The Clever Coquette

••••The Metamorphosis of Sexyvyxxxen••• +++++ Female ~ USA ~ 40’s ~ Single +++++ PLEASE READ MY PINNED POST BEFORE MESSAGING!!!

[theclevercoquette]

Once upon a time…

… there was a middle-aged, youngish-at-heart, somewhat naive religious lady who had a more experienced male “significant other” that introduced her to Tumblr…

In reality, this is THRICE upon a time- I’ve had two different blogs get DELETED now, and I gotta say- NOT A FAN! Stupid Tumblr bots…

BUT- sometimes, change can be a good thing…

Thus, Sexyvyxxxen has now morphed into-

~*~ The Clever Coquette ~*~

LET THE EPICALLY SUPER-LONG TUMBLR MANIFESTO BEGIN!!!

THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW:

1.) This blog is a HOBBY… It is a compilation of posts and reblogs in which I find something I like, though not always for the reasons you might think… 😏 I AM NOT ON HERE LOOKING TO HOOK UP, SO PLEASE DON’T BOTHER TRYING!!! 🙄

2.) I’m demisexual and sapiosexual- meaning sexts and body part pics don’t do much of anything for me, so please- for the love of God- PLEASE do not send these to me!… 🤦🏻‍♀️ Actually, don’t send me anything without permission. Ever. PERIOD. Besides- I will find a way to make you regret doing so… 😡

3.) IF YOU ARE MARRIED…

PLEASE DO NOT come looking for entertainment with ME- BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, GOT THE T-SHIRT… (I literally did get a t-shirt or two!)😭 Instead, do yourself a favor and go make love to your God-given WIFE!!! 🤯

4.) PLEASE UNDERSTAND that I don’t generally like to talk through text unless it’s quality conversation; also know that I generally only talk when I’m curious or you’ve continually made good impressions on me. I don’t carry conversations well unless I feel like someone is interested in continuing it… 🤔

5.) I have a VERY strong religious background- if you dare to try to get to know me, it WILL come up and out- just an FYI… 😇

6.) I block all old, short, or blank blogs, as well as creepy perverts and diagnosable narcissists… Yes, I can tell. 🧐

7.) I am a single, straight, mostly-vanilla woman who finds aesthetic beauty in many things, but some things are meant to be private… Thus, I no longer post things meant for that privacy…☺️

While my older blogs contained A LOT of soft porn, this blog will be covering some of the broad range of my tastes and curiosities, and remain much cleaner than before… enjoy the new mediocrity!

THINGS THAT TURN ME ON/OFF:

ON- Kindness, Respect, Authenticity, Good communication skills, Intelligence, Confidence, Humbleness, Humor, Care, THOUGHTFULNESS, FRIENDSHIP, COMMITMENT, RESPECT, AND MARRIAGE!!!

OFF- The opposite of most of what is listed above, including those who try to push my boundaries after I’ve clearly set them…

Should the need arise, addendums will go below:

It is a pet peeve of mine to get messaged memes that I’ve already posted or did NOT ask for; I find it unoriginal and extremely annoying! I will warn you nicely at first, and less nicely the second time- third strike and you’re out, People. 🫠

I realize that the majority of men on here have wives that don’t know about their Tumblr activities. If you are one of those that isn’t good at covering your tracks, please don’t contact me EVER. The last thing I need is a PM from someone’s psychotic wife… 🤦🏻‍♀️

IF I GET A PRIVATE MESSAGE FROM YOU, you WILL be asked to read this post because I ask EVERYONE who messages me to do so, to make them aware of my personal Tumblr boundaries. And I sometimes forget who I’ve already told to do so. Therefore, DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY OR ASSUME I’M OFFENDED. 🙄 I’m usually just making sure you’re aware, as I have no other way of knowing that you are! 🤷🏻‍♀️

DEAR MEN- IF I CHOOSE TO PAY YOU A COMPLIMENT, IT IS NOT- I REPEAT- IT IS NOT A COME ON!!! - which means it’s also not an invitation to solicit your pervy stupidity! 🙄 E.g. If you look “yummy”, I will tell you that you look yummy; this does NOT, however, mean I PERSONALLY want to eat you. HUGE GINORMOUS DIFFERENCE. If you don’t understand this, DON’T MESSAGE ME!!!!!!!

OCCASIONALLY, I go through emoting phases… I am, after all, FEMALE… 🤪

*** You may wonder how I can reconcile being quite religious and yet have a blog like this. Well, here’s the thing- I believe God made sex, and that He made it to be enjoyed between a married male and female. I do NOT believe it is wrong to ponder the mysteries and pleasures about it. Most of what I post is, in my imagination, what would be acceptable in a married relationship. You won’t find posts that would cross those boundaries in my mind. It is a hope I may never realize, but it’s not wrong to hope… ***

Postscript: God has been working on my heart, and this blog is no longer what it once was. It has changed because I have changed… for the better, I believe! GOD IS GOOD!!!

And I believe that covers things for now! You are hereby responsible to abide by my boundaries. 🫡

Happy scrolling! 😘

[walkswithmyfather]

“Jesus is worth everything.

