Who was the one to propose: There was no traditional proposal that took place but Thaddeus knew it’s what Leia wanted and in his unconventional way he did.
Who stressed more over wedding planning: Leia did and Thaddeus was zero help and had nothing to do with any aspect of the planning.
Who decorated the house: The only part of the house Thaddeus “decorated” was the garage and the rest was all Leia’s doing.
Who does the cooking: Thaddeus does the grilling and Leia does the rest.
Who is more organized: Thaddeus is incredibly organized and always has been.
Who initiates bedroom fun: Usually Thaddeus.
Who suggested kids first: Leia had hinted at it but neither talked about it or decided to have kids; it just happened much to his dismay.
Who’s more dominant: There’s no doubt to either of them that Thaddeus is.
Who’s the cuddler: Leia is and despite his urge to he doesn’t always push her away.
Who’s the big spoon/little spoon: Because Thaddeus never initiates it he usually ends up being the little spoon.
What’s their favorite non-sexual activity: They’re both so different that a lot of their favorite activities differ. But, ever since Thaddeus had dragged the girl along to go practice shooting it has kind of been their thing and despite Leia not being one for firearms she likes how Thaddeus will touch her when he helps her get into proper stances. Sometimes they’ll even pull the trigger together.
Who comes home drunk at 3am: Thaddeus comes home at 3am, a lot, but never drunk. However, he is drunk off of adrenaline. There was one time where Leia was up and swore she saw his hands covered in blood. (most definitely not his own)
Who kills the spiders: Thaddeus kills all the bugs. (and maybe a little more than just bugs)
Who falls asleep first: Leia does because Thaddeus spends a lot of nights waiting till she falls asleep to slip out of the house.
A head canon: Everyone thinks Leia is foolish to be with someone like Thaddeus, deserving much better, and thinks she’s not aware of the awful things he’s done or may do but she’s not in denial. She knows what he’s like just chooses to see past it. And, while Thaddeus thinks she’s unaware that he slips out in the middle of the night he’s wrong. She knows. She knows a lot more than anyone is aware of.
Their relationship summed up in a gif:
Do they have any “rituals”? They don’t share any rituals, though they both have their own personal rituals, because they keep every day different than the day before.
Who is louder? Thaddeus is the louder of the two.
Who is more experimental? Thaddeus is..
Who takes more risks? Thaddeus takes a lot of risks but so does Leia, she doesn't realize it, but her choice of being with him and continuing to fight to keep what they have is a risk in itself. Probably the biggest risk either of them could take.
Do they fuck or make love? Depends heavily on Thaddeus’s temper at the time.
Lights on or off? Lights off or on, doesn’t make much difference.
Who is more likely to be caught masturbating? Neither.
Who is more likely to suggest a threesome? Thaddeus.
Who is better at oral and who prefers it? Thaddeus is probably better but he prefers it.
Who is more submissive? Leia is but there’s been a few times where she tried -- and failed -- to be the dominant one.
Who usually initiates things? Thaddeus does.
Who is more sensitive? Leia is.
Who has the most patience? Leia does because Thaddeus only has selective patience and usually can be quick to anger or annoy.
Which kinks do they share? Thaddeus has a lot of kinks (blood play being one of them) but never gives into it because he’s aware that Leia isn’t like that and her kinks are a lot more tame. So, they don’t share any kinks.
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