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10 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You’re An iNtuitive
The MBTI inventory classifies iNtuitive types as those who place more interest (and often more value) in theories, abstractions and the exploration of possibilities than they do in the concrete realities of the world around them.
iNtuitive-dominant personality types (mainly ENFPs, ENTPs, INTJs and INFJs) are almost always more interested in what isn’t being said or considered than what is.
But since we live in a sensor-dominant world, intuitive behavior tends to stick out like a sore thumb. Almost every iNtuitive personality will be able to recall many experiences in which their loved ones were thoroughly confused by their reasoning or behavior. Here are ten behaviors people often don’t understand are associated with being an iNtuitive personality.
1. Spurring debates.
iNtuitives don’t fully understand an issue until they’ve considered it from every possible angle. These types aren’t debating because they want to be difficult or impolite – they’re debating because they need to test the validity of the topic by arguing it from every side. They want to see if any holes arise in their reasoning as they go, and some of their best learning takes place through the process of debate.
2. Obsessively planning for the future.
iNtuitives live almost exclusively in the future – they love considering which options may arise for them, which goals they ought to set for themselves, what their lives may look like in twenty or thirty years, etc.
Of course, it’s impossible to plan every detail of one’s life… so the plan is subject to getting readjusted. For extroverted iNtuitives (xNFPs and xNTPs), the readjusting happens almost daily. For introverted intuitives (xNFJs and xNTJs), readjusting happens as needed – but the need tends to arise regularly.
3. Viewing the rules as suggestions.
It’s not that iNtuitives are rebellious for the sake of it – it’s just that they analyze why a rule exists before deciding whether or not to follow it. These types despise arbitrary action, so if they perceive a rule to be outdated or ineffective, they have no problem casting it aside and doing things their way instead.
4. Over-analyzing everything.
For the iNtuitive, it isn’t enough to understand how a given issue applies to them – they have to also understand the global implications of the issue, or the underlying theory that ties is all together. iNtuitives want to know the intangible explanation for every tangible problem, and it can drive those around them a little bonkers.
5. Placing little trust in authority.
iNtuitives types trust competence over qualification, and they want to make their own judgments about how competent they find others to be. iNtuitives are highly aware of the human tendency to favor convenience and prestige above analysis, and they aren’t quick to trust any established system simply because it’s been in place for a long time.
6. Relentlessly seeking variety.
iNtuitive personalities are naturally drawn to the abnormal, the uncouth and the unconventional. These types spend their entire lives attempting to piece together a comprehensive worldview, which means that they seek to understand as many different oddities as possible. Whether they’re seeking novelty in their studies, their lifestyles or both, these types are always on the hunt for new lenses through which they can view the world.
7. Developing obscure interests.
Since what they don’t know is almost always more interesting to the iNtuitive personality than what they do know, these types are likely to take an interest in niche topics or theories. Many iNtuitives enjoy exploring conspiracy theories or other such ‘unfounded’ methods of reasoning, as they enjoy the ‘mental gymnastics’ aspect of linking seemingly unrelated things together (even though they often don’t believe the actual theories themselves at the end of the day).
8. Socializing selectively.
Extroverted iNtuitives (mainly ENFPs and ENTPs) are considered the most introverted of the extroverted types. Introverted iNtuitives (mainly INFJs and INTJs) may be more traditionally introverted in nature, but put any of these types around in a room together and the conversation is likely to flow on for hours (if not days, if not endlessly)!
iNtuitive-dominant types are often quickly exhausted by engaging with their physical environment, but they are endlessly energized by quality conversation. These types tend to consider themselves to be ‘selectively social’ – they’d rather be alone than around people they don’t connect with, but put them around other iNtuitive types and their social side suddenly emerges with fervor.
9. Playing devil’s advocate.
If there’s a sure-fire way to get under an iNtuitive’s skin, it’s to insist that basically any issue is black or white. These types are quick to assume the role of devil’s advocate in any situation where they feel as though the opposing party is forming an opinion without considering the alternative point of view. These types are prone to vehemently arguing points they don’t even agree with, just to prove that an issue is more complex than those around them are assuming it to be.
10. Pursing an unconventional life course.
iNtuitives are naturally drawn to the strange, the provocative and the unconventional. They may be more prone than sensing types to have an entrepreneurial streak, to engage in non-traditional relationship structures or to experiment with lifestyle choices that are outside the societal norm.
