My LDR life

Hey people! We are a couple who stumbled upon each other and are in a Long Distance relationship. We are approximately 5582 KM (3468 Miles) apart. We wanted to be able to express ourselves to others who may be in a similar situation. Side notes: • Music bar is at the top of the page, So, Yes, you can turn it off if you don't like it. :) :) Thank you!

[tealdr]

me: no but are you sure you love me, like really sure, i don't want to pressure you

husband: we have been married for 23 years

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Words to my SO

I love you to the ends of the earth I love you to the places that don't exist I love you to the places that do I love you Through thick and thin I love you Through happiness and pain I love you through the stress of being apart and the joy of being together I love you Through waiting to hear you voice on a call I love you To the man that makes me happy in the hardest of times I love you To the Silly jokes and tickle fights I love you To the stress of wanting to know if something is bothering you I love you Through all the times we complain about silly things and people I Love you There is nothing more in this world that I would love than a life with you I love you There is nothing scarier than thinking that something could stop that I love you But I love you and no matter what if you are happy I will love you If you are scared for the future then know I will love you If you are scared for all this stresses to come I will love you and I will tackle them one by one because I will love you and I have loved you from the first time I met you I was scared for how much you made me laugh I have loved you from the first time I caught that you flirted with me  I have loved you I wasn't sure how or when it started for sure but I have loved you Since the first time we had our own call I have loved you from when we first found out I could get to meet you I have loved you From our first hug I have loved you From our first kiss  I have loved you and from the ending of our first visit, though incredibly painful I have loved you and I love you and If you are okay with it I will love you

for there would be no greater honor than to do my best to make you happy even if one day you choose it won't be me making you happy I will love you for you have given me some of the greatest gifts anyone could ever have you gave me the chance to love someone when I didn't know I could you gave me the chance to be loved when I thought no one ever would and you gave me hope that I would have a proper future to look forward too, no matter what happens, I love you

and If you're okay with it I would love to love you more for you have stolen my heart like a theif in the night and I adore you with everything that I am I love you

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hey i "got" into ldr but my bf never really called me a gf. he said "my girl" or when i asked " so i am urs?" he said "yes<3" my friends really annoy me saying im not his gf when i do feel like i am somehow..he calls me baby & he says he loves me so ... he has really busy life & hes living mostly in usa while im in eu. :( should i tell him about this situation? that it upset me? we hadnt skyped yet.. i asked for a voice call but idk if he wants to. i know who he is tho

Some people just don’t like to refer to the person there dating as their boyfriend or girlfriend. I now don’t have a name it’s just “my girlfriend”. no matter what he calls you it’s all the same but if it bothers you then you should tell him

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Okay so bittybunnny I don’t know how old you are and I know you didn’t ask me for this advice but I felt that response was lacking a bit. So, here’s mine -you can choose to ignore it doesn’t matter but I felt strongly about this having met my SO online from CDN - EU. Okay so 1. Not everyone likes labels.       But if its an issue for you BRING IT UP AND USE YOUR WORDS, Don’t be quick to label them your BF if they wont acknowledge you to be on the equal level of companionship.       Calling you ‘Babe’, ‘My Girl’, ‘Babe’ etc. DOES NOT ALWAYS MEAN THEY RECOGNIZE YOU AS THEIR GF EQUAL. I have seen “SO’s” do this as to have additional relationships. Remember Catfishing IS A THING. THEY MAY BE GENUINE BE BE WARY 2. Asking ‘Am I yours?’ is not the same as asking ‘What is our relationship exactly?’ Use your words and ask them directly and clearly. If they can’t answer clearly what you are to him aside for ‘his’ be wary. 3. Are you positive he is who he is. Catfishing is a thing. - make sure to ask for clarification if you are concerned I sincerely hope the best for you but please be careful. I met my SO online and I believe love can absolutely work that way but be careful and make sure you understand who you are getting into a relationship with and that you are on the same page. LDRs cannot work without communication.

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Update ;-;

- still together - both of us are trying to get jobs and I am in school full time aswell - we're trying to be able to visit sometime next year - so sadly this blog is taking a pretty big beating amongst others things - we'll try to get updates every now and then but it's pretty difficult lately - I can say on my behalf I have struggling and juggling school, trying to get a job, family, etc. and it's hard. It sucks even more because of how much I am missing my SO at this current moment since our ideal meet up date got pushed back due to lack of funds and whatnot. We may not see each other for a full year... It may not seem like much compared to other LDRs but at least for me...right now...it hurts and it sucks when all I want to do is hug him.... I'm sorry this became a kind of emotional rant. But I hope y'all understand www.tearaven.tumblr.com is my main tumblr if you want to follow me there I do post some LDR but it's mostly random but it's updated more often. Thanks for understanding Cheers ~tea

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Trying to balance College and multiple Blogs

SOOOO......... A Little update  1. We're still together. 2. This Blog will continue to exist and be run 3. We apologize for the serious lack of content. ;-; I have been attending college and both of us are on job searches so our time is limited. I also run multiple blogs so this LDR blog -Although important- sadly ends up taking the hit in terms of content. We're sorry that its been slow, and we hope we can get this up, I still have this semester to finish so it's more likely that there'll be more posting in december rather than immediately. We hope you understand.

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saying goodbye to your long distance s/o

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Okay, so I have sadly returned home to Canada. :'( It was an amazing trip and I love him so much and miss him incredibly, I can't wait to hug him again. I have no idea when that will be but I hope it's soon because I want to hug him so badly right now... :'(

This is just a small update for now and things should hopefully be back up and running on this account soon I am just readjusting to the normality of not being with him... So hopefully we can get this back on track but I hope all of you will understand. This was our first meeting and our first visit so its a bit hard having to have left him...x'( But I can't dwell on that, it was amazing to see him for the first time in person and I love him and miss him so much.

I hope to see you soon Hun ♥

I miss you and I love you.

[tearaven-blog]

So we have finally met x3 on our 10months of dating we finally met in person :3 this is the first photo we managed to take together

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I posted this on the wrong account but here :3

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2 and 1/2 days till I am in the same timezone as my SO

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ONE WEEK TILL I FLY OUT TO SEE MY SO FOR THE FIRST TIME

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What it's going to be like when we see each other IRL

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2 weeks everyone. x') 2 weeks abd I get to board a plane and see him.  2 weeks and I will finally be able to hold him. it may not be for very long but still. x') <3

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How I flirt with my SO with Gifs

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Miles of Love Challenge ~Day 5~

Day 5: How often do you talk? Are you making plans for the future? If so, anything interesting? 

Tea: We try to message at least once during a day if we can't talk/Skype call. So, everyday? xD we are making plans to meet in person for the first time. :3 So that's interesting I guess? xP

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Miles of Love Challenge ~Day 4~

Day 4: When was the first time you saw your SO in person? or when is the first time you’re planning on meeting them? Tea: Sadly we have yet to meet in person BUT I will be flying to see my SO on August 16th to 27th. :D