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Good Day fellow Concordians!
It has come to my attention that my last article may have offended some of you. Apparently the utilization of certain fabricated words describing the female anatomy, and my personal opinion regarding how girls today are dressed was too much to handle. I would like to start off by saying to the readers that in no way did I intend to offend any of you. As I mentioned in my opening article, my goal is to provide a personal and comedic approach to the questions I receive. I do however wish to note that I will not require the apology of women who choose to dress how they see fit, regardless of how offended I may be. Want to know why??? Well, welcome to Canada! It is a free country where we are blessed with this wonderful thing called, Freedom of expression! The Universal Declaration of Human Rights states: "Everyone has the right to freedom of opinion and expression; this right includes freedom to hold opinions without interference and to seek, receive, and impart information and ideas through any media and regardless of frontiers.” I fully comprehend that my thoughts are and will never be the same as all of my readers, and, quite frankly, I don't want them to be. That is the beauty of an opinion!
This is a university college newspaper folks, and in no way does what I mention in my rants express the opinions of the CSA, The Bolt editors, or my fellow columnists. I am just one student using my personal opinions and experiences to put a smile on some of your faces. Frankly, if I got a rise out of some individuals, then I feel I did my job as a writer. Is that not what every write attempts to accomplish? As an opinion article there is no possible way that everyone will agree with what I say; however, I do promise to no longer use words that could potentially offend you. Especially the dreaded "k" word.
Anyway enough of my ranting—I would love to hear my readers' thoughts about my last article, and I look forward to answering your future questions!
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Now on to the good stuff . . .
I'm going out on a first date with this guy I really like this weekend, how do I make a good impression so he'll ask me out again?
Dear First Date Concerns,
Ugh!!! First dates can be the worst! First off though I would like to congratulate you for holding out for a date with someone who you really like, step one accomplished—never settle! Now I am sure your friends have provided you with various ideas as to how to get his attention, but I can almost guarantee that 20ish (complete estimate on my part) year-old females have no idea what a 20ish year-old guy is actually thinking. The best way to get this type of intel would be to ask your guy friends. If you don't have any, make some! No one knows the mind of a 20ish year-old guy better than a 20ish year-old guy!
If he likes you and has asked you out, clearly he wants to get to know you on a different level than he would by chatting with you in Tegler or the cafeteria. Instead of telling you what to do, I have decided to give you some ideas as to what NOT to do.
1. Text on your Date: Whatever you do, keep your freakin’ phone in your purse! Nothing says louder to a person that I'm not really 100% here on this date, than your focus being on your phone. New age of technology or not, it’s just plain disrespectful.
2. Talk about your Ex's: Guys do not want to hear about it. They just don't! Especially on a first date. The point is to get to know one another, not to compare this new guy to your ex! You may not be doing that, but if you start describing your ex to this new guy, how is he not going to start thinking “what does he have that I don't,” or “am I better than him?”
Also, don't pick at your teeth (personally I find this to be just nasty!), burp (ladylike remember), talk about medical related issues (such as the time you had mono—this might turn a guy off is all I'm saying)
Basically, you can't force a second date unless it is meant to happen. I would make sure to be yourself, ask him questions about his interests, and avoid any potentially touchy topics of conversation. A first date needs to be chill. Good luck dating!