Wren | he/him

Mixed Origin System | collective pronouns he/him | collective name wren | body is 16 | autistic, social anxiety, anxiety | nonhuman || anti nontraumagenic systems DNI

[the-kandi-collectiive]

Hey there! I figured I would make a blog just for our system, just to have more anonymity. If you know us irl and somehow recognize us (unless one of the people we explicityl told in private), please leave.

We’re the moth collective and collectively use he/him pronouns! We are autistic so please use tone indicators! Posts will be tagged with names and pronouns unless we just literally don’t know. We are pro non-traumagenic/disordered plurality and mixed origins. We have created a side-blog for individual headmate introductions and information, linked at the end. Also don’t use the term alters for us. 

Additional Information

The body is 16 so please be aware of that. We are into MCYT (Hermitcraft, Empires, Life Series), The Magnus Archives and used to have a massive Warriors phase! We will not be heavily involved in syscourse but if you are against or neutral on non-traumagenic systems, please leave. We will respect your boundaries as long as you respect ours. We have very bad anxiety and social anxiety so please be patient and understanding if we take longer to reply or ask for extra reassurance!

We made this account to share our experiences and to perhaps make some plural friends!

Important Links

Our side blog the-kandi-archives

-Silas (he/him)

[saterise]

Hermitcraft antics

[the-kandi-collectiive]

I just spent an two hours updating our simply plural and redoing our pluralkit with in depth intros for everyone someone kill me please

- Ghost (he/they/void)

[the-kandi-collectiive]

Sorry, but I am not being nice to someone who doesn’t “believe in my existence” like I’m a religion or smth

-Etho (he/it/they)

[constellation-kingdom-deactivat]

Reminder that it’s okay if you’re not sure if you or another headmate actually formed recently or not! You don’t have to know the exact time a headmate was formed, they might not know either!

[void-watcher-eldri-deactivated2]

your daily reminder (colored version)

There's no "right" way to be transgender.

There's no "right" way to be non-binary.

There's no "right" way to be queer.

There's no "right" way to be mspec.

There's no "right" way to be aspec.

There's no "right" way to be gnc.

There's no "right" way to be plural.

There's no "right" way to be neurodivergent.

There's no "right" way to be queerplatonic.

There's no "right" way to be polyam.

There's no "right" way to be otherkin.

There's no "right" way to be alterhuman.

There's no "right" way to be intersex.

There's no "right" way to be aldernic.

There's no "right" way. Stop policing the terms others use for themselves in good faith.

[leaflittercollective-proendo-de]

Reblog if ur pro-endo and wanna be mutuals, we are looking for more endo friendly peeople to follow and interact with:D

Thankyou kindly for listening to this PSA, thankyou and goodbye ❤

Harley and Kiera 🌟🐭

[plural-userboxes]

<Alt Text:> This System Is Always Open To Be Friends!

-👻

Requests Are Closed!

[multiplicity-positivity]

Here’s some positivity for systems who feel they aren’t “plural enough!”

Whether you:

🍃 have little to no interactions or communication with others in your system

🍃 have a host who is always fronting, don’t switch at all, or switch very rarely

🍃 have a system which goes through unexplained long periods of silence or dormancy

🍃 have a system with covert, subtle, or hard to notice switches with little visible differences between headmates

🍃 are part of a nontraumagenic, p-did, median, or other kind of system that does not get much focus or representation in mainstream media or research

🍃 deal with insecurity or trauma about your plurality due to being not taken seriously fakeclaimed in the past

🍃 or struggle with anything else that makes you or someone in your system feel as though you aren’t “plural enough”

We want to reassure you that it’s okay to feel insecure or worried about whether or not you’re actually plural. That doesn’t mean you’re not actually a system or experiencing multiplicity by any means! It’s quite common for systems to experience doubt - especially in a world where plurality is not widely understood or accepted!

There’s no such thing as not being “plural enough.” Even if you’re a little bit plural then you’re plural enough and you belong in this community! And if you’re not, well, that’s okay too - we live in a singlets’ world, after all.

So please keep your chin up and take pride in your plurality, however that manifests for you! We’re rooting for you, and we’re so proud of how far you’ve come. We wish all of you the very best as you continue to grow and learn as systems (questioning or otherwise)!

(Image ID:) A pale orange userbox with a cluster of multicolored flowers for the userbox image. The border and text are both dark orange, and the text reads “all plurals can interact with this post!” (End ID)