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Okay, Jenna, repeat after me.

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Long Legs

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1962 Pontiac, Body by Fischer

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No Contact - No Excuse

I have recently been chatting with multiple submissive girls who are basically being ignored by their Caregiver. They did nothing wrong. They were not told they were going to be ignored. They just have been without any contact for no particular reason.

When you ignore your submissive, whether it is intentional or not, you leave them wondering what they have done wrong. They sit there thinking that there must be something wrong with them that you can so put them from your mind, as they starve for your guidance, love, and support. There is no excuse for it. It’s the age of texting folks. It takes less than 30 seconds to type a phrase like, “Sorry, I don’t mean to ignore you. Just wanted to remind you that I care about you. I’m just terribly busy.” Takes the same 30 seconds to type, “I’m having a hard time with myself right now, and I just need some time to sort it out. I hope you understand.” Any communication of what is going on that requires your absence will mean so much to someone who depends on you so much, and who you have sworn to care for. Don’t ghost on your submissive. Let me say it again for those in the back… DON’T GHOST ON YOUR SUBMISSIVE. If you can’t spare them 30 seconds over a period of several days, you don’t deserve one.

JerseyDaddy🌹

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i love to daydream and be called baby

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“Baby, I can feel your halo, pray it won’t fade away”

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SMASH MOUTH BEEFS WITH DJ KHALED OVER EATING PUSSY

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Power Exchange

The basic principles of a Dominant/submissive power exchange are that she gives up authority in her life and her choices to Him. He then makes the choices for her while becoming responsible for her. Health and well- being.

This is a very simple explanation. There is plenty of information out there about the different types of power exchanges that happen and both parties responsibilities.

I would like to get into a pretty important aspect of a power exchange. I have heard- on both sides- Dominants and submissives- about dynamics falling apart or becoming weaker because the Dominant is not fully performing.

I want to make something clear. It is an exchange. He is only as powerful as you give Him space to be.

Do not undermine His authority. Do not question His direction. Do not top from the bottom. Do not manipulate the circumstances to get a desired outcome.

This ^^ can look like a lot of different things. He can only be as Dominant as you give Him room to be.

Do not destroy your own dynamic because you are not knowledgeable in how to encourage His dominance or give Him your submission.

Do your homework. Ask other submissives.

Protect what is yours. Encourage Him. Put Him on the pedestal you want Him to be on. Put Him there.

nabooqueen

Infinite List of Favorite Films

→ Sabrina (1954)

Oh, but Paris isn’t for changing planes, it’s — it’s for changing your outlook, for — for throwing open the windows and letting in — letting in la vie en rose.