Mufiz @tehreer-e-rooh - Tumblr Blog

“Please do yourself a favour. Don’t lower your standards to fit in. Don’t shrink who you are to make others feel comfortable. Do find and surround yourself with people who like you just the way you are and who encourage you to keep growing.”

— Kristen Butler

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Wanna hurt me? come, sit down, and i'll tell you how life kept testing me from 2016 until now. you probably listen in silence,trying to understand how someone can carry so much and still keep going. some days, left marks no one could see, and some nights felt longer than they should have. But the truth is, you don’t really need to hurt me - life already did, in ways i didn’t expected and somehow, through everything, i still had to survive it all on my own!

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Read somewhere " Intezaar ek aziyat hai - phir chahe haath me mobile pakde kisi ke message ka ho, chaukhat pe baithey kisi ke laut ane ka ho, bistar pe lait kar neend ka ho, ya zindagi se haar kar maut ka"

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From being excited for Eid al-Adha to now preparing a list of duas for the Day of Arafah…

we all grew up. 🥺

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Who is your Ismail ?

"Like Ibrahim, you should select and bring your Ismail to Mina who is your Ismail? You should know; there is no need for others to know! May be your wife, job, talent, sex, power, rank, position ... etc. I don't know which one it is, but it should be whatever is so dear as Ismail was to Ibrahim!

Some of the signs of your Ismail are whatever takes away your freedom and stops you from performing your duties, whatever joy entertains you, whatever keeps you from hearing and knowing the truth, whatever persuades you to rationalize rather than accept responsibility and whoever supports you only to receive your support in the future. You must search and find it in your life. If you are going to approach Almighty God, you should sacrifice your Ismail in Mina."

- Dr. Ali Shariati

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Zindagi mein jab bhi tum kuch aisa kho do, jise khone ka tasawwur bhi na kiya ho, to jaan lo ke tumhein Allah ki taraf se kuch aisa zaroor milne wala hai, jise pa lene ka tumne guman bhi nahi kiya hoga. Chhin jaye to sabr kar lo. Hum nahi jaante ke badle mein hamein kya milne wala hai aur ismein humare liye kya maslihat posheeda hai

While scrolling, I came across this quote, and I absolutely loved it -

“The illusions of childhood are necessary experiences. A child should not be denied a balloon just because an adult knows that, sooner or later, it will burst.”

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Ye faqat ahl-e-duniya ke dilchasp dhoke hai. Haqeeqat mein yahan kisi ko kisi ki parwah nahi.

- These are merely the captivating illusions of worldly people. In truth, no one here truly cares for anyone.

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until you learn the lesson

rockstarwithoutaguitar

I FOUND THE PERFECT ANSWER TO "Not All Men"

Out of 10 men, 1 makes a sexual joke directed at a woman, 2 laugh alone, 3 don't find it funny but still chuckle to fit in, and 4 say nothing, pretending they didn't hear it at all. Not a single one speaks up, and not a single one stops it. Later, aside from the man who made the joke, the other nine all believe the same thing: men like that are a minority and most men aren't like this, seeing themselves as part of the "good majority".

However, from the perspective of the woman being harassed, there is no big difference between them because the laughter, the silence, and the looking away all create the same environment. When women say most men are the same, this is what they mean: while not every man harasses women, most men participate in protecting the system that does.

And to add to this, even if you're alone with him and he doesn't attack you, that doesn't mean that he won't next time. There's no way to ever know that it won't happen some day because the calculations that they're doing aren't visible. Someone tried to rape one of my ex friend when she was a middle schooler and she was around him for over a year before that. He had maybe two or three opportunities to rape her before he actually tried but I think he still thought he had a chance at dating her so he refrained, and he only tried to rape her after he felt like he didn't have a chance. So with the men who will bide their time for years hoping you eventually become theirs, you could be alone with them and never know that they'll rape you the moment they decide you aren't going to fall for them after all. (azooz's example is perfect for this)

Almost all men participate in protecting the system that oppresses women.

Men think they're a good guy because they don't overtly violate or harm women but men regularly passively aggressively harm women by silently participating in other men's harassment of women and quietly exploiting women's unpaid labour for their benefit.

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