Introductory Information
Hello there, we are The Cobweb System. We are a professionally diagnosed traumagenic DID system as of 2025. Self awareness of plurality occurred in 2013. We're also diagnosed as neurodivergent (autisitic) among other mental disorders, making us mentally disabled. We are physically disabled as well, but still seeking diagnosis in that regard.
We currently have sixty headmates in total. We do have a few sub-systems. We are fictive-heavy. Our split tolerance varies. We personally use the following terms to describe one another: headmate, system member, alter, and part.
Bodily age is twenty-five (25) years old. Age of headmates may vary. Littles/children alters are restricted from online access, middles/teen alters are semi-restricted, and bigs/adult alters aren't restricted for the most part.
Our identities vary from headmate to headmate. We collectively go by the name Hyde. We're collectively queer. Pronouns vary for each headmate, however our default pronouns are they/them/their and it/its. We use both singular and plural pronouns interchangeablely: I/me/my and we/us/ours. Sexualities vary as well. If you're unsure how to address us, simply refer to us as Hyde with they/it pronouns please! Our switches can vary in length and frequency, to avoid making assumptions as to who is fronting that is why we have the default name and pronouns in place.
The host is happily married to their spouse, who is the host of another system. We only participate in having relationships within our system and said spouse's system. We do not consider their system to be our "partner system" as both our systems contain littles/children (who cannot consent to being in a relationship) and not every big/adult alter is interested in one another romantically. Romantic and queer-platonic relationships outside of these two systems is NOT allowed. Do NOT flirt with or attempt to pursue us, you will be blocked.
Read Before Following
The following is listed to clarify who we do not wish to hold space for within our blog:
If you identity as or support endogenic, willogenic, and/or tulpamancy "systems" - DO NOT INTERACT!!! (We will not participate in arguing over the validity of non-traumabased plurality.)
If you participate in or support "build a headmate" (BAH) - DO NOT INTERACT!!!
If you identity as or support any sort of radqueer/transID identities - DO NOT INTERACT!!!
If you're TRASH (transphobic, racist, ableist, sexist, and/or homophobic). This includes having ideologies relating to MAGA, TERF, truscum, transmedicalist, fatphobic, anti-accessibility, demonizing addiction, anti-BLM, anti-ACAB, pro-ICE, xenophobia, anti-landback, pro-zionism, lesbophobia, biphobia, panphobia, acephobia, etc. - DO NOT INTERACT!!!
If you participate in pro-shipping/dark-shipping - DO NOT INTERACT!!!
If you use AI - DO NOT INTERACT!!!
If you're anti-selfdx (with education of course) - DO NOT INTERACT!!!
If you're anti-otherkin/fictionkin - Do not interact!
If you're Christian or Catholic - Do not interact! (Many of us participate in theistic and non-theistic witchcraft, we do not agree with the church's values and roots, nor do we wish to discuss it in depth due to some headmates having religious trauma.)
If you're under eighteen (18) years old - Do not follow, advice may be asked, so light interaction is ok. For friends/mutuals we prefer twenty-one and up (+21).
*If you take offense to any of the following things listed, feel free to block us. Our boundaries will not be compromised or argued over. If you need clarification on anything, feel free to ask.*
Collective Interests
We enjoy animals, psychology, alternative music and fashion, drag, body modification, activism, art, the occult, horror media, and animated media. Examples of current favored media:
28 Days, Weeks, and Years Later (movie series)
As Above So Below (movie)
Frankenstein (movie)
Nosferatu (movie)
Iron Lung (movie)
Coraline (movie)
Interview with the Vampire (series)
Hannibal (series)
The Amazing Digital Cirucs (series)
Adventure Time (series)
Soul Eater (series)
DanganRonpa (series)
Chainsaw Man (series)
Panty and Stocking (series)
Marble Hornets (series)
EverymanHYBRID (series)
Minecraft (game)
Yume Nikki (game)
Poppy's Playtime (game)
Five Nights At Freddy's (games)
Pokemon (games)
CreepyPasta (fandom)
Unus Annus (fandom)
Wrapping Things Up
If you have any questions for us, our DMs are open. We're open to educating, explaining our journey in exploring systemhood, and making friendly conversation with those who have similar interests. We ask that messages remain respectful; anything triggering, sexually explicit, confrontational, offensive, or blatantly disrespectful will result in being blocked.
We hope to find others who wish to become mutuals!
