing that was a hard pill to swallow but I can’t help the cards I’ve been dealt. But better news the cousin I mention in my last ask that I was pretty sure was a very fierce ally it turns out she’s lesbian too.I ways kinda always sure she was queer and was so happy to get confirmation when I came out to her this summer(it was more like me making her come out to me??? It’s a funny story lol we went out and i just asked her if she liked girls and it scared the shit out her and she said “don’t out me” and I was like “only if you don’t out me” and that how we both came out to each other) and it’s been amazing not being the only queer person in the family im able to have someone in my real life to talk about this without worrying and since she’s older than me and has been able to do so much things I haven’t even allowed myself to imagine for my future it makes me so excited now to think I can do it.
Sorry that this is very ranty and might not make the most sense 😭😭
Hi!! oh, it makes me so happy to hear you have someone t talk about this with and to support you. I think having a support system is SO important, especially when navigating being queer in a space that isn't always accepting. I'm so glad you have more hope now, I'm really glad to get this update! <3
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important exam anon
Hey, I talked to my mom just now and honestly she was very understanding more than I thought she would be, it's obviously a difficult situation but her comfort was very calming. She said I could do whatever I need to do whether that's taking a gap year or carrying on and trying to study my year again she'll support me and I just wanna thank you for your words because I don't think it would've come to me even talking to her if it wasn't for you. I think I'll be fine. Thank you Cas.
-important exam anon
awww, I'm so glad it worked out!! it makes me so happy to hear that your mom was understanding and supportive. you deserve that support, especially when you're feeling low. I hope things continue to improve!! remember, you are worth so much more than one score! <3
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yap anon
CAS
It's yap anon
Yesterday I was at a duke of Edinburgh meeting it's some award thing u can do here and my best friend (the one I like) was there too along with our friend from our guiding unit
And we started yapping about valentine's day and we were all just like yapping about being single again for valentine's and then my best friend says something along the lines of "maybe you will have someone, maybe they'll find you tomorrow or Sunday or Monday" and it seemed like a joke right
But we are hanging out tomorrow. Sunday
And yo what if something happens like I may be reading into it too much but like do you see what I see
Am I going insane
oh my gosh I'm terrible at reading subtle clues like that. maybe??? I honestly have no idea. you have to keep me updated though, now I want to know!! good luck!
I want to send you so much love <3 I know how awful it feels, to be in this space. But you are still here for a reason, and even though life feels like shit right now, I promise you, things will change. You are a good person who is struggling and it breaks my heart to hear how sad you are. I am sending you so many hugs and I hope you are able to find some happy parts of your birthday. My inbox is always open for venting <3
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happy anon (new)
my friend said i get too excited / happy over little things but it's those small things that make life so nice!! like omg look i got a shiny coin in my change today!!! i'm going out with her later!! my soup was as hot as i like it!! (hot enough to feel as it goes down your throat) like idt there's anything wrong with that it's just nice to feel happy in general!! or maybe it's just them Idk :/
There's nothing wrong with that at all! Don't let other people dull your sparkle, it sounds like you're celebrating the little things in life and I think a lot of us need to do that more!
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yap anon
Cas it's yap anon again
How do I start a conversation to tell someone about my thoughts
Like it's nothing bad I just feel like there's been some shift between me and my friend and I've had thoughts that they'll realise they don't have a lot in common with me and they'll leave for the new people theyve met and it worries me cuz I really value the friendship yk
I don't know how to talk about it without seeming like needy and jealous yk
honestly, in these cases, usually I just wait for a moment where the other person isn't caught up in something and then I say "hey is now a good time to talk about something?"
I think it's important to ACTUALLY find a good time to talk about feelings- like don't do it in a busy or emotional moment, because that's just asking for it to go bad. But once you find a good moment, you have every right to share your feelings and ask for reassurance!
Also with the message- I can see how you would feel brushed off. That might be something to bring up as well!
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lesbian girlfriend anon (new)
Hey Cas, so I have a priblem
My girlfriend of 6 months, didn't broke up with me, though I said I think I am a man 3 months ago. Right now I am certain I am a guy. It took 2 months to be certain.
And my girlfriend is lesbian. She said she could never date a man.
And I don't know what's worse, her seeing me as a girl still, or her breaking up with me.
