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hiinalia-deactivated20240305

Need me a freak like this

impulsive-ly

Linnea Sterte

https://www.inprnt.com/gallery/turndecassette/

Cassandra Calin

the bravery of a girl who has to decide what is for dinner and then cook it and then wash dishes every day forever and ever.

touching-living-breathing

That's called being an adult

fairycosmos

no it’s called being the bravest girl on planet earth

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ptactwo

i still find it so genuinely Weird when i think about the fact that fat people irl are a rather common occurrence. your family, your friends, your coworkers, people on the bus, random passerbys - there are fat people there. usually often. but when you look at Any form of media - movies, tv shows, video games, books are more complicated as not a visual medium but there too, fat people are almost nonexistent. one fat person for the whole movie. one fat person in the background of your fictional city. this is so insanely unrealistic but at the same time nobody comments on this and "we" accept it as normal!! and then people even think their own fatness makes them into some rare failure instead of one of the incredibly common body situations. crazy

reasonandempathy

Our system is broken. It is cruel. It is dehumanizing, degrading, and it’s vile nature is so, so unnecessary.

We need universal healthcare today in America. We needed it 40 years ago. It’s cheaper, it’s simpler, it’s more efficient, it’s more effective and it is so, so, so much less cruel than what we have.

Additional sources/references:

Universal Healthcare Cost in America would be cheaper by trillions of dollars

The US has worse life expectancies than socialized healthcare countries

We have worse generalized healthcare results

We have the most expensive care

Our system is so cruel and unique that doctors from other countries literally can’t believe what happens here

I can’t tell you where or how to activate to help solve this. There are politicians, groups, and activists pushing for this in so many ways. I can tell you when, though.

Now.

black-white-and-leather

A girl can hope

This 🥃

@keisukeyokobari

Tweet by Doug Murano that appealed to this guy.

papillion-noire-blog

He insists on punishments only. He refuses the application of a safe word indicating that he has never allowed a safe word before with his previous subs. He demands submission. Then he calls me unfit to be a submissive because I asked why he isn’t taking the time to learn me, put safety protocols in place or ease into the relationship so we can trust each other and then dive deeper. He demands consistency and discipline from me and exercises none himself.

Am I going insane here? When did obedience come before trust? How is submission not earned but demanded? What did I do wrong? How does that make me not submissive material?

@instructor144, @submissive-seeking, @thetriskeliondiaries, @the-faculty and others help me understand, please.

Thank you in advance for your thoughts and feedback.

submissive-seeking

He’s right – this shit isn’t gonna work.

But, yes, I can help you understand.

This is not a man who understands the Power Exchange in the slightest.

He is not safe.

He is at the very least domineering, but more likely a lying narcissist.

He blames his failures on you by attempting to shame and name call.

“…unfit to be a submissive …” is the fake dom version of 16 year old boy saying “If you loved me, you would…”

Here’s some handy memes to add to your collection.

The first one is the answer about safewords.