In the opposite vein to most of the asks you get, I would like to thank you for running this blog because it reminds me that I am, in fact, a Very picky eater and I need to accommodate for that for myself. There are so very many foods in this world that other people love that I could not eat if there was a gun to my head, and I am glad those foods exist for everyone that loves them :)
I love this, I rarely get asks with this view! You're definitely not alone tho anon, there are some really picky people following me, and I love them all!
Ilya is as obsessed with Shane's dick as Shane is with his. This dude has talked about Shane's dick much more than he has talked about Shane's ass, which is ironic. [edit: if we include their texts, he mentions Shane's ass quite a bit] And every time he blows Shane, he sticks that dick so far down his throat, for long that he never misses a single drop. (devoted king)
Then, he has a full blown "what-are-we conversation" with one hand around Shane's dick and never once, does it occur to him to let it go. His other hand fidgets, he grabs Shane's hair, he stutters, he's uncomfortable, he wants to be anywhere else, but do you know what never wavers????
The steady hand that he has wrapped around Shane's dick.
Ayo??? Aro is trending? I wonder why- haha oh wow I wish i didnt see that today!
Hi! Aromantic individuals, you're welcome in the lgbtqia+ space. You're welcome here. I hope you find a positive space and feel safe.
It truly hurts my heart to see other people of lgbtq identities hurt their own. Why do people have to compare and gatekeep a community based on the amount of prejudice placed against them? I am a biromantic asexual, there are things I may be confused about regarding aromantic identities, but it costs literally nothing to respect them and offer a place of solace. Nothing!!!
"Well they never went through this." And they shouldn't fucking have to. None of the lgbtqia+ should have to go through atrocities and horrible situations in order to be accepted. None.
I say this a lot to myself and my friends as well: you're allowed to be upset about things that other people may think to be a "minor" issue. Shit is still shit. Everyone naturally goes through different levels of bullshit. It doesn't make you any less of who you truly are or devalue the trials you went through in life.
You're cis and aro? You belong. You're trans and aro? You belong. Aroallo? You belong. Aroace? Belong. Demi, lithio, grey, cupio, abro? You belong. Any fucking identity???? You should be allowed to belong.
Aphobes? Go outside. Take a breath of air. Get off the internet for a while. Why does someone have to go through as much shit as you or more in order to be seen as "acceptable?" In this world, we should make living in it as easy as possible. Not harder. It's awful when I see some claiming that aros have no prejudice against them, only by saying that, they literally create prejudice. Yikes! Be kind. Accepting. It's really not that hard to simply let others be.
The People(tm) aren't gonna like this, but I'm pretty sure the Bishops are siblings via being in-laws and/or step siblings lol
Someone. Got married. That is just. What all roads point to. An ice-related deity and a fire-related deity, seemingly. Cyan and Red. Marriage is such a key factor in cult of the lamb, they went ahead and hosted two real weddings. And there's definitely a reason why it was specifically two.
There's a few different ways the Bishops could be grouped based on the info available, but what matters is that two of them belonged to one deity/cult; and two of them belonged to the other deity/cult. Narinder is the child "born" from their Union.
The result of the Phoenix and the Turtle Dove. A cross between a mortal and an immortal. And it's not that they popped into the mating tent and found themselves an egg, Narinder was most likely created through their deaths. Instead of reviving, what rose from their ashes was him. Something entirely new that is both them and also not them. A Phoenix still, because he's immortal, but uh, weird.
It's also probably why the devs are always tee-heeing about NariLamb. A version of Narinder was smitten with, and married a version of lamb. Just not the Lamb we play as or the Narinder we usurp--
Narinder, as a Phoenix, then proceeded to do the same thing, making him The One Who Waits. Or maybe he got thrown in the fight pit.
Depending on the specific relationship the Bishop's had with their respective deity, it would make Narinder either their step sibling or their in law. Who is also made of their sibling or parent/parental figure.
Or they're not siblings at all since the "marriage" between the Phoenix and the Turtle Dove is metaphorical—
Oh.
Yeah. Yeah, I guess that's what Jojo meant by "metaphorical siblings".
So the alternative is that Narinder is just Some Guy who's a bastardization of someone they all cherished, that they kinda just had to learn to love. Steven Universe style.
I haven't visited your blog in two weeks (thanks to my computer crashing), but I'm back! and with a request~ As you know, SE saeran is my favorite of all the Saeran and Lila is my favorite! So I thought, if I like both, why choose one? I love you both! And now I'm curious, what would a relationship with Saeran and Lila be like at the same time?
In the context of the world post-Secret Ending, Saeran and Lila have been through so much. They've been each other's rock during some of the hardest moments of their lives, and they've come out of those experiences with long-lasting scars that have made it difficult to trust other people with their vulnerable sides.
