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[candycoatedemoboy]

happily found this near where I am

[saturdaythestrange]

My father said a while back that many lesbians would be offended by me calling myself a lesbian because I'm [assigned male at birth]. I told him that yeah we have a name for them, it's called TERF and they're generally viewed as harmful to the queer community as a whole. Conservatives can't fathom that people don't think the same way as them. Even when someone disagrees with them on something they immediately assume, "well they must agree with me on everything else." Even though I was just starting out at the time he told me that I could tell that what he was saying was a load of bullshit. Real lesbians love and protect trans women.

[officiallydykemarching]

it's so funny how white straight men like you think it's conservative for lesbians to resist being appropriated and sexually harassed by gender essentialist males. the name for that is darvo.

you are exactly as conservative as your father

and you will never be a lesbian

and the lgbt community was made without you, the t included gay trans ppl like sylvia rivera not you bigoted transhets

real lesbians love the same sex and protect ourselves from violation and erasure, not that you would have any insight into lesbians

like any straight white man, it infuriates you to know there will always be women who don't want you and instead of pretending to be a woman and gaining empathy for us you will always stand in solidarity with males. what queer community are you a part of? you think being gay is a choice and demand opposite sex attraction from lesbians, like conversion therapists do.

@terfstillmeanslesbian these incels are shameless

[ellenspages43]

@saturdaythestrange​ You’re not a lesbian.  You’re a man, and you’ll always be a man.  Your father was right.  Real lesbians don’t let men, or anyone else, tell them who they love or protect.  Stay away from lesbians.

[stantler]

[killjoyfem-deactivated20250218]

The duality of the woke leftist male

[postpostirony]

Nothing to see here, just Pusheenifying Neo-Nazi Paramilitaries...

[antiplondon]

[modernsyndrome]

Wow. Shows how much they "respect sex workers"

[ddrvbiblgigb]

“Mainstream society sees a woman’s pleasure as giving it, not receiving it”

yet you’re continuing that trend Lemoon..

[bi-kisses]

Ugly 5'9" bisexual woman with broad shoulders privilege is realizing I look like the type of girl terfs sneer at and point out how male all my features are. I'm not even intersex but I'm probably higher testosterone than a typical female, I have "male" hands (index fingers shorter than ring fingers) and a high hairline, high libido, quick muscle growth.

on top of that, being good at and interested in stereotypically "male" things like math and programming really goes to show how those trans woman stereotypes are just flat out misogyny.

[ddrvbiblgigb]

I have pcos, and have a stereotypical masculine body type etc. “terfs” won’t sneer at you, you’re just you, a woman. I think it’s great when I see gnc women, I personally love it.

Trans women aren’t gnc women tho.. they’re trans, and biologically male. Pointing this out isn’t misogynistic, it’s just the truth. They wouldn’t count as trans if they were born female.

[bi-kisses]

right, terfs don't sneer at masculine cis women... except when they do!

Stop telling GNC cis people they're trans

Stop telling GNC cis people they're trans

Big ??? Energy (she/her)

Stop telling GNC cis people they're trans

More info: https://www.asiaone.com/china/womens-400m-runners-go-viral-chinese-social-media-looking-men I can smell the racism as well as t

Like when TERFs are actively "clocking" women who aren't feminine enough, I think we might have an issue that is going to seep into the self esteem of the very group they claim to be supporting.

Dunking on males is more important to radfems than aiding women and it shows.

[ddrvbiblgigb]

tbh, In the radfem community I’ve 99% of the time seen women uplifting other women who do not conform to gendered stereotypes. It would be going against core radical feminist beliefs to denigrate women who are gnc

[bi-kisses]

Ugly 5'9" bisexual woman with broad shoulders privilege is realizing I look like the type of girl terfs sneer at and point out how male all my features are. I'm not even intersex but I'm probably higher testosterone than a typical female, I have "male" hands (index fingers shorter than ring fingers) and a high hairline, high libido, quick muscle growth.

on top of that, being good at and interested in stereotypically "male" things like math and programming really goes to show how those trans woman stereotypes are just flat out misogyny.

[ddrvbiblgigb]

I have pcos, and have a stereotypical masculine body type etc. “terfs” won’t sneer at you, you’re just you, a woman. I think it’s great when I see gnc women, I personally love it.

Trans women aren’t gnc women tho.. they’re trans, and biologically male. Pointing this out isn’t misogynistic, it’s just the truth. They wouldn’t count as trans if they were born female.

[ddrvbiblgigb]

i haven’t seen your posts on my feed in awhile, i hope you’re doing alright!

I don’t use this blog anymore, I just came back on here briefly out of curiosity, but I don’t really use social media now, thanks anon though!