Because these types take a ‘why not’ approach to their lives (or in the case of introverted iNtuitives, their research and learning), they often find themselves unintentionally rebelling from the rest of society. It’s not that they want to do everything differently – it’s just that an iNtuitive’s lifestyle tends to reflect their mindset – and the mind of an iNtuitive is a very strange territory indeed.
By Heidi Priebe, via consciousreminder
10 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You’re An iNtuitive
The MBTI inventory classifies iNtuitive types as those who place more interest (and often more value) in theories, abstractions and the exploration of possibilities than they do in the concrete realities of the world around them.
iNtuitive-dominant personality types (mainly ENFPs, ENTPs, INTJs and INFJs) are almost always more interested in what isn’t being said or considered than what is.
But since we live in a sensor-dominant world, intuitive behavior tends to stick out like a sore thumb. Almost every iNtuitive personality will be able to recall many experiences in which their loved ones were thoroughly confused by their reasoning or behavior. Here are ten behaviors people often don’t understand are associated with being an iNtuitive personality.
1. Spurring debates.
iNtuitives don’t fully understand an issue until they’ve considered it from every possible angle. These types aren’t debating because they want to be difficult or impolite – they’re debating because they need to test the validity of the topic by arguing it from every side. They want to see if any holes arise in their reasoning as they go, and some of their best learning takes place through the process of debate.
2. Obsessively planning for the future.
iNtuitives live almost exclusively in the future – they love considering which options may arise for them, which goals they ought to set for themselves, what their lives may look like in twenty or thirty years, etc.
Of course, it’s impossible to plan every detail of one’s life… so the plan is subject to getting readjusted. For extroverted iNtuitives (xNFPs and xNTPs), the readjusting happens almost daily. For introverted intuitives (xNFJs and xNTJs), readjusting happens as needed – but the need tends to arise regularly.
3. Viewing the rules as suggestions.
It’s not that iNtuitives are rebellious for the sake of it – it’s just that they analyze why a rule exists before deciding whether or not to follow it. These types despise arbitrary action, so if they perceive a rule to be outdated or ineffective, they have no problem casting it aside and doing things their way instead.
4. Over-analyzing everything.
For the iNtuitive, it isn’t enough to understand how a given issue applies to them – they have to also understand the global implications of the issue, or the underlying theory that ties is all together. iNtuitives want to know the intangible explanation for every tangible problem, and it can drive those around them a little bonkers.
5. Placing little trust in authority.
iNtuitives types trust competence over qualification, and they want to make their own judgments about how competent they find others to be. iNtuitives are highly aware of the human tendency to favor convenience and prestige above analysis, and they aren’t quick to trust any established system simply because it’s been in place for a long time.
6. Relentlessly seeking variety.
iNtuitive personalities are naturally drawn to the abnormal, the uncouth and the unconventional. These types spend their entire lives attempting to piece together a comprehensive worldview, which means that they seek to understand as many different oddities as possible. Whether they’re seeking novelty in their studies, their lifestyles or both, these types are always on the hunt for new lenses through which they can view the world.
7. Developing obscure interests.
Since what they don’t know is almost always more interesting to the iNtuitive personality than what they do know, these types are likely to take an interest in niche topics or theories. Many iNtuitives enjoy exploring conspiracy theories or other such ‘unfounded’ methods of reasoning, as they enjoy the ‘mental gymnastics’ aspect of linking seemingly unrelated things together (even though they often don’t believe the actual theories themselves at the end of the day).
8. Socializing selectively.
Extroverted iNtuitives (mainly ENFPs and ENTPs) are considered the most introverted of the extroverted types. Introverted iNtuitives (mainly INFJs and INTJs) may be more traditionally introverted in nature, but put any of these types around in a room together and the conversation is likely to flow on for hours (if not days, if not endlessly)!
iNtuitive-dominant types are often quickly exhausted by engaging with their physical environment, but they are endlessly energized by quality conversation. These types tend to consider themselves to be ‘selectively social’ – they’d rather be alone than around people they don’t connect with, but put them around other iNtuitive types and their social side suddenly emerges with fervor.
9. Playing devil’s advocate.
If there’s a sure-fire way to get under an iNtuitive’s skin, it’s to insist that basically any issue is black or white. These types are quick to assume the role of devil’s advocate in any situation where they feel as though the opposing party is forming an opinion without considering the alternative point of view. These types are prone to vehemently arguing points they don’t even agree with, just to prove that an issue is more complex than those around them are assuming it to be.