Lila's somewhat more open to trusting other people if only because she knew deep down that there had to be someone out there who made more sense than Rika... and she was never committed to the lies sold by paradise. She was committed to Unknown's dream and that in itself was Rika's downfall because Wisteria wanted what was best for him rather than what was best for Mint Eye. It's why she let Saeyoung, Minji, and Judas know information about him despite all the factors that should've made her wary of listening to them, much less talking to them.
She trusted those three more than Rika, and that's saying a lot. It's how they got out of Mint Eye in her timeline. Wisteria lied to Rika to buy them time to get out and she paid for it with torture that didn't stop until they were brought back to Mint Eye after Unknown took that spare phone to get back to Magenta.
Whereas, Saeran doesn't know how to trust other people in general. He never knows when someone is lying to him because he's spent his entire life being lied to by better for "his own good". People made him do this, do that, and sent him packing without explaining anything to him. He's been robbed of his autonomy so often that finally being told that he can decide what he wants for himself OVERWHELMS HIM. I can't blame him for feeling that way!
How can he trust that someone has his best interest at heart when he's accustomed to being told that he can't decide what to do with himself? It takes a lot for him to be willing to trust another person, unfortunately, and if you weren't involved with Saeran and Lila during Mint Eye, I have a hard time imagining how they could both welcome another partner into their dynamic without there being some kind of messy business. I see it being more plausible in Another Story, but it isn't completely impossible for Original Story.
But, for the sake of it, let's not speculate on how or why you met them or the factors that brought you together since you didn't ask about that. Let's instead focus on what it would be like to date both SE Saeran and Lila if you did get involved with them. What would it be like to be between them?
It's simple, quiet, and comfortable. Communication is the healthiest part of this relationship. Saeran and Lila both have hard boundaries that need to be respected. Saeran HATES being cornered, you have to give him breathing room. He likes being with his partners, but he doesn't like having people on top of him without having asked for it. Parallel play is a big thing for him. He likes being in the same room as his partners, doing his own thing, because there's no obligation to be this or that.
He can just... exist. He's more comfortable with people who know what he likes and don't try to force him to be something he's not! Listen, he'll hold your hand, he'll cuddle with you, and he'll kiss you when he's ready, but... he needs time to mentally prepare for those things. "It's not that I don't enjoy being with you, but... I can't just... drop my guard and be 'lovey-dovey' like the movies all the time... I need space because these emotions are huge and overwhelm me. You are important to me, but... if it bothers you that I can't hold your hand or kiss you all the time, I would rather you find someone who can love you the way you deserve instead of asking you to wait for me."
Lila gets overwhelmed when people force her to hold eye contact. She forced herself to do that all the time in Mint Eye, and apart from Saeran who she learned how to be comfortable with simply because he didn't pressure her to do it, she gets antsy if people start staring at her and don't tell her why they're staring. It's a byproduct of what she went through as a little girl, unfortunately. She's made herself smaller for years to get by, but it never made people stop trying to shrink her down further.
She doesn't want to feel like she's under a microscope. Just let her breathe and explain what is and isn't okay for her comfort. She's not saying, "Don't look at me!" she's saying, "I get nervous when people stare at me and don't say why. It's fine if you're admiring me, but... I need to know... I need to know... otherwise it feels like my mother or Rika are going to punish me for making a mistake... I don't like to be on edge, I'm sorry."
As long as you can work through that, you're not going to have a lot of issues in that regard. As far as dates go, they're homebodies for the most part unless Saeran wants to go lay in the grass at the park and stare at the clouds, or Lila wants to have fancy tea and cakes in a tea room. It's not as if they're opposed to doing things, but... after all they've been through, it's nice to just not do anything and relax in the dark. You could be the one to make some suggestions, though! Help them get back out there slowly... since it's hard to know how to really immerse yourself in a healthy way.
You don't want to jump into an amusement park date with these two right out of the gate. You'd want to build up to something like that in smaller increments.
Cuddling with these two is very specific as well. This Saeran is a little spoon for a reason. He's afraid of lashing out, hitting, or kicking in his sleep. There are often nights when he sleeps alone because he's not in a good place and he doesn't want to hurt anyone. So, for this very reason, he's always the little spoon, and Lila has made a point of not holding onto him too tightly unless he asks for it. So, if you think you would be into that, just know this means you're making a Lila in-the-middle sandwich, LOL.
Lila likes to dress you up. I hope you're into that. If you're not, that's okay, but she would really appreciate it if you would wear this silly hat she got you! It's her love language... she likes to take care of her loved ones and gift them things that remind her of them. She's not used to the reverse, though.
Saeran likes sitting next to you when you get ice cream. Occasionally, he'll offer you his hand while he funnels ice cream into his mouth with glee (it's one of the few times you'll see him lower his guard), and you can play with his fingers or squeeze his digits without a care. It's nice. He likes it.