And I know for a fact she is not interested in men. At all. I asked recently if she was.
I don't know what I should do
Hi!
okay this is a tough one, but I really think that you need to talk with her about this more. Like you need to spell it out to her. "I am a man. You say you are not interested in men. If this is true, we need to break up."
The problem is, cis people don't always understand the nuance of gender. A lot are willing to learn, but sometimes they need to be taught. And as much as it sucks to have to teach them, it may be that she is genuinely unaware she is doing something hurtful. I'm not making excuses, it's just...I've spoken with so many people like this before. Cis people often have the privilege of not NEEDING to know a lot about the nuance of gender.
So you have to set boundaries: "I am a man. If you are not interested in men, we need to break up. If you are interested in me, you need to see me as a man, and change the language you use. You also need to do some research and learning about trans people." And if she decides she still likes you and is, therefore, interested in some men? Great! As long as she changes her verbiage and educates herself (and you still want her) then there's no reason why you can't be together. But if not...you might have to be the person to rip off that band-aid, I'm afraid.
yap anon, not so freshman anon, september 28th anon (new)
yap anon
Cas
I think I like my best friend
Remember how I told you my best friend said she likes me a few months ago and I said I didn't like her. That friend.
I always have like mixed feelings when it comes to this stuff cuz I'm not very romantically like idk I don't think about it often. I didn't have my first crush till like 12. Anyways
Idk what to do cuz recently she's been in like a bad place with mental health and I'm scared that I'm getting stuff mixed up but again I feel like I do like her and idk how to deal with it cuz I told myself not to date friends after what happened with my last girlfriend.
MERRY CHRISTMAS BTW
-Yap anon
Hi! Merry christmas!
I think in this case it's extra important to take some time to think through your feelings. Remember you don't have to do anything right away- give yourself some time and space to think through how you feel and what you want. You obviously care about your friend and want to do right by her so don't rush making a decision, you know? It's okay to give yourself time to think <3
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not so freshman anon
hey cas! it's not so freshman anon
if im completely honest with you, apart from writing asks to you i dont really use tumblr much
im bisexual most probably (i had a phase this summer where i was..in a weird form of denial? and just.. preferred to call myself "straight" because it was "easier"?) (let's not even)
while obviously i dont identify with that version of me anymore, i don't really think im the most comfortable telling EVERYONE im queer? like people who haven't heard of my dating rumours with my ex or something? but im not exactly subtle about my queerness either.
ive always been a huge fan of heartstopper and now that exams are over, i have a bit of free time so ive been reading 300+ paged books in under 2-3 hours which is insane because i was in such a reading slump before. idk if you're much of an alice oseman fan but I just finished reading radio silence and I love it so so so much.
i think ive honestly wasted a lot of time just, doomscrolling. and i don't mean it in a "i should be spending every second studying" kind of way, i just mean it in an "i need to exist without instagram" type of way
online addiction is something ive been struggling with since 2020, i used to be a huge bookworm but due to the lockdown I got my mom's old phone for school and i used to play roblox? and my addiction got really bad but i stopped.
after roblox i got an instagram account and fun fact, it was a nymphadora tonks fanpage because I felt like she was so overlooked (still do) (also her purple hair seemed so badass to me)
and that was around the 7th grade so AY 2022-23. and now it's almost 2026
i deactivated my instagram for my exams and honestly this is the first time that after a deactivation ive honestly not enjoyed doomscrolling as much. honestly I don't know how to explain it but all of my 11th grade friends say that you do go through a pretty significant mental transition during the boards period
i thought they were kidding because we go through exams every year but honestly, they were right
i think i overall have a little bit more discipline? i no longer shut off my alarm and go back to sleep, i actually wake up and i am a pretty solid morning person now because I wake up by 6:30 and I get those two hours to myself before my parents wake up
also, i think im a bit calmer now? and kiwi whole heartedly agrees
i used to freak out at minor inconveniences, crash out and just. yeah. but I think I've become much calmer now - my whole "im gonna practice stoicism" thing was only half a joke
also
i have this really good friend, m&m, she lives in the same apartment complex as me and we've known each other since I was in the 3rd grade and she was in the 4th. her best friend is donut and technically ive known donut since we were quite little - we used to go to the same dance class and when I was in the 8th grade and she was in the 9th, we were in a club together but we weren't particularly close. it's only this year when we got much closer and it just sort of happened.