[ddrvbiblgigb]

Say strangulation not choking.

Choking = refers to an internal event, such as food being lodged in your throat.

Strangulation = refers to outside forces, such as someone’s hands.

So when one says “ooh choking is so hot”.. they actually mean “ooh strangulation is so hot”.

Porn/ media has successfully trivialised and eroticised strangulation as a sex act by using a less guttural sounding word i.e choking.

Strangulation is dangerous irrespective of context, sex doesn’t void it of risks.

Some dangers and side effects of strangulation include:

Sore throat

Difficulty breathing

Ringing ears

Dizziness

Drooling

Hallucinations

A miscarriage if you’re pregnant

Nausea

Agitation

Sleep problems

Eyelid dropping

Vocal chord damage

Speech impediment

One side weakness of the body

Vision problems (temporary and permanent)

The loss of consciousness due to oxygen deprivation

Strokes

Brain injuries

Heart attack

Death - this can occur 5 minutes after one has lost consciousness or can occur days or weeks after the assault

Some of the effects might happen weeks after the strangulation episode, such as:

“Up to two weeks after it can cause fluid - such as vomit - to overload in the lungs, this is called a pulmonary edema, where the vomit digests the victims lungs, which can lead to pneumonitis”

Minimal force in strangulation can cause:

Damage to carotid arteries which restricts blood flow to the brain

Swelling or bleeding inside the neck

If your neck bleeds inside, this can eventually cause blood clots and possibly strokes, and this is not obvious visibly.

And remember: there is no safe way to strangle someone, you’re more likely to cause damage than not cause damage.

You can find all of this if you type into google “dangers of strangulation” and “difference between choking and strangling” or if you want references message me.

[chadradfem]

THERE IS NO SAFE WAY TO STRANGLE SOMEONE

[dykeyuu]

i’m a martial artist. i teach a lot of self defense seminars, mostly exclusive to women, and we talk about strangulation a lot. sometimes it’s in the context of how to escape strangulation, and sometimes (far less often) it’s in the context of how to execute a proper chokehold. we never talk about strangulation as “this way will kill them and this way won’t”. we talk about “this way will kill them in seconds and this way will kill them in minutes”. THERE IS NO SAFE WAY TO STRANGLE SOMEONE. don’t fucking trust those bdsm tips and tricks posts that say blood chokes are safer. sure, you have a lower risk of shattering the trachea, but you sure as hell have a higher chance of murdering the person you’re strangling. BLOOD CHOKES ARE NOT SAFER; THEY ARE NOT SAFE AT ALL. the throat contains a lot of very important, very exposed parts of your body. endangering your life is not sexy, and if your partner says it is, that should be a MASSIVE red flag.

[yuckyradf3m]

"Say impalation with a sharp ended object, not stabbing!!!1!1!!!11!!!1"

[ddrvbiblgigb]

Strangulation is the correct term because it refers to outside forces. Choking is when it’s internal (like choking on food), I already explained this in the op, but reading can be difficult.

[clish-moved-deactivated20210119]

“If you are not attracted to an individual, because the individual has a trait, that’s okay”

[ddrvbiblgigb]

It’s not transphobic to reject “trans women” on the basis they are a male.. because guess what. They are males.

Also equating not being honest about having a tattoo to not being honest that you have a cock is not on the same level mate. One can lead to rape by deception, and it is not the former.

It’s not transphobic to not allow trans women into lesbian circles.. that’s like saying it’s racist for a white person who identifies as black to be rejected from a circle catering specifically for POC.

A “legally protected gender” doesn’t change biology or the fact you’re still a male. Sex and gender are not interchangable, therefore, when one says you’re a male, it’s not denying your right to your ~gender~, it is acknowledging the fact that you are de facto, a male.

[rat-of-the-sky-on-fire-deactiva]

No sex is not interchangable. You will always be a male sex, you will always need to write that on hospital forms. But gender can change. And that is why you also write that out on hospital forms.

[rat-of-the-sky-on-fire-deactiva]

Guys that was right I think. If I was wrong:

1: if your a terf and you think im wrong. Shut up i didnt mean you you children

2: you gays with the smart gimme some help

[a-rebellious-waffle]

No, that was more or less right. @she-dissents is making a false equivalence here. A white person cannot identify as black- blackface and all that general nastiness- but a trans woman (i.e. used to be a man, is no longer, is now a woman) is able to identify as a woman.

Let’s debunk this paragraph by paragraph, everyone!

Paragraph one: Are you seriously trying to say that “rejecting trans women because they’re trans” isn’t transphobic? You’re defining transphobia and saying it isn’t? 1984 was meant to be fiction! Doublespeak isn’t meant to exist!