In Matthew 13:46, the merchant found a pearl of such great value that he sold everything to obtain it. Jesus is that priceless treasure. Nothing in this world can compare to His love, His grace, His peace, and the eternal life found in Him. What we surrender for Christ is never greater than what we gain in Him. When Jesus becomes our highest priority, we discover true purpose, lasting joy, and unshakable hope. He is not just part of life—He is life itself. Jesus is worth every sacrifice, every step of faith, and every moment of trust. Amen.”

From: “Faith Fusion” (FB)

Amen! 🙏🕊️🙌

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Today's Prayer ✝️

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Amen. 🙏

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the power of meditating in God’s word

David declared with conviction, “I will meditate on Your precepts, and contemplate Your ways” (Psalm 119:15 NKJV). This is more than casual reading; meditation is the discipline of allowing God’s Word to sink deep into the heart until it shapes your thinking, strengthens your faith, and steadies your life.

The blessed person isn’t simply the one who hears the Word, it’s the one who carries the Word within. David wrote, “His delight is in the law of the Lord, and in His law he meditates day and night” (Psalm 1:2 NKJV). When Scripture becomes the focus of your thoughts, it begins to guide your decisions, guard your heart, and give you strength in moments of pressure.

Jesus promised that the Holy Spirit would help believers recall the truth they have stored within them. “The Helper, the Holy Spirit…will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to you” (John 14v26 NKJV). The Word you meditate on today becomes the weapon you can use tomorrow. When difficulty rises, the Spirit of God will bring those Scriptures back to your mind like light breaking through darkness. History offers powerful reminders of this truth. Many believers have endured severe trials because they carried the Word of God inside them. In moments when there was no Bible to open and no preacher to hear, the Scriptures they had memorized became their strength. God’s promises became their prayers and His truth became their shield.

Meditation builds faith because faith grows where the Word is planted. Scripture says, “Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God” (Romans 10v17 NKJV). When you meditate on God’s promises and remember His faithfulness, fear loses its grip and confidence begins to rise. David understood this secret well. In seasons when enemies surrounded him and danger pressed on every side, he turned his thoughts toward God. He remembered the Lord’s counsel and found guidance even in the quiet hours of the night. “I will bless the Lord who has given me counsel; my heart also instructs me in the night seasons” (Psalm 16:7 NKJV).

So make meditation a daily habit. Read the Word slowly, think on it deeply, speak it aloud and hide it in your heart. Because when the Word of God lives within you, it will strengthen your spirit, steady your mind, and guide your steps through every season of life.

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GOD IS GOOD

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1 Corinthians 1:9. “God is faithful, who has called you into fellowship with his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.” (NIV)

2 Timothy 2:13. “[If we are faithless, He remains faithful [true to His word and His righteous character], for He cannot deny Himself.” (AMP)

Psalm 100:5. “For the LORD is good. His loving kindness endures forever, his faithfulness to all generations.” (WEB)

God is GOOD, and He is continuously working every situation for good (Rom. 8:28). The world is full of evil, we know that.

We will have troubles and sorrows, Jesus told us that, but God will bring something good from them. He will replace every loss with something greater.

When God says “no”, He has extremely good reasons, because He sees what we do not see. He will turn every no and every setback into a story, a testimony to encourage us and others. 

Friends, keep praying and praising and stay ready, because God is working tirelessly in your situation. When He's finished, it will be good, because God is always GOOD! Amen! 🙏🕊️🙌

[alwaysrememberjesus]

set the lord before you

David made a declaration that steadies the soul and anchors the heart. “I have set the Lord always before me; because He is at my right hand I shall not be moved” (Psalm 16:8 NKJV). This isn’t accidental awareness, it’s intentional focus. David chose to place God at the center of every moment. Imagine beginning your day with that mindset. Before the noise of the world reaches you, your heart reaches toward Him. Your first thought isn’t pressure but presence. Scripture reminds us, “In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths” (Proverbs 3:6 NKJV). When God is before you, guidance replaces confusion.

Setting the Lord before you also changes how you carry burdens. Instead of holding everything alone, you bring every concern into conversation with Him. You pray as you walk. You seek His wisdom as you work. You trust His strength when yours feels limited. “Cast your burden on the Lord, and He shall sustain you; He shall never permit the righteous to be moved” (Psalm 55:22 NKJV). When God stands beside you, you don’t stand alone.

David said the Lord was at his right hand. In Scripture the right hand represents power and action. It’s the hand that accomplishes the work. When God is at your right hand, His strength supports your steps and His presence steadies your spirit. That’s why David could say with confidence that he would not be shaken.

Life will still bring difficult moments. Bad news will arrive. Opposition will appear. Plans will sometimes falter. But the one who keeps the Lord before them doesn’t collapse under pressure. “You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You” (Isaiah 26:3 NKJV). Peace grows where focus remains on God. This is the life of steady faith. God present in your day. God present in your conversations. God present in your work. God present in your rest. When His presence fills your awareness, fear loses its authority and confidence takes root.

So set the Lord before you today. Invite Him into every thought, every task, and every decision. Because when the Lord stands at your right hand, your heart stands unshaken.

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