#zeromantic

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Alloromantic Lesbian Pride Flag

Alloromantic (alloro) or zedromantic: not aromantic; allorospec (alloro spectrum); experiencing regular full romantic attraction regardless of circumstances, typically directional; or, simply, feeling romantically attracted.

Lesbian: gay wlw, homo qlw, or gai nblw; experiencing queer attraction to women; faunic/daunic (nmlnm); homo sapphic or gay primlunic (nblw or wlnb); gay/homo experience tied to womanhood.

Romo: short/slang for romantic, romanticism, or romance.

Alloromantic Sapphic Pride Flag

Sapphic: woman loving/dating women (wlw/wdw), and adjacent groups, such as some nonbinary people loving/dating women (nlm/ndw or nblw/nbdw) and queer people loving/dating women (qlw/qdw); an umbrella term grouping gay women, lesbians, bi/pan women, m-spec and a-spec women attracted at least to women in some way, women experiencing non-romantic non-senxual attraction to women who consider it an important part of their orientation, and some trixic people who want to be/consent being included.

Comment: these flags are useful for those who feel being romantic or alloromantic is relevant to their identity thus feel the need for representing this with a flag combo. And this is inclusive of alloaces as well.

[allconsumingworms]

Does anyone else ever get tired of going through the aromantic tag, only to see posts about having crushes or fantasizing about being in a romantic relationship?

Why the hell is it called the aromantic spectrum/umbrella if literally everyone in it except actual 100% non-romantic aromantics experience some kind of romantic attraction, or have the capability of doing so?

Don't get me wrong, greyromantics and demiromantics (and everyone else under the so-called arospec umbrella) are valid people with valid identities. I don't dispute that.

But it feels like a miscategorization to put people who can experience romantic attraction and who have experienced romantic attraction under the same label as those who have not and never will. That's a huge but important distinguishing factor between 100% non-romantic aromantics and allos.

[varioriented-pride]

Hey, are you the person who made the AlloAce flag? I design Pride Flags into Magical Kids, and and AlloAce was requested, but I’m trying to credit the right person.

yup, we were the first and most popular one, it's true. but there are other flags as well, some are very similar to ours. we love when other people use our flags, please do so.

Alloromantic Asexual

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Alloromantic Gay Man/Romo Veldian Pride Flag

Alloromantic (alloro) or zedromantic: not aromantic; allorospec (alloro spectrum); experiencing regular full romantic attraction regardless of circumstances, typically directional; or, simply, feeling romantically attracted.

Gay: experiencing attraction to the same gender/sex; (as an umbrella term or through reclaiming glances) experiencing queer sexuality, orientation, attraction, or relationship; homo.

Veldian: a term for gaylm (virsians/virsics) and gay achilleans/vincians; homo mlm/gai nlm (torians/gay torics/gae nblm); floric violaens and cinthean vincians.

Romo: short/slang for romantic, romanticism, or romance

Alloromantic Achillean/Romo Vincian Pride Flag

Achillean (or vincian): man loving/dating men (mlm/mdm), and adjacent groups, such as some nonbinary people loving/dating men (nlm/ndm or nblm/nbdm) and queer people loving/dating men (qlm/qdm); an umbrella term grouping gay men, veldians, bi/pan men, m-spec and a-spec men attracted at least to men in some way, men experiencing non-romantic non-senxual attraction to men who consider it an important part of their orientation, and some toric people who want to be/consent being included.

Comment: these flags are useful for those who feel being romantic or alloromantic is relevant to their identity thus feel the need for representing this with a flag combo. And this is inclusive of alloaces as well.

[randomsaucewritings]

To the girl I fell in love with a long long time ago.

I’m sorry for the person I was. Lord knows I probably made it very hard for you to trust people. It’s not fair for me to say but I didn’t know any better. If I could go back and teach myself the ways to be a better boyfriend, to learn to be patient and understanding and accepting of who we were I would have. Instead you got the selfish, cold hearted and rude boy who dated you. You’re still the only girl I’ve ever been in love with. Four years, now isn’t it? Wow how time flies. I honestly haven’t thought about this in a long time, I haven’t thought about you in a long time but I feel it needs discussing. 

I have in the past sent you anonymous messages on your tumblr wishing you well but I could never assume you knew it was me. I really hope you’re happier and in a better place than where you were in high school. I hope you’ve found people that make you happy and a partner that’s done the same. 

I’d love to talk to you, just to see how you’ve been, how much you’ve grown and changed. I want to talk about those few months we were together. Sometimes I wonder if they meant as much to you as they did to me... 

Sometimes I miss you, or at least, what my brain remembers of you. It’s funny how you once said that I’d leave you behind, that once I came here I’d dump you and you’d be alone. I wonder how much you believed that, because for a while I thought about it, but then I realized I loved you so much I’d make the stupid plan work. 

I’m sort of glad we ended, if anything so that you could meet better guys, guys who knew how to treat you better. Poetic right? 

Would you even recognize me now? Honestly if you saw me would you tell that’s the boy you dated for 2 months 3 weeks 4 days? 

I’ve realized after a long time that we really fucked each other up. Once again, I’m so sorry, I wish I could have prevented that. I also realized there will never be a part of me that won’t stop loving you. It’s a part that gets smaller every day as more and more expireince and life and time and distance makes the total bigger, but it’s like cutting an apple in half over and over. You can do it till infinity but there will be some remnants of the apple. Honestly, I’m okay with that. 

I hope I didn’t fuck up your trust issues too badly. Sometimes I hope that the things you said were true and that there weren’t any feelings. It means that you came out okay, strange as that sounds. 

Anyway, I have class tomorrow. It’s 3:45. I should sleep. 

Maybe life will throw us in the mix again someday, and we can finally chat. 

Or not. 

Love you. 

Zeman 

[randomsaucewritings]

I'm going to start saying "kiss me harder"

Because why not?

[randomsaucewritings]

Get out of your head Zeman.

Go to sleep

[randomsaucewritings]

What?

It's weird, to miss someone you haven't met yet. To imagine how that person would interact in the situation you're in with you. To miss the person who just makes it better. I realize though, that this can't be a person I know, but it's an ideal. It'll probably never be lived up to because falling for ideals is incredibly unhealthy. I don't know. I'm just feeling lonely and this is my 10th beer tonight. Gah damn this time of year. It always brings out the mushy side of me.