Your friendly neighborhood bisexual!

A not so normal guy for a not so normal world. I don't claim rights to anything I reblog, see yourself and don't want it up I'll take it down, any photos under the #me are of me and therefore mine. I don't want them used in whole or in part without my expressed permission. Reblogging #me should be with caption intact only. 18+ only.🔞

[that-bi-guy]

To all my followers:

See you elsewhere!

I will be closing this blog.

However, I am now on several other sites:

Twitter: @thatbiguy8

Fetlife: @The_Doctore

@feyfeather @adrenaline-skeleton @stray-kids-world

[taco-bell-rey]

Porn blogs still posting porn until December 17th is the equivalent of the band playing while the Titanic was sinking.

[gentlefemdompuppy-deactivated20]

Perverts, it has been a privilege posting porn with you.

[bunnie-blogging]

it was an honor being horny with you all

[just-shower-thoughts]

The good guys always win because history is written by the victors.

[that-bi-guy]

"Good guys"

[just-shower-thoughts]

People joke about Fortnite players being 12 year old virgins even though it’s perfectly acceptable for a 12 years old to be a virgin. In fact, it’s actually expected.

[hellboundhayden]

Yo, okay, stop tellin boys that their height is funny if they’re short. Stop rebloggin things about boys who are under 6ft tall with the intention of laughing at them.

Stop telling boys to man up.

Stop telling boys that they should just move on and get over emotionally/physically traumatic experiences.

Stop telling boys that their girlfriends are “always right because women are always right.”

Stop making fun of boys for parts of their body that they were literally just born with an HAVE no control over.

BOYS. NEED. EMOTIONAL. SUPPORT. TOO. BOYS. HAVE. BODY. IMAGE. ISSUES. TOO.

Fuck.

[hellboundhayden]

Still relevant

[teacupsandcauldrons-deactivated]

But like why is there still this concept that males don’t like cute mushy romantic shit and being emotionally taken care of? Just the other day I was cuddling with my boyfriend and after admiring him for awhile I told him, “Your eyes are so beautiful, they look like mini oceans” and I swear to god I heard him squeak in embarrassment and saw his cheeks actually begin to blush. Sometimes he likes being the little spoon and although I’m half his size I’m always happy to play jet pack. If he’s having a bad day he knows he can lay his head on my shoulder and just bawl his eyes out and I won’t think any less of him. Guys have emotional needs and want to feel loved and taken care of too yanno.

[deactivated-blog]

Boys deserve emotional reassurance just like anybody. They deserve compliments and cuteness, too.

[oukaori-deactivated20190727]

[hexxit-deactivated20180526]

does anyone else with intrusive thoughts do that weird dismissive head shake when they get them to kinda like.. reverse/reject the thought or is that just me

[meow-n-save]

Gotta shake your brain like an etch-n-sketch and start over

[showerthoughtsofficial]

Depression is like drowning but you’re unable to die

[dailypsychologyfacts]

Super Nice Things To Do For Someone With Depression

What people never understand is that depression isn’t about the outside; it’s about the inside.

It’s difficult to help a loved one with depression. Especially, when you don’t know what to do. It can be hurtful seeing a friend or family member struggle throughout the day. At times you may want them to snap out of it, but trust me it is not as easy. Telling a loved one to “get over it” or “just do this” will not help the situation. This will cause them to become distant. Here are nice things to do for someone who has depression:

1: Prepare a nutritious meal:

The eating habits of those with depression changes, and most of the time they don’t pick healthy meals. Food directly impacts how they feel and by eating the correct foods their mood will improve. (mood boosting foods)

2: Go for a walk around the block:

Depressed individuals don’t produce enough vitamin D because of the lack of sun exposure. A couple of minutes outside can help them immensely.

3: Help them clean their room:

Remember depression zaps people’s energy and cleaning can be impossible. A messy room will bring down the depressed person even more. Make it fun by…

CONTINUE READING HERE

[bestial-eyes]

PSA about ADHD

✦ADHD is not a personality quirk

- some things that tag along with ADHD are:

        ~sensory processing disorder

        ~executive dysfunction

        ~poor fine motor skills

        ~sensory overloads (that lead to meltdowns)

        ~sensory seeking (self stimming)

        ~hyperfixations

        ~moderate to severe memory problems

        ~Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria- is an extreme emotional sensitivity and emotional pain triggered by the perception that one is being rejected, teased, or criticized. The emotional response is complete with suicidal ideation and people suffering from RSD often get misdiagnosed with serious personality disorders. RSD is only seen in people with ADHD and the emotional sensitivity/reaction is much more severe than that of a neurotypical person.

✦Some other “fun” ADHD things! 

