Tea with a Trans (de-transitioner ftm )

Hello! I'm Aidan Im making this blog to talk a out the things i went through, and to provide other Ftm's with links to places that sell binder and packers, even though im to poor to get them myself. I hope this blog help you in any way possible...have a nice day!

[teawithtrans]

I guess I have to update you guys since I haven't been on this account and a very long time so basically I lived as a male ftm for almost four years of my life from the ages of 14 to about 17 and a half and now I no longer use that label

I have accepted my assigned sex and gender I'm still not gender conforming but I do use she/her pronouns and I go by the name Aidan now instead of Dean or whatever other masculine name I had

fur if you do need to talk to me about transgender issues and knowing the signs of it or issues like a chest binding packing surgery hormones I can still help a little bit because when I was identifying as such I did a lot of research for it because it was something that I thought I wanted to go through with so I can also help you if you're questioning

[letryanbesuper]

Dateing A trans Guy..

Some days he’s gonna be on top of the world. Some days he will walk into a bar like he owns the place just because you’re on his arm. But other days he won’t be able to get out of bed. Some days he will need you to guard the bathroom door in public so he can pee in peace. Some days he will need you to tell him he’s handsome a hundred times as he gets ready to go out. Some days you’ll have to point out that his arms look bigger from working out. Some days he will be angry for no reason because fighting his body takes a toll on him. Some days he may cry in your arms and you have to just let him. Some days he will hurt from binding, rub his shoulders. Some days you’ll have to learn his body, and relearn his body. Some days you won’t be able to touch him there, some days it might be okay. Some days he won’t be able to have sex because it’s too much and his body doesn’t feel right, don’t give him a hard time. Some days he will want to have sex all day. Some days a little “you’re my man” can go a long way. Some days he won’t see a single thing about himself that he likes and you might have to disagree, and he might not care, but insist on what you like anyway. Some days he might be scared, assure him it’s normal. Some days he might have doubts, about himself, about his gender, about life, and it can be hard to stand beside. It can be a lot, and if you can’t handle it you need to try to know that going in. But if you’re up to it, every day he could be your man and you have the opportunity to date someone that is learning to love themselves and grow and change and that’s a unique journey that very few people get to be a part of.

[littleprincebaby]

@reinventingmyselfagain I love you so much, handsome. <3

[malepositive]

(taken from here, but I don’t think they are the true source)

[haydengise]

Binder Giveaway!!!

We hit 10,000 Followers on this Blog so I thought I’d giveaway a GC2B Half-Tank chest compressor! 

REBLOG TO ENTER

So here are the rules:

1. You Must be able to have it shipped to your house, if your parents are going to kill you if they see it- please don’t enter

2. You must reblog this post (as many times as you want) likes don’t count

3. You must subscribe to HaydenGise on YouTube

4. You must be following Homo-Posts

That’s it! Good luck, the contest ends 1/25/2016 and the winner will be announced the next day! Thanks so much for getting me to this point! 2016 is going to be an amazing year and I thank you all for being a part of it!!!

[haydengise]

[haydengise]

The giveaway ends in 2 days so enter!!!

[rhiroreads]

Large Retail Stores: Start carrying binders for pre-operation transgender youth

Many members of the FTM transgender community face crippling gender dysphoria because of the size of their chests and the presence of female breasts. This problem is something that can be absolutely detrimental to someone's confidence and actually have a negative impact on their life, but luckily, can usually be stopped altogether by having expensive surgery. Unfortunately, not all people have the ability to pay for such surgery, which is where chest binders come in. A chest binders is a type of specially made compression shirt that reduces the appearance of female breasts but still remains safe, making daily life for these individuals bearable. The problem resides in the fact that these products are unavailable in most stores and can only be bought on specialty websites online. Kids that are in need of these products don't always have a way to purchase these things over the Internet, forcing them to participate in various methods of unsafe binding such as bandaging their chests in ace wrap or even duct tape which can cause irreversible damage to their lungs or even death. It's important for large retailers like Target, Walmart or Kohls to start carrying binders so members of the transgender youth can have the comfort and safety that they deserve and the ability to freely be themselves.