10. Pursing an unconventional life course.
iNtuitives are naturally drawn to the strange, the provocative and the unconventional. They may be more prone than sensing types to have an entrepreneurial streak, to engage in non-traditional relationship structures or to experiment with lifestyle choices that are outside the societal norm.
Because these types take a ‘why not’ approach to their lives (or in the case of introverted iNtuitives, their research and learning), they often find themselves unintentionally rebelling from the rest of society. It’s not that they want to do everything differently – it’s just that an iNtuitive’s lifestyle tends to reflect their mindset – and the mind of an iNtuitive is a very strange territory indeed.
By Heidi Priebe, via consciousreminder
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GRAD GRATITUDE: WHYSOCIRIOUS 🙆🏼💖 - Wow. These past four years would definitely have not been made possible and bearable without all the lovely, precious, special and UNIQUE (hahaha) people that I've met in Soci. From entering Uni as a nooby Year 1 who didn't went to camp and didn't know anyone at all, to meeting MUSNUS by chance in Cultural Studies (OH THE DAMN AGONY, SCARRED FOR LYFE BY ADORNO) via a mutual Friend. Fast forward to the end of year 2 and going for Oweek, thereby miraculously finding zee awesome Amanda 💖 and Johnnyboi my soci-mates. Fast forward a little more and getting to know Kenny / Eunice / Kailin / Jiaxin, who made year 4 so much bearable and so dang fun 😭 Thank you everyone, for pulling through with me through all those horrible essays and tough seminars and almost impossible to accomplish group projects (eg human rights). Thank you all also, for being there when the going got tough and when we all were almost dying from our deadlines but y'all still found the energy and time to support me and each other. I think from the pics y'all can see how impt you guys are to me. You guys were the best thing I got from uni, and I'm really thankful :""") I hope even after graduating we will all still be in touch. But even if that doesn't work out, just know that I'll always cherish them memories of school tgt with y'all :") (at National University of Singapore)
GRAD GRATITUDE #2: THE BF - Where do I even start? Thank you so so so much for being there for me throughout the hardest parts of my Uni life. The past two years had been the greatest. Thank you for (trying your best to) stay up with me late late (like 6/7am-late) into the night while I panic and mug my ass off for finals or while I try to fluff and squeeze out 2.5k - 3k words for my multitude of essays the night before it's due. 😅 Thank you for always thinking about me when it comes to food (HAHAHAHA) and for always stuffing me with goodies to ensure that I get enough energy to get stuff done. Thank you for being my solid rock, my pillar of support, my source of encouragement and damn lame jokes, and for always trying and doing your best for me / us. Special shoutout to the bouquet of flowers 🌹 you bought for me - I was really surprised, AND I REALLY LAVA THAT POOH BEAR SAH MATCHA OMG. 😍💖 Here's to many many more days and years with you. Two more years till your grad - I'll be there and support you, but I'm waiting for you to feed me in the Long run ok KTHXBUAI HAHAHA 🙆🏼💖 (at National University of Singapore)
GRAD GRATITUDE #1: THE FAMBAM - Thankful for the 'rents and my aunt and Uncle who came all the way down just to see me walk / smile / pose for those 10 seconds or so on stage. 🙆🏼💖 - Am so, so grateful to have my family with me throughout these past 24 years (and counting!) of my life. When I (finally) got myself into NUS they were over the moon, and I think my parents were even happier than me x143636637283 because it was always their dream to further their studies and pursue higher education, and they found happiness in seeing me, their only child, doing what they always wanted. 💖🤧 We had never been rich, and I know they worked so hard to provide for me and make sure I got the best I could have that they could give me. And for that I'm forever grateful. Especially my Mommy, who throughout the years never stopped asking me to sleep earlier, eat more, do lesser extra-curricular things, rest more, and drink more water HAHAHA. I know you've had it hard and it was tough on you, and that you've spent your life on me making sure I grow up to be someone good. But we finally did it! I LOVE YALL SO MUCH MAMAPAPA, and I hope I made you proud. 我终于毕业了,你们不用为我担心了💖 Now y'all can sit back, relax, and wait for me to give you monthly allowances so you can travel the world 🌚🤓😂💖🙆🏼 (at National University of Singapore)
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STC2017. IT’S A WRAP.
