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22. Aotearoa 🇳🇿🇳🇿🇳🇿 Don't be shy to ask me anything :)

[its-arson-time]

inside of you there are two intestines.

one of them is large, and the other is small.

[its-arson-time]

this post is a hit with the tummy issues squad

[brennan-lee-mother]

Diversity win! Ancestral curse recognises non-biological parenthood!

[caitmayart]

Who wants to go listen to weird gnomish emo music and enjoy the (non sexual) nudity tent?

[caitmayart]

Oh just -

uh

don't worry about the lawnmower

it's just a lawnmower

[brionbroadway]

character assassination

[chriservans]

Thomas vs. Dylan (The Maze Runner version)

[thesmegalodon]

“no matter how badly you think you’re doing it, someone else has done it a lot worse and been fine” is applicable to a wide, wide range of things and i say it to myself all the time

[qthewhatever]

"bigger idiots than me have done it" is a phrase I live by

[oldsgie-deactivated20260302]

[riibrego]

sunbathers 🌻

phone & tablet wallpaper sizes //  prints  

[monttagues]

they haven't even started yet and they're already coming straight for my neck

[passionpeachy]

quilt moth

[still-face-subject]

There's this perception on here among neurodivergent people that neurotypical social behaviour is all fake and arbitrary. That it's a cruel, baseless game played to "weed out" ND people or to cause pain and complicate things on purpose.

This is wrong. All of those social rules and nuances ARE communication. Sorry if this is rude but it's not the NTs' fault if things don't gel- the gap goes both ways. Just because communication doesn't make sense to you, doesn't mean it's random or purposeless. Remember this post?

Every interaction in an NT conversation has purpose, and communicates something, and I don't understand why nobody ever explains this to ND people. There's information on basic stuff like facial expressions, but never what any of it actually means.

Small talk about the weather isn't about the weather. It's about how nice it is to be around the people you're talking to, or feeling out their understanding of the world, or just saying that you're both present and people and you're being people together. It's not literal. The words are, but the broad scope isn't.

A conversation is not just an exchange of words, it's an exchange of acknowledgement, attention, and emotional understanding. Of course it confuses people when their part in that exchange is met with flat affect or unembelished words. It's like looking in a mirror and not seeing your reflection.

[vampirehayfever]

something i genuinely will always love about fig's character is that she will always stand up for the outcasts or people who aren't considered "cool". like without even missing a beat fig immediately goes to play twister with mazey because ivy wanted to put her down for even suggesting it. it genuinely is one of the best parts of her character and i adore it so much.

[littlegoldfinchh]

lord the peasants are so loud today

[littlegoldfinchh]

pheasants. PHeasants. The birds

[kulvefaggoth]

[greatpistachiopie]

fig & the applebees

[maybebi47]

imagine you're lydia barkrock, you're this single mother who's been fighting a chronic illness for years, every day is a battle but you push through, and you tell the story of your battle to some kids you're...co-parenting? who knows, and one of them who looks extremely bad, like she's maybe had the worst day of her life yesterday, as soon she hears about your battles, reaches out and gives you the help action.

[pyxiscowboy]

why would they say that.

[rainebownerd]

What if I cried?

[say-hi-intrepid-heroes]

has the same energy as