Does it ever just hit you how much H&L have been through this past year with loss alone?
There’s nothing like shuffle hitting you with Just Hold On and Sign of the Times back to back to make you stop and consider it. Jay, Matt Irwin and Robin all in one year. 💔
These boys are so strong though, and have continued to work and have given so much joy to this fandom through all of that and all of the other stuff they’ve been dealing with since 2010, but fans still continue to dilute and overlook that achievement by comparing their career trajectories. If that helps you deal with the hiatus, knock yourself out - it’s not for me though but then I’m just a tiny blog with a tiny voice in a fandom that seemingly hangs on to every word posted from blogs with a massive reach. It saddens me though, and often I wonder why I bother. Then one of the boys does something typically sweet and I pull up my big girl pants and get on with streaming tracks and videos, faith restored.
Please let 2018 be a much better year, personally, for both of them and the year that this fandom finally gets its shit together and realises that there’s more to life than proving to your peers that two men are still together, possibly for your own peace of mind but also, let’s be honest, for notes and followers. Creating a fandom-run website for Louis is a step in the right direction but what use is it if a large chunk of the fandom isn’t using it on principle because of who’s behind it or because they’ve lost interest in Larry and in particular one half of that pairing because he’s still enmeshed in stunts, (for whatever reason)?
I think fandom energy could be used much more productively if we stopped focussing on the ‘are-they-or-aren’t-they-together’ stuff and treated them the same way we treat any other artist. If you love their music, buy it, stream it and promote it. If you don’t, then don’t.
Real talk now. We, as Larries, have always been the tin hat wearing cockroaches of this fandom - there’s no getting away from that. The passion and dedication with which we’ve supported these men and the amount of support we give to the LGBT+ community gets overlooked because of our reputation of being deluded zealots. We’re never going to win any popularity contests, so it irks me that Louis could be missing out on support because of that Larrie taint.
Maybe if the big Larrie blogs stopped trying to convince the fandom of the ‘realness’ of Larry and talked about them more as individuals, things would improve - leave that sort of thing to the fanfic writers. I’ve been a Larrie since 2013, and I always will be but I think the time has come to stop evangelising and preaching the Larry gospel and take a more intelligent approach. I would absolutely hate to think that how we conduct ourselves has a negative impact on Louis’ chances for success on top of the damage done by stunts with regards to disengagement of his fan base. I don’t see it as giving up. I see it as growing up and shutting up to reduce the stigma and who knows? If the Larrie noise reduces, the stunts could thin out too.
Anyway, that’s my tuppence worth that was sparked by a feeling of sadness for all they’ve gone through and are still going through. It’s just my thoughts - not that anyone will take notice of little old me. I just needed to offload it though because it was really harshing my mellow, so yeah …. rant over.