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GENERAL
heterosexual. bisexual. homosexual. pansexual. demisexual. asexual.
enjoys sex with men. enjoys sex with women. enjoys sex with nonbinary persons. (enjoys sex with monsters/creatures.)
enjoys sex with one partner. enjoys sex with two partners. enjoys sex with multiple partners.
prefers experienced partners. prefers moderately experienced partners. prefers inexperienced partners.
one night stands. friends / enemies with benefits. serious relationships.
private locations. public locations. unconventional locations. nature oriented locations. elaborate: he likes to perform for his partners' benefit just as much as he likes to have his partners all to himself, and he's got very little overall shame when it comes to expressing sexual desire. if it's potentially interesting, if there's a bit of thrill to it, if there's a lot of potential seating arrangements, he's in. he can sometimes be too go-with-the-flow, to the point of poorly communicating his intentions or level of commitment, but shows better than he tells and is good at swiftly self-correcting if made aware of any uncertainty.
THE LIGHT STUFF
submissive. dominant. switch.
top. bottom. power bottom. soft top. switch. service top. service bottom.
initiates. does not initiate.
no sex drive. low sex drive. average sex drive. high sex drive. hypersexual.
likes to kiss. be kissed. make out. be made out with.
vaginal sex. anal sex. oral sex. intercrural sex.
clothed sex. partially clothed sex. naked sex. lingerie/kink specific clothing. extra notes: he's often the one to initiate, but he also loves to tease / goad / provoke others into initiating first or upping the ante. in a good mindset, he enjoys slow, intimate, passionate sex with lots of foreplay, and gets off on servicing his partner more than being serviced himself. it can be something of a point of pride for him to get someone off with their clothes still on, so if the opportunity arises to try, he will almost always jump on it.
THE MEDIUM STUFF
general — having toys used on them. using toys on their partner. using a plug. using a plug on partner. being worshipped. worshipping. having their hair pulled. pulling hair. wax play. power exchange. sensation play.
touch — handjobs. fingering. mutual masturbation. likes to be spanked. likes to spank. scratching. being scratched. bruising. being bruised.
oral — cunnilingus. fellatio. anilingus. likes to bite (to the point of bruising). likes to be bitten (to the point of bruising).
sounds — silent. grows in volume. loud. fakes/exaggerates. swears. calls partner’s name. bites to muffle themselves. prefers a quiet partner. prefers a loud partner. prefers dirty talk. give praise. receive praise. being teased. teasing. likes to be humiliated/degraded. likes to humiliate/degrade. calling partner daddy/mommy. being called daddy/mommy.
sight — likes to be watched. likes to watch. third party witness. being blindfolded. blindfolding.
binding — likes to be held down. likes to hold down. likes to be tied up. likes to tie up. wear a collar. make their partner wear a collar. wear a leash. make their partner wear a leash.
toys (make a list) — vibrators, plugs, gags, open-mouth gags, flogs, chains. extra notes: generally prefers skin contact to toys, but doesn't mind teasing a partner with one if requested. looooves to talk, he will not shut up until someone makes him (usually in the hopes that someone will make him). he has an oral fixation that he has not quite realized & that he usually forgets about until someone is already occupying or requesting the use of his mouth; it continually catches him by surprise how much he enjoys it. he's a giver by nature, and prefers to focus on his partner's satisfaction before his own (big-time worshipper), but he's also not shy about demanding what he wants if he's feeling neglected or impatient. surprisingly, he's not much of a show-off in bed unprompted, but would thrive on being shown off under the right circumstances. he has an intense praise kink that not many people are aware of (because not many people in his life are inclined to praise him) and that he will almost never have the courage to openly ask for, and would debase himself sloppily just to hear a partner tell him he's being 'so good' for them / such a 'good boy.' on the other side of the coin, he gets off just about the same on being degraded (and finds it much easier to ask for than the alternative), but only rarely with serious long-term partners and never when introduced by surprise. some really nasty hate sex / no-strings-attached casual punishment / one-off dirty-talking rut to relieve tension or frustration that he earned from pissing someone off will all get him hot just as fast as praise.
THE HEAVY STUFF
general — pet play. discipline. forced to orgasm. force an orgasm. being gagged. gagging. being pegged. pegging. sensory deprivation. double penetration.
touch — being fisted. fisting. being marked. marking. being hit. hitting partner. knife play. gun play. blood play.
oral — likes to deepthroat. likes to be deepthroated. likes to be facefucked. likes to facefuck. likes to bite (to the point of bleeding). likes to be bitten (to the point of bleeding). likes to eat partner’s cum. likes to have their cum eaten. likes to eat cum out of an orifice. likes to have cum eaten out of an orifice. likes to be spit on/in. likes to spit on/in partner.
sound — crying. making partner cry. screaming. making partner scream.
breath — likes to be choked. likes to choke. likes to be smothered. likes to smother.
sight — being broadcasted. broadcasting.
binding — likes to be tightly bound. likes to tightly bind. likes to be clamped. likes to clamp. would wear a chasity belt. likes their partner wearing a chasity belt. extra notes: he has no gag reflex and makes sure people know it. he enjoys being pushed around, pinned down, and possessed, and finds hardcore BDSM and similar sexual experiences both liberating and therapeutic. being able to experience thrill with no real threat is a comforting change of pace from his everyday life, and he enjoys pushing his boundaries and exploring new sexual experiences.
tw: sexual assault, unhealthy sexual behavior / coping mechanisms — important to note that john is a multiple-time sexual assault survivor and is not only hypersexual but has developed a deeply unhealthy relationship with pain, conflict, and his own self-worth. this often manifests in self-destructive behaviors such as an increased pursuit of aggressive / high-risk sex encounters with multiple partners, especially prevalent when he's feeling guilty or experiencing a manic episode. if he starts to feel restless and he's in a good place mentally or has a strong support system to keep him in check, he may suggest a scene or controlled BDSM scenario through which to work out his reckless impulses in a safe and sane manner; if he's not in a good place mentally or doesn't have access to the necessary support, his behaviors can get risky or downright dangerous. (although he is unfailingly religious about condom use and protected sex, given his demon blood and his lived experience with the AIDS crisis.) particularly when it comes to short-term male partners, he can display a preference for being used as hard as people are comfortable with, often with disregard to his own comfort levels; and in the wrong mindset may actively seek out visibly toxic / uber-masculine / repressed men for a better chance to be treated as poorly as he craves.
