Things About Marriage I Learned Over Time
Itās just a piece of paper and two rings legally and at face value, you have to love the person youāre with even when theyāre angry at two in the morning through no fault of your own.
The honeymoon phase will past, but differently depending on the person. One side might take six months to get over it, another only three weeks.
Nothing stays the same forever, people change over time, and thatās not a bad thing.
Divorce isnāt the end of the world.
You are not less of a person if you fall out of love, youād only hurt yourself more in the end if you stayed with them.
Sex isnāt a huge priority in your marriage, though it should be considered at least a little important.
Accepting something new about your spouse is a must and it will happen.
You have to love yourself first, your spouse isnāt going to be able to fill that void no matter how much they try.
Communication is important.
Every relationship is different, no exception.
Social media and others will put a strain on your marriage.
Lies will be told, itās how they own up to the fact that they did that matters.
Never get married within the first two years of knowing someone, spend at least five.
Never ever internalize an issue you have with your spouse, talk to them.
If you want a divorce, let your spouse know, donāt spring it on them randomly and kick them out two days later.
Love is important, but never put it above yourself, marriage is something that makes you equal to another.