To be or not to be

[temerius-blog]

I missed him today. It's really hard when you love someone more than anything but they hate you.

[instigatinglittleshit]

‘Cause let’s be real, here. Despite what tumblr will tell you, it’s okay to not be attracted to fat people (or skinny people or anything in between). What gets your motor running isn’t really something you have complete control over. What you DO have complete control over is how you treat people you don’t find attractive. You always have the option to not be an asshole.

[grinchlybear]

not finding someone attractive because of their weight (or lack of it) is having a type.

Treating someone badly because of their weight (or lack of it) is shallow and hurtful. You don’t have to be sexually attracted to someone to be nice to them. 

[chronicallyillfemme]

You don’t have to be sexually attracted to someone to be nice to them.

[gogetthatbody]

Louder

[fitblrbytheocean]

One more time for the people in the back

[danielodowd-deactivated20170124]

http://gvri.vsco.co/

[quotemadness]

There is no story unless you’ve written it.

Hunter S. Thompson (via quotemadness)

[metalhearted]

[saucymemedong]

Did somebody just look at the moon and think “but what if opposite?”

[unorginal-author]

It would look like an eye

[liljoonies]

ITS NINE IN THE AFTERNOON

[temerius-blog]

Nice tumblr. I like this atmosphere ; )

Thanks :)

[transcendentalbrilliance]

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to ignore you when you want to talk to him.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to shove you when he’s angry.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to call you a dumbass or a bitch when you’re in an argument.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to threaten to leave the relationship every time you defend yourself.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to invalidate your feelings.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to not tell you who he’s with or where he’s going.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to keep making the same detrimental mistake over and over.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to use your insecurities against you.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to make you feel guilty for having desires and needs.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to tell you that you’re stupid when you cry.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to cheat on you because he’s “just a stupid guy.”

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to rely on you when he doesn’t do a thing for himself.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to hurt you intentionally.

please stop normalizing toxic romantic relationships. it’s not healthy for your partner to upset you and behave recklessly as long as he apologizes later. apologies mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. kisses and hugs mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. public displays of affection mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. promises mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. it is not okay for him to hurt you physically or emotionally because he said he’ll change. he hasn’t. he won’t. get out now because THIS! IS! NOT! NORMAL! other couples do not go through this. other couples did NOT have to go through this to be in a happy, wholesome place.

he is manipulative and selfish and he is making you weak every time you agree to stay. even when you feel like “maybe this time, things will be okay,” they won’t – that’s what he wants you to think so you never slip from his grasp. you know as well as i do you’re 50 times overdue for “this is his last chance.” this is not normal.

[transcendentalbrilliance]

​help me get this around so my friend can see how many people agree with me and that she needs to walk away from her toxic relationship

[exposingmyaura]

Wow !!! ! This ! Is so true!!! Honestly get out and you won’t regret it one bit

[dayzea]

LISTEN UP GIRlS

[libradreamlover]

as a victim of domestic abuse i want girls to read and understand this

[temerius-blog]

Don't forget that girls can be just as manipulative and emotionally and physically abusive. Guys if your girlfriend treats you like this you should run as well. Don't play it off with an attitude that girls can only be abused and can't be abusive.

[mothurs]

[temerius-blog]

I knew I would have to let go eventually but I wasn't ready to say goodbye yet.

[winterfellis]

DSC_0027 by Chris Caig on Flickr.

[infragilefashion]

PUNJAMMIES™ are made by women in India rescued from forced prostitution seeking to rebuild their lives. Proceeds from the sales of PUNJAMMIES™ provide fair-trade wages, savings accounts, and holistic recovery care.

[creamsiclesquid]

THESE are gorgeous and I want some

[aquabutt]

jesus these look COMFORTABLE 

[kornonkob]

THE FULL LENGTH KAROONA ONES OH MY GOD THE MIGHTIEST OF NEEDS

[fishnetandfundip]

GIMME GIMME GIMME they are beautifull

[theoldtaku]

They come in plus sizes too, y’all!

[murderwhitepeople-deactivated20]

#abuse survivors#if you want to buy please buy from these people#instead of forever 21 or some other white store#these women deserve it

[mattykinsel-deactivated20190210]

Signal boost

[thewickedfaerie]

In a Dream by brokensticksorginalo

[nubbsgalore]

[nubbsgalore]

photos by michael poliza in churchill, manitoba of a polar bear amongst the fireweed waiting for the hudson bay to freeze over. noted michael, “the polar bear was all by himself as they are very solitary animals anyway. but this one looked particularly sad as it wandered around, almost as though it didn’t understand where the snow had gone.“  

churchill has the largest, and most southerly, concentration of the animals on the planet. in late summer and early fall the polar bears make their way to the hudson bay, waiting for it to freeze over so they can hunt for seals on the ice. but every year, the ice is forming later and later, forcing the polar bears to go hungry for longer. 

notes andrew derocher, professor of biological sciences at the university of alberta, who has spent his decades long career studying polar bears, “we probably won’t have polar bears in churchill once we get out to midcentury… they could be gone in a couple of years. if we had a very early melt, and a very late freeze, we could see up to 50 percent mortality in a single year.”

[gladlyboastingmyweaknesses-deac]

You can’t spend your whole life holding the door open for people and then being angry they didn’t thank you. Nobody asked you to hold the fucking door.

Orange is the New Black.  (via mumbye)

[mbphotograph]

[roootsinmydreamland]

DREAM DATE: take me to barnes and noble, give me $500, leave.

[kateordie]

This comic is about how there are two sides to every story.

[666b4rb13666]

on point

[turnblr-left]

A guy insulting his ex to “compliment” you is always a red flag.

[thefluffyshrimp]

A Tip for Girls: The term “crazy bitches” is often just dudebro code for “women who have become legitimately angry with me for the crappy things I do/did to them, but my complete lack of empathy with them and inability to see them as people has made me confused by the reactions and feelings I incite in them.”

In other words, if a guy ever uses the phrase “crazy bitches” to describe women (most particularly the women he’s dated), he’s basically just confessing to you that he systematically and consistently pisses off women and yet he doesn’t understand why. Get away immediately.