Paragraph two: That’s not what was said. What was said is, “I’m not attracted to that, as for me it’s a turn-off.” I think you might’ve misread something, or interpreted it wrong. Which is fair. I misread many things and have to reread.

Paragraph three: It is. You know why? Because, they’re women, being denied access to something there for women. Unlike race, which cannot be changed, gender can be switched out on the fly. Genders are like pairs of pants. If one doesn’t fit, try another! Now, does this mean they have to be assimilated in ten minutes? No. But does it mean that they should at least be able to get a foot in the door? Yes.

Paragraph four: (From Merriam-Webster)

Sex definition: “Either of the two main categories (male and female) into which humans and most other living things are divided on the basis of their reproductive functions.”

Gender definition: “Either of the two sexes (male and female), especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones. The term is also used more broadly to denote a range of identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female.”

It would seem that Merriam-Webster disagrees with you. So, therefore, it is, in fact, denying your right to be called what you are. And, as a cherry on top: You can become a, as you put it, “de facto” female. Surgery exists. Is it a requirement? No. Would I ever force it on someone? No. Should you? No. But it does exist.

As such, kindly get your TERF bullshit out of here.

[ddrvbiblgigb]

You can decline anyone for whatever reason you like dating/sex wise. Dating is exclusionary by nature, you cannot force anyone to date or have sex with you.

Men cannot be women. Even if the man thinks he’s a woman.

Male and female are material realities. Yes there are stereotypes ascribed to them (like the boys should like blue, girls should like pink), but wouldn’t it be better to reject those stereotypes without creating additional nebulous identities? Because if you instead create lots of new identities it then sends the message that men are happy with the stereotypes ascribed to them and so are women etc. Which is not the case.

Surgery does not make you a different sex.

[ddrvbiblgigb]

Wanna see some Black Mirror type shit?

From video: Saweetie - Best Friend (feat. Doja Cat)

Views: 86 million

This scene is so convoluted it makes my head hurt.

The creators behind this video? Men.

David Meyers, the director, sexualises and objectifies the singers in the video. You can see this with the overt scantily clad clothing, the pornified posing etc.

Shots to illustrate this:

It is specifically curated and tailored to male fantasy and gratification, it is essentially softcore porn. The women’s bodies are the products in the video. Compartmentalised segments of flesh to titillate young men who are probably whacking it off to the clip.

Then the director, knowing this, is sneaky. He slips into the script some nonsense about feminism. It is so bizarre. This is another example from this consumerist culture where words don’t have meaning anymore, it’s all to do with trends, activism becomes entangled with corporations who are anxious to generate profit. The message in this clip is ironic, empty and contradictory.

However, young people (kids specifically), who are constantly surrounded on social media with this quasi-liberal rhetoric that doesn’t actually mean anything, eat this up.

It’s saying: words speak louder than actions.

So, effectively, if one says the right thing that aligns with activist rhetoric, that is enough. No actions are needed to cement what is said.

This sort of shit stagnates any sort of meaningful progress.

Choice feminism is big right now with everything a woman does being framed as some sort of empowering and feminist act. Corporations have realised this, so they capitalise on it and utilise it in their content to appear “woke” but the actual product they’re selling (the objectification of women) completely contradicts it. Hellworld. Akin to some Black Mirror episode.

[ddrvbiblgigb]

right leaning lol go back to 4chan

I am very critical of right leaning stances so I would not consider myself to be right wing.

Also, 4chan is awful.

[disasterlarper]

I don’t know if you know this but here’s a live feed of porn searches being made right now. 

[minervamori]

#one person is just searching ‘jeremy’ #no other keywords whatsoever #nothing else will suffice #this person can ONLY be satisfied by jeremy #good luck you poor lost soul

[angband]

I’m cying

[blackvulva-deactivated20150627]

Yes, go watch this and see how many times men search the word ‘teen’ and then come back to me with your weak ass ‘Porn is Great’ logic when there are grown men jerking off to teens or who they think are teens

[celtyradfem]

This should be an indicator of how racist and misogynist porn is. People should be worried about how harmful this is and how it sexualises basically everything everyone should be against. Pornographers will sexualise any injustice and cruelty to make it ‘sexy’. Porn is not sexy it is sexist, racist, homophobic and any other kind of discrimination and oppression.

Pornographers are bigots call them out. If you don’t believe me look at what they pornographers do and think. Look at Larry Flint and what he actually thought about women and other oppressed classes. Pornographers are not progressive they hate women and act out their misogyny on women and film it. They are woman haters and abusers. Porn is woman hating propaganda stop watching it.

It should also be an indicator of pedophillia because of the sexualisation of teenage girls (it doesn’t matter if they are over eighteen it still encourages men to go after teenage girls).

