Iām soooo over feedees being compared and everything being a competition. Every single body type is beautiful, I love all fat distributions, and am fully supportive of everyone going at their own pace. Stop trying to pit us against each other. You take away all the fun and community of feedism the second you do that shit
Every feedee out there deserves respect, and there will be a body type out there that everyone will prefer over others. But that's not to say we can't all just support the feedees we like without demeaning or putting down those we may not. If you're gonna be making comparisons, make comparisons to when the feedee you admire was smaller/a few months prior. Don't compare one feedee to another, as that's not fair to anyone. Everyone carries weight differently/has different heights etc. Be mindful when making degrading/mean-spirited comments too, as firstly not every feedee appreciates such comments. Secondly a lot of them appreciate just being told that they look good today/they are beautiful every once in a while. Everyone deserves to feel they look good in their own skin after all, whether they're a twig or a blimp (and no i'm not saying to just throw said compliment because "it's what they want to hear". you've gotta mean it!) Thanks for coming to my TED talk!
