M , pan but mostly homoflexible. Lots of weird k!nk blog ahead with weird kinks. 18+ only. NO MINORS INTERACTING/FOLLOWING/ANYTHING. Legitimately dangerous freaks please show yourself out, this is for cool, fun freaks.
late 20s, legal to do all the things. he/him. sometimes tag for specific people to follow, but not for triggers usually. partnered seriously with my boyfriend and not looking for romance! playful flirting okay! i feel like i need to write this all the way up here. NO DETRANS PLAY. I am not comfortable interacting with trans people or bodies in that context or providing that or hosting/facilitating it. just dni at all if you fuck with it publicly on here.
cyber (sexting/texting/visual) flirting is alright as long as everyone remains and is comfortable.
nsfw or tumblr and also hard kink (and FANTASY) so NO MINORS/ANYONE UNDER 18 YEARS OLD you will be blocked immediately and I don't consent to you following or reading my blog
i am queer and have identified with and lived many things before i arrived here. not attracted to straight people, though i am attracted to all genders because it feels like our different perspectives don't line up and i feel a little uncomfortable.
"#actually me" is my selfie/own photos tag. the icon is also me.
i have a lot of weird and controversial kinks but they are just fantasy. and i actually mean that when i write it.
pansexual in theory/in a galaxy far far away but homoflexible in practice now, vers (sub-leaning but also enjoy being a sub-top very much) and inclusive of people all along the gender spectrum.
if you are an actual weirdo (stalker, transphobe, homophobe, racist, misogynist, violent person, abusive, conservative, etc), you are not welcome here. fuckable weirdos only. also, pro-ED/ana material or ED blogs will be blocked on sight. i don't have the time for that either.
DM or message me (on or off anon)! I love it. But please don't roleplay at, send/ask for pics or try to cyber with me if you're under 21 years old or haven't asked. remember that no means no for me.
MORE KINKS AND DEETS UNDER THE CUT...
if you have a kink you want to play with or chat with me about, try me. the only things i'm not into for sure is/HARD LIMITS: raceplay, gaping, misogyny kink, internet daddy doms, things that belong in a toilet, REAL HARM IN "KINK" (no peds/"maps" lololol seriously i will make your life bad, real 1nc3sT, real abus1v3 shit, NO pro-ED/ANA), non-sexual humiliation and degradation, detrans, ABDL, giving me orders without negotiation, tbd and added later
here are some of my yes please fantasy kinks: queer/bi/trans/pan mommy/daddy dom/mes that treat me like a stupid horny boy (and maybe some puppy play there), intox, musk/scent play (usually receiving, pits and pubes), girls who smoke weed and are funny and hot and horny, CNC, free use, r@p3pl@y, stalking, "forced" to fuck men, fucking girls, forced to come, anyone that wants to tie me up and take advantage of me, str8 guys having a queer awakening with me, older men, treated like an easy twink and natural faggot/boytoy, dirty talk, tits/milk/all of it, himbofication (receiving), queer gender play stuff, breeding, forced impregnation, primal, objectified, cucking for a bi couple (as the other man), roleplay, becoming a stronger/more powerful guy's bitch, a straight-laced Dom to school my punkass, obsession, hypersexuality, getting railed and stroked and sucked and used while i'm trying to work/focus, being used as a horny puppyboy and taken advantage of for my eagerness, daddy doms, getting tied up and sucked or stroked and teased, TECHNOLOGY clearly, more to be added…
ASK FIRST/maybe: specific sexual humiliation, fauxc3st, mild ageplay, orientation play
any queer person with an interest is welcome. straight dudes are just really not going to like this stuff, honestly. it's just really gay shit. so no straight dudes, only "str8" (for kink) dudes and straight-but-questioning.
born intersex, am male. just male. no, i don't really want to answer questions about the whole thing because it sucked. i only say this to drive home the idea not to assume my experiences.
i block without apology and very freely if you creep me out or actually harass me. i take my online privacy very seriously but am not into real shame in sex. let's have fun instead.
y'all i think i need to take a break from this site. i have seen too many things that just make me furious and i have been blocking and 'curating' but it keeps showing up. so many things do.... partially because it's not tumblr-function related but it's the social climate and the incredibly toxic persona this site often causes people to cultivate and even adopt. some of you are out there crossing lines that you'd rather die than admit to irl. i am tired of being tagged, as a real person and as a queer man who lives that way irl, in fictional things, in things related to that own person's mental illness or in any fan content. it's not okay and it's weird.
sorry but this site has some inherent problems that no amount of self-correction or control is going to fix and if you want to know my honest opinion?
if you don't like staff and tumblr, if you are truly angry about trans people getting nuked and other people in the alphabet having tighter restrictions on here... don't buy a vpn and subvert it. don't tell tumblr that it is essential to your functioning because it is NOT.
and that is where self-correction and control DOES come in. just boycott the site. it is surprising to me to see all these work-arounds without people really putting their money where their mouth is and deleting their account or refusing to log in.
this isn't about that but... why? anyway.
human beings have social needs, true. but tumblr is not the only way to be social and it's certainly not oxygen. it's a simulation of a social space, a not-great one. people need people a lot more than ever now and people aren't who they are on tumblr. parasocial places are not pro-social. peace.
Engaging in kink is a form of being vulnerable—regardless of your role—and vulnerability should always be treated with a certain amount of reverence. It’s an honor and a privilege to be able to play with people, not a right or a given.
please don't hate on me if i have an idea for a music video for 'francis forever' and sort of want to shoot and edit and post it for a budget of very very little
and it might have something to do with really queer historical-fairytale vibes that takes place in an americana 1950s setting and has dancing/a dance setting as storytelling maybe a bit
please let me ramble i'm on so many meds for my feels-like-ice-picks-in-my face&brain-syndrome :,)
i wasn't thinking about this now, i was thinking about it like earlier today or yesterday or something, but i forgot to make a post letting the world know that i love small men, and i just now remembered that i wanted to do that, so here it is.
there is something about shameless person with obsession x object of obsession that gets easily flustered and helplessly slutty with no healthy or easy explanation around the person who worships and occasionally frightens them
no this is fine i'm having a good night, thank you! i love throwing stuff at the wall to see what sticks and i will also climb all the way to the tippy top of my bs while i'm at it!