So STC 2017 has just ended and it is, OFFICIALLY, the very very very very last ever ever forever STC that I’d be officially working on full-time as one of the 4 Directors. Knowing that this is the final time around just makes me really sad.
Initially at the start I was quite worried and having mixed feelings when the other 3 Directors were stepping down, leaving me behind alone to work with 3 new Directors, none of whom I was really close to prior to or had worked with much, even though we knew each other for so long and since God-knows-when during school time. Plus, out of the original 4 of us I was (arguably) the weakest link (I THINK? OR MAYBE NOT I BELIEVE IN MY OWN VALUE HUR HUR HUR) or ok more like I was the one that constantly had to prove myself and struggle with feeling like I could never match up to them. So having to lead and guide the other 3 new Directors by myself (more or less) made me really worried and afraid at the start. Not just that, but having the 4 of us working together for so many years meant that we were all very comfortable with each other’s working styles, but now I had to re-learn everything and get used to working styles of 3 new people again. Not to mention the fact that the 3 of us NEVER worked together before.
But then now, I take back all the worries and things that I thought of at the start of the entire STC2017 run. Over the past 8 months i think I’ve really gotten to know the others really well (especially the 2 guys) and I think we’ve really worked quite well together. Sure, its a completely different group of people = different set of dynamics + interactions, but I actually think this group is more... comfortable? Maybe its because I feel more assured and more confident in myself and my place within the 4 of us. And I think it also really helped that we were all on the same wavelength - pun-game stronk, lame-game stronk, knowing-what-shit-has-to-be-done-and-doing-it-right-game stronk too.
There’s so many things swirling around in my head right now, and so many emotions I’m feeling about the whole process and the Main Comm and the event and the 4 Directors, but I think the main thing I want to remind myself (when i look back upon today either in my memories or through this event) is that I really enjoyed this year’s STC so, so much. And I really am glad we all worked together this year. I wish I could do this together with them one more time, I really do. Who knows, maybe I’d stupidly find myself doing it again next year HAHAHAHAHAHAHA but whatever the case, I’m just glad to have had this experience with the other 3 Directors. And I’m glad that our friendship has deepened over the course of STC2017.
(Maybe when I’m less tired out and exhausted and no longer recuperating from a sore body and back and painful (paper-cuts-filled) fingers I’d type more about what went on during stc. Just maybe hahaahahahhahaa)
Till next time.
Mel
i have grapheme-colour synesthesia and this just roughly illustrates the colours i see in each mbti type (corrected to better match each other, of course). my letters usually change based on its surroundings but S seems to be consistently green.
omg I love the color schemes for ENFP!!!
LAST SEM BEST SEM! 🎉🎊It's seriously been SUCH a ride throughout these four years of Uni. I'm really so thankful for all the things that I've learnt, for all the knowledge and insights and perspectives that Sociology has given me during the course of my love affair with it 🌚😍 I got to know you unknowingly, but I never once regretted this journey with you, my beloved Soci. I'D GIVE YOU FULL MARX HAHA. Also, shoutout to all the people that I've met over the years, cos Uni life would have never been the way it was without y'all. ESPECIALLY my fellow Bitchy Group buddies, I'm so damn grateful for you all in so damn many ways :""") That group pic of us goofing around perfectly describes our daily experiences together LOL. Weber we are dying whilst slogging through papers and finals, or lamenting Durkheim of readings we had to do, y'all made it all the more bearable with your puns, jokes, and care. I LOVE YOU GUYSSSS 🙆🏼💖 Very sad to have to leave, but good things still have to come to an end 😭 Next stop: Finals, then Graduation! (at NUS Department of Sociology)
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Went to the career fair on Tuesday and today, and am feeling quite... overwhelmed? By all the choices there are available and how there are just so little jobs out there.
Worst of all, I am a little worried and anxious about myself feeling so underwhelmed and uninterested in most of the jobs out there. It’s not that I’m feeling over-confident and superior (I’m completely not omg), but I just feel like most of the jobs out there aren’t things that I’m interested in?? Or that excites me? I don’t want to work in a job that’s just a job, or something that I’m not passionate about or forces me to do something just for the sake of doing it / the job.
Does that make me idealistic????
I know what I definitely don’t want: consultancy work, sales, insurance (definitely not plz), and not those bank / paper-pushing 9-5 job either.
SO CONFUSED. AND SO WORRIED. AND A LITTLE BIT (GETTING MORE AND MORE EACH DAY) STRESSED.
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