[brxkenreality1-blog]

Dont be a dick and sign the petition my binder nearly saved my life it could save so many more

[jackalapparel]

#RespectIdentity

get the shirts here

[sandandglass]

[genderallyspeakings]

But you don't have a penis so you can't be a boy

[soleuna]

Your daily reminders for gender equality 

[thepiscesactor-deactivated20121]

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

[minotaursauce]

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

[xaldien]

“You’d be surprised”, said Xaldien, who just lost four followers and received a lovely “men can’t be raped” anon shortly after reblogging this the first time.

[minotaursauce]

Yowch, disgusting.

[khaleesinotprincess-blog]

That pain is no less relevant when it’s felt by man.

[twinkfl0yd]

trans boys are cute and unstoppable reblog if you agree

[stayaliveeverybody]

Reminder

Trans guys can like makeup and still be trans

Trans guys can wear makeup and still be trans

Trans guys can keep their birth name and still be trans

Trans guys can wear feminine clothes and still be trans

Trans guys can have long hair and still be trans

Trans guys can not have any surgery/be on T and still be trans

Trans guys can like feminine things and still be trans

Trans guys don’t have to be born male to be trans

LETS STOP JUDGING SOME TRANS GUYS JUST BECAUSE THEY AREN’T STEREOTYPICALLY TRANS. THEY’RE STILL MEN AND DOING A VERY GOOD JOB AT IT.

[mukesexts]

REBLOG IF YOU WOULD DATE A TRANS-BOY OR TRANS-GIRL

THIS IS IMPORTANT

[stonecoldrussianheart-deactivat]

Aaand only 18,536 potential dates so far. Sad. 

[overgrowth23]

now only 20,000, sad.

[potatochip-yagami-deactivated20]

Over 45,000…. it’s slowly getting better

[belladonnalilium-deactivated201]

150,858…. We’re getting there

[moved2-s0ftp1nkmatter]

Date me

[brownbodied]

[anotherlesbianandwhat]

 xxx

[bisexualpeople]

We are bisexual people, but we are not confused! Do you want to dating bisexual? come on baby!

[datingbisexuals]

I am bisexual, and I am not confused!

[shapeshiftersvt]

HAPPY HOLIDAYS AND 250 SALES!! BINDER GIVEAWAY

We at Shapeshifters are happy, proud, and above all grateful to announce that we’ve cleared the 250-sale mark. As a small token of our thanks, we’re throwing our fifth binder giveaway!

As ever, the lucky winner will receive one single-layer custom-sized binder in their choice of size, cut, and print. This means anything we offer that’s priced at $55 or under. Check out the store for your options.

Here be the rules!

Only reblogs count. One per blog. No giveaway blogs.

You don’t have to be following.

But your ask box must be open!

International entries are welcome.

You may reblog without entering, just tag it accordingly so we know. Signal boosts are always appreciated!

The winner will be randomly selected on January 6th, 2016. We will send an ask notifying the winner.

If said winner does not get back to us within three days, a new winner will be selected!

Good luck!!

[mkhunterz]

It’s time for another Supernatural Holiday Giveaway!!!

The winner will receive: 

-1 pair Supernatural sunglasses -1 Supernatural Runes Slouch Backpack -1 pair Anti-Possession Fingerless Gloves -1 Symbol Washed Scarf -1 Team Free Will Beanie -1 Devils Trap Candle -1 copy of “The Essential Supernatural” revised book

One runner-up will receive:

-1 sheet Supernatural Temporary Tattoos

The rules are as follows:

-must be following me to enter -to enter, reblog this post -you may enter by reblogging up to 10 times - likes and extra reblogs do not count as entries but won’t count against you -no contest blogs please! -contest will end at 11:59pm EST on January 2nd, 2016 -winner will be selected by random number generator -winner and runner up will be contacted by ask; askbox must be open -if winners do not respond within 24 hours other winners will be chosen -winners must be willing to provide addresses for prizes to be shipped -I will ship anywhere!

good luck!