Les chroniques d'un bébé de sucre noir ✨

22 • West African • Texas sugar baby • BlackLivesMatter

[ddrvbiblgigb]

[garfield-baybee]

Reblog to have something good happen at 1:42 tomorrow

[texasblacksugar]

In dire need of help reading this “POT” out

I haven’t made a post in a loooong time. School got super busy and I joined a sorority so any time for sugaring was gone. Now I’m in my senior year, I have a bit more time and I started looking again. Seeking Arrangement has all but dried up here in Austin so I’ve resorted to Tinder. Now I’ve never lucked on there except for this one time. Met this one guy and he fit the bill, so we chatted up, started texting and hit it off. Now, he’s not a traditional sugar daddy, even though he definitely has the means to be one. He’s just a regular schmegular guy who happens to be rich af.

I decided to go a different approach, since he wasn’t a sugar daddy. I basically wanted to “date” him and get him to like me enough to start buying me shit. I know, I ain’t serious lol. But I wanted to try a different tactic and see if it works. Now we’ll be having our 3rd date, and I have no idea if he’s down. He’s given me money for transportation but that’s it. I’ll make little comments here and there about me having to work, or me not doing certain things anymore because I can’t afford it, and nothing. I made another cardinal mistake and had sex with him. lol whoops. That I actually don’t regret cause wow he knows wtf he’s doing. Like REALLY knows.

So now, I just need some advice on how I can be more direct with a guy who isn’t for sure a sugar daddy? I have the issue of being too passive sometimes. If after being more direct and he’s still not reciprocating, then I’ll cut my losses. So ladies of the sugar bowl, please impart your wisdom on me 😭

[angelsugarb-deactivated20180603]

hi i have a pot who i met thru SA threatening to out me to everyone i know bc he found my real fb. he lives half way across the country but im scared af what do i do?

Hey baby girl! First of all, there is nothing to be afraid of. My guess is that he wants you to send him nudes or videos as blackmail. But what you should do is call him on his bluff. Say something like “You think I’m scared of you? You think I care that anyone knows what I do?” Even if its not true. He might back off right then and there. BUT if he doesn’t; I have some steps for you to take. 

1. Is he married? Prestigious? Does he want anyone to know about his private life? I hope so. Because you are going to either ask him for his email address if you don’t already have it. Tell him you’re sending him an email.

2. Go to spypig.com or ifread.com These are email tracking services. They will create an emoji for you to copy and paste into the email that you’re sending to this man. Once he opens the email you will be notified of when he opens it. Along with his IP address and location.

3. NOW, this next part is optional. You can either let him know that you have his IP address, his real name, and his address (which is a bluff because you’ll only have his IP address and basic location) and you will also out him. Or you can go the additional mile, and actually find this info. Otherwise known as DOXing. 

4. If you’d like to actually DOX him, there are plenty of tutorials online. However, I’m not going to give direct instructions because this is a serious matter and is a FELONY. So if you’d like to actually DOX this asshole, please message me. 

This might make me seem crazy but I used to study computer science so any time any man tries to fuck with me in this manner, I let him know that I can ruin him with the click of my mouse. Don’t let these men scare you.

[pellgrantz]

#yoda #wearenotworthy #dammmnn

[nycsugarlife]

Thank you for this

[aquajoggers]

i want boys to like me so i can not like them back and feel powerful

[inahiddenplace]

i like to pretend i don’t give a fuck but honestly i don’t think i’ve ever not given a fuck in my whole life

[femmenoiresb-blog]

in today’s episode of “things White POTs said to me on Tinder”

this man wanted to break the ice, so i guess he decided to be creative. there was no “hi how are you”, no “hey beautiful, i like your profile”, not even a “i like your hair/pictures”

this White Man said “i like your protective hairstyle”🤔

obviously you been talking to some sistas…but you dont know me like that bruh

…but i’m just gonna lol and go back to seeing what his money looking like😊

[horrormoanal-deactivated2020112]

I hate when they do shit like this omg lmao

[boujiebabygirl]

lmaoooo noooooooo

[sparklecooch69-deactivated20170]

$ugar Baby rule 31,246

don’t breathe

your breath is too much for any Gentleman Sugar Father to handle and he will reject you immediately

you will never make money unless you absorb all of your nutrients from the sun directly, and you become like the earth itself - steady, rotating, and round

[arandomthot]

[enterheavenalive]

*walks by a happy couple holding hands*

Me: he’s lying girl

[cybergata]

[whitegirlsaintshit]

i the snail.

[omgs]

everybody here is perfect

[texasblacksugar]

Reading these POTs is hard for me mehn

Like forreal, how do you know how to talk to a particular POT? How do I know if this one wants me to be super sweet and cute, or a bad bitch who's straight up and knows what she wants? Like I'm always a bad bitch who's straight up and know what she wants, but not all man can handle it or like it lol. I see sugaring as me having to role play. Change myself (temporarily) to the fantasy woman a particular POT would want. And that's not my issue, the issue is I can't figure out how to know right when we start talking. I don't want to do the wrong persona and he's like nah I'm good. Then I've lost a perfectly good POT cause I couldn't read him well enough. It's frustrating man. Any tips from the lovely ladies of Tumblr would be greatly appreciated 💛

[thebootydiaries]

me: *swallows my pride and texts first*

me: *gets ignored*

me: 911 i’d like to report a clown….her name is booboo the fool

[onikaahonee]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[brown-medusa]

Sis, get into this look

[da-beauties]

[thebootydiaries]

me: *swallows my pride and texts first*

me: *gets ignored*

me: 911 i’d like to report a clown….her name is booboo the fool

[onikaahonee]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[belovedbane]

Concept: I finish school. The job I work isn’t my dream job but I enjoy doing it greatly still. It pays enough to cover everything I might need. My bills are never overdue. Money is not a thought in my head. I have a place to live. So do my dogs. It is nice and warm, I have some plants, my bookshelves are full, my sheets are always clean. There is time to read at the end of a day. I read a lot. Thinking is a good thing. I meet up with friends regularly, old and new. They love me. We make memories. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I travel a few times a year, always different places. The places I see steal my breath away. The people I meet teach me of life. They are good. There is no war. The sea calls to me and I pay visit. I am independent. I am content.

[itsgonnabeathing]