[strawberryinstantoatmeal-deacti]

i watched this for like 4-5 minutes and all of these came up during that time

[rad-itzel]

Less than half a minute after I clicked, these appeared one after the other:

I need to take a fucking shower. 🤢

[radicalmommyxx]

In less than 5 mins I saw:

[radfemkirie]

All within literally 60 seconds of each other. Porn is the biggest exploiter of women (especially women of color) and if you watch and enjoy it, you’re not a good person.

[clock-dat-cervix]

I spent a maximum of one minute on there; rushing to screenshot it all got too much. Due to the limit of pictures, I had to leave out ‘pussy beaten’ ‘pussy torture’ and ‘cute ebony slave’.

Fuck porn.

I’m tempted to do a weekly round-up of the worst shit I find, lovely to see porn-users exposed as the pieces of shit they are.

Edit: some images are multiple searches in one but are cropped put, click to see ‘dog lick crotch’ and co :D

[antiporn-activist]

this is what you get when you defend porn.

[getoffmyastroturf]

Pity u can’t screencap their urls

[raddibaddi]

“Dead women”

“Impaled killed girl snuff”

[radartemisia]

In ONE MINUTE I got the following “shit injected into pussy” “very drunk girl” “teen rough anal pain” and “hung by tits needles” “glove strangle” “flat cheated teen”

[yooterus-deactivated20220126]

[yooterus-deactivated20220126]

Oh and this is the description for the website:

So basically the live feed of searches is there to give people ideas on what to search.

[wintertidewater-deactivated2025]

Disgusting

[offmyterf]

And they literally threaten us who are against this bullsh** with violence. I have “qu*er” larpers on Facebook who post the NO TERFS NO SWERFS cringe memes with pride as if they’re standing up for something good….. oddly enough it’s only afabs who post that stuff. It makes me wonder if female socialization is literally at the crux of this creepy NO SWERFS activism.

[girlsfrommars]

‘‘Tight teen’‘, ‘‘teacher’‘, ‘‘Native American girls’‘, ‘‘unwanted behind’‘

So we’ve got borderline pedophilia, the fetishisation of student/teacher relationships, racism, and rape porn all in literally one minute

Round two. Straight-up incest.

Round three. Lost faith in men.

Sigh….

[girlsfrommars]

Let’s bring this back to show how empowering porn truly is

(Mind you I found this within a few minutes of waiting)

[bangtanlover17bt21universe]

why is ‘wife paying of husbands debt’ on there. how did they make even THAT into porn??

[ms-gay-frogs]

im gonna be fucking sick.

[genderisstillareligion-deactiva]

I’ve known about this website FOR YEARS.

It remains as disgusting as ever.

If you can sit there and read this for five minutes and feel no remorse, I don’t trust you. Not sorry about it anymore 

[theabigailthorn]

What book do you refuse to read?

stuff like the turner diaries, janice raymond, ray blanchard, j. michael bailey, any of the hardcore TERF or nazi shit. you don’t need that nonsense in your brain, it’s not gonna make you happy

[lowkey-radical]

you won't read radfem theory and yet you feel comfortable speaking as an authority on it 🧐 how very male

[femalegrendel-deactivated202205]

i will do my best to contain my rage at “terf” going before “nazi” in the Forbidden Books Response.

that said: as a jew, i often read “nazi shit.” my dad had me read mein kampf when i was still in elementary school. understanding what they think about us is key to countering them logically and affirming my own humanity as a product of my self-image (not by how others see me).

never once have i read “nazi shit” and felt swayed. not even remotely. not even when i was 9. because i knew who i was, and i knew that my identity was a product of my material reality, not of an echo chamber id built to insulate my own life. i knew that reading words on a page could not upend my worldview - not unless i had been very, very wrong about several objective truths for a very long time.

you’re a philosopher, or so you say. pontificating on ideological frameworks that you disagree with should be child’s play for you.

so tell me: what are you so scared of?

[user87262893]

my family calls me "liberal" because they're all really conservative but they would lose their goddamn minds if they knew how deeply leftist I was it's like they only know the tip of the iceberg and the iceberg looks like this

[user87262893]

@allybundance why do you believe that female people owe male people their space and time and accommodation? do you believe we are meant to cater to male people?

Also what is radical lesbianism and how is it "biphobic"?

[illalwaysbehere]

Turns out you can just say whatever woke-ish sounds words you want and not care if it makes sense.

[jiangshi]

people who leave their phones set to military time are fuckin war criminals how do you look at 16:05 and go wow i can understand that . fucking bootlickers whats next? you gonna go join the army??recruit me?

[kountessbathory-deactivated2020]

yo chill bro……. i’m just european 😔

[philomena-famulok]

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