butterfly

Welcome to my dark lil world-:) I blog about things that make people think or laugh-: religion, atheism, quotes, education, psychology, science, photography, funny stuff, art, fashion, haute couture, makeup, movies, tv shows...whatever fancies me-:)

[vantekay]

If my future s/o doesn’t stare at me like I’m their whole world while I stand like a crackhead in the candle section of target smelling every single candle before buying one then whats the point

[rekdreams247]

My mom does this and my dad always watches her. She thinks he’s not paying attention, but last year he remembered the ones she liked and used that knowledge to get her a custom scented candle for their anniversary. He had it named “Target Sniffs”.

[vantekay]

this is the cutest addition to this post I could have ever asked for

[serious]

[visacoco]

[staypozitive]

Some periods of our growth are so confusing that we don’t even recognize that growth is happening. We may feel hostile or angry or weepy and hysterical, or we may feel depressed. It would never occur to us, unless we stumbled on a book or a person who explained to us, that we were in fact in the process of change, of actually becoming larger, spiritually, than we were before. Whenever we grow, we tend to feel it, as a young seed must feel the weight and inertia of the earth as it seeks to break out of its shell on its way to becoming a plant. Often the feeling is anything but pleasant. But what is most unpleasant is the not knowing what is happening. Those long periods when something inside ourselves seems to be waiting, holding its breath, unsure about what the next step should be, eventually become the periods we wait for, for it is in those periods that we realize that we are being prepared for the next phase of our life and that, in all probability, a new level of the personality is about to be revealed.

Alice Walker, Living by the Word (via staypozitive)

[dream-house-inspiration]

[ericscissorhands]

Just a little reminder of what’s to come this year. ;D

Happy New Year!

[thehijabstylist]

[inkskinned]

Can I tell you a secret? You don’t have to be in a relationship.    I mean it. I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it. Girls aren’t pretty unless they’re wanted. Boys aren’t men unless they’re having sex with someone. People aren’t lovable until they’re dating someone.    But a relationship won’t always make you happy, and as wonderful as romance is, it isn’t the only love that exists. I have seen friendships that are deeper and more pure than couples who swear it’s forever - and yet the friendship is the one people ignore.    I have heard so often “nobody loves me” out of the mouths of people who are single. And it kills me because if you ask them: where are your parents, your teachers, your classmates, your pets - they say, yes, okay, but it doesn’t count. Of course it counts, love doesn’t diminish just because someone doesn’t want to have sex with you. In fact, doesn’t it sort of make that love more real that they want nothing - not even a date - out of you?   It is pretty to be in love. It’s magical, I’m sure. But it’s also wonderful to stop for ice cream in your prom dress with six other girls. It’s also wonderful to go visit the world with nothing but a bunch of buddies who are really excited about learning.    The problem is: we’ve made everything about “the one”. But maybe “the one” is just you, loving yourself, having fun, and being happy. Maybe instead of looking for our other halves, we should be piecing ourselves together.   Maybe I wasn’t born unfinished. Maybe I am the one who makes myself better.

Single serving size // r.i.d  (via weltenwellen)

[gifak-net]

[dailylordegifs]

[orphanblack]

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[ostracizedpoodle]

i was in the car with my dad and a little kid ran into the road and my dad yelled “natural selection” 

[williamchapmanwritings]

It doesn’t matter if it’s a relationship, a lifestyle, or a job. If it doesn’t make you happy let it go.

(via bl-ossomed)

[simply-quotes-deactivated202002]

People come, people go—they’ll drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in a favorite book. When you finally close the cover, the characters have told their story and you start up again with another book, complete with new characters and adventures. Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones, not the ones from the past.

Nicholas Sparks, The Rescue (via simply-quotes)

[naturaekos]

The worst bullies you will ever encounter in your life are your own thoughts.

Bryant McGill (via naturaekos)

[poetbitesback]

Sometimes, the best people are dealt the worst hand in life. You just have to keep playing until the cards you hold are right.

excerpt from a book I’ll never write || O.L. (via chlorinecoveredgirl)

[staypozitive]