          ~inability to regulate emotions

          ~no concept of time

          ~noticeable public stimming (resulting in stares from neurotypicals) 

          ~no impulse control

          ~insomnia

          ~listen but cannot absorb what is being said 

          ~no volume control 

          ~increased inability to focus when emotional

          ~difficulty stopping a task and transitioning to the next 

          ~social anxiety

          ~higher levels on generalized anxiety

          ~extremely forgetful 

          ~”all or nothing” mentality  

@ neurotypicals- some things to be aware of: 

- you cannot hyperfixate. only people who are neurodivergent can hyperfixate. please don’t use that word when describing your latest obsession :-)

- please don’t stare at neurodivergent people who are stimming in public

- be respectful of those who actually need fidget toys so they can subtly stim in public 

- if we forget something you tell us it is not because we don’t care, we just have a million other thoughts racing through our mind and no way to filter through them. 

- please be gentle with us. no don’t tip toe around us and treat us like we aren’t human, but be aware that even offhand comments can trigger RSD. no we aren’t being too sensitive, our brains are wired differently than yours. 

[that-bi-guy]

I have all of these symptoms.

[coldmarmaladeee-deactivated2026]

Pornhub is welcoming Tumblr refugees

So Pornhub knows what’s happening right now. There’s a tweet going around that Pornhub is welcoming NSFW Tumblr Accounts so they can post pictures, art, writings, anything that is NSFW and you can earn money from your own creations.  I’m seriously considering joining so I can get my daily dose of smut and fics. I thank Pornhub for this opportunity. You can literally do everything Tumblr does but with a side of extra porn.

[oscarwildeboytoy-deactivated201]

Something that doesn’t get talked about often with kids in abusive situations is, They learn to lie well and they learn to lie often. It keeps them safe. Because in an abusive home “honesty is the best policy” doesn’t apply. They will get hurt, emotionally, physically, or otherwise.

As an adult I notice I still will catch myself lying about things that make no sense to lie about. And it isn’t a conscious decision. I have to fight to break a coping skill, that even though once kept me alive, is now toxic.

If you have a partner or friend who grew up in an abusive household, don’t scold them for lying. Help them to feel safe enough to challenge those coping skills. Talk to them open and honestly and if you see them do it, don’t say anything until you can talk to them privately. Calling them out in front of people is hurtful. (this does not include things that could be actively harmful of course)

And kids and adults who still catch themselves doing this, don’t feel like it makes you an evil manipultive person. You did it to stay alive, but now you need to challenge that. If you are safe to do so.

I still struggle with this, and everyday I try harder. But it’s the people who tried to understand and be kind that helped me. Anger over something that once saved my life did nothing but make me hide more.

You deserve to feel safe enough to tell the truth.

[jojincitow-deactivated20210627]

[that-bi-guy]

Somebody awoke a sleeping forest god.

[snackwizard]

adults, while forcing all children above the age of 5 to sit still, be silent, and obey orders for 7-8 hours a day with minimal breaks, reducing their exposure to fresh air and sunlight to almost nothing, forcing them to alter their natural sleeping patterns to increase productivity, and repeatedly telling them their self worth depends on their being able to follow these instructions perfectly for 13 or more years: kids these days are so lazy! they never go outside! they never want to do anything! clearly it’s not because of us!

[spirit-of-science]

The way we treat children is extremely inhumane, but so many adults want to dismiss it because it’s so normalized

[benditlikegumby-deactivated2020]

You… You do realize that’s what it’s like to be a working adult…? And our days are even longer.

[snackwizard]

thats because an 8 hour work day is extortion and should be illegal. next question.

[jackary-deactivated20260330]

Either you’ve never had a job or you’re just lazy af. There’s nothing wrong with 9 to 5 jobs. Nobody is forcing people to work them and people need the hours to make more money. People get breaks too.

[snackwizard]

Please take a biology class & get some help. People shouldnt have to do work 80% of the day to survive.

[grantairefanclub-remade]

@captainjack1999

1. the eight-hour work-day is cruelty

2. capitalism is forcing people to work. i could just quit my job and hang out at home - but then i would lose my house and most likely starve to death, because of the way our economy works.

3. breaks for most establishments are a mere 30 minutes for an 8-hour shift; at my first job, for a 6-hour shift, your break would only be 15 minutes and any longer shift would only get 30. studies say people are more productive if for every hour you work, you get a 15-minute break - meaning, for an 8-hour shift, you’d need an hour-long break, and so on and so forth.

the way modern society views work is unhealthy for loads of reasons, not just what i mentioned here. the fact that we’re preparing children for such a torturous lifestyle is horrific.

[questbedhead]

Also like…. small children are not adults. Small children should not be held to the same standards as adults. Even if the 8 hour work day WAS healthy, it would be inhumane to hold a small child to the same standard.

[biofomission]

The school system was literally designed to train people for factory work back when child labour was legal so that should tell you how fucked that is

[madvocate]

The New York Times is officially reporting that mass shootings could be prevented if the mentally ill just had less privacy and were easier to forcibly hospitalize, proving once again that the non-mentally ill are the most dangerous people of all.