i really really like donut (as a FRIEND. COMPLETELY PLATONIC) because I feel like we are kind of similar in some aspects - actually I kinda thought we were more similar but after getting to know her better I think we're a bit less similar but still pretty similar
my best friends (my quartet) are pretty similar to me personality wise like they reflect different parts of me in different ways, my long distance best friend is my complete opposite personality wise but we share some interests but donut and i just seem very similar in a way that I can't explain? like yes personality wise and also interest wise it's like we're very growy into each other's interests (this isn't english anymore let me explain)
my long distance bsf and i have similar interests but oftentimes contrasting opinions. we may like the same universe but we have very different views sometimes but with donut, it's like somehow we can both accept and perceive eachothers views? with ldbsf we fight LMAO but it's fun
im glad im friends with donut now <3
anyway i had a major social burnout this week - i was actually crying. i just met so many people in such a short amount of time (8 people in 3 days) and honestly, it seemed like a dream but even tho I love these 8 people so much I was honestly just. dead.
now I've always hated being alone, i hate going to the washroom alone and stuff but while I was recovering from my burnout, i found myself to actually enjoy being alone
i multitask a lot because it "keeps me occupied" like I'll watch Netflix while writing notes because otherwise I'll get "bored" but honestly I think I've been overstimulating my brain way too much
i want to understimulate my overstimulated brain and follow the whole reverse 2026 thing - where people are going offline? physical media? have you heard of it? i think the idea's pretty cool
anyway i just think I've grown more in these past few weeks than I have in the entirety of 2025 and I'm excited to make 2026 worthwhile and genuinely interesting and not have my eyes glued to my phone :)
Hi!
Wow, it does sound like you've gone through a lot of maturing and changing lately, in great ways. And I think, at your age and with what you're doing right now, that sounds natural. You're slowly transitioning to the adult world and realizing things you didn't know as a child- and with that comes a lot of wisdom. I haven't heard about the reverse 2026 thing but honestly it sounds great- I haven't used instagram or facebook for years and I'm trying not to use tiktok as much because I agree, there's so many negative effects. I think social media can be good to keep in touch and up to date, but it's also so detrimental to mental health...if you come back on tumblr at any point, I'd love to hear how things go for you in the new year! sending you love!
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september 28th anon (new)
Idk if I’m dramatic, but I’m this 🤏 close to crashing out on my “best friend.” I haven’t seen her since September 28th. (I only know the day because it was the day after my birthday, which she couldn’t attend because she had homecoming.) Anyway, she got a boyfriend like a week after that and they’re like inseparable or something. So, we finally got to hangout two days ago at a mutual friends house and she spent the whole time talking about her boyfriend. At one point she was moping and talking about how she was so sad because she hasn’t seen him in four days. I said, “You haven’t seen me and -other friend- in three months.” Her response to that? “Well I haven’t made out with you.” I didn’t know what to say so I just said, “Yet,” which she laughed at before changing the subject. And then she moped more because he hadn’t snapped her back in an hour. I’m kind of fed up with her because she barely texts back and then when I finally see her all she talks about is her boyfriend. I talked to my mom and sister about it and they both said that it’s okay for her to act like that because having a boyfriend is new and exciting. (She’s dated before.) Idk. I just feel like if I had a boyfriend and hadn’t seen my friends in three months, I would spend our hangout actually being there with them instead of being upset my boyfriend hasn’t snapped me back in an hour and I haven’t seen him in four days. It just feels insensitive to me to act like that to your supposed best friends.
Hi!
Okay so I think the thing is- yes, having a boyfriend IS new and exciting and all that. BUT it's no excuse to completely dump your friends. I think you have a right to feel upset and abandoned. I'm sure your friend is very much caught up in the whirlwind of her new relationship which is totally valid, but she does still have to keep up her friendships if she doesn't want to lose you. Have you tried like...seriously sitting her down and saying "this is hurting me. I feel like we aren't friends anymore" and seeing what she says? Because I feel like you need to make sure to communicate that she is seriously hurting your friendship. If you do that and she still brushed it off...that's unfortunately her poor choice and I think you have every right to be mad at that. I'm sorry you're dealing with this </3
