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the inside of my brain.

[patrickbatewoman]

[theelysiaann]

Christmas magic? The thrill of waking up to 30 degree weather? Early morning self taped audition? Who’s to say? https://www.instagram.com/p/CIVtGrLBWsN/?igshid=3euh1c131uu9

[dmsilvisart]

@thatsthat24 I saw this and laughed because I instantly thought of the latest Sanders Sides video. Does character Thomas return his shopping cart?

[theelysiaann]

Pazuzu, but on the cover of Vogue. Happy Halloween. 🖤👻 • • • • • #halloween #halloweencostume #theexorcist #pazuzu #subliminal #demon #highfashion #vogue https://www.instagram.com/p/B4YqAavHDoc/?igshid=6epvez3zplow

[wildatheartchick]

Its nice to be wanted, but some peeps need to back off sometimes.

[theelysiaann]

Happy Birthday to the most amazing creature in the world! Sending you all the hugs and coffee you can stand plus one more cup. ☕️🧡 • • • • • #happybirthday #bestfriends #coffee #hugs #librababy https://www.instagram.com/p/B292cmrHukC/?igshid=1a3o8yce2qjm2

[theelysiaann]

Friday is for space buns! 👽 and for sweating in the cardigan you refuse to take off even though it’s still 93 degrees. • • • • • #sweater #cardigan #redhair #spacebuns #hair #ginger #toohot #stilltechnicallyautumn #autumn #fall https://www.instagram.com/p/B27Td9bHguA/?igshid=1vr0jdyc14fok

[theelysiaann]

NO LATE SEATING (bad kitty) (at Hip Pocket Theatre) https://www.instagram.com/p/BzCK3miH9i8/?igshid=h3er0bek3qz1

[theelysiaann]

It’s been a long tech week but I’m so excited to open tonight (and sleep in tomorrow). 💛🌻🌞 Seven Sinatra Veronicas @hippockettheatre 6/7-6/30 #hippocket #hippockettheatre #theatre #actor #openingnight #outdoors #outdoortheatre #actorlife #yellow (at Hip Pocket Theatre) https://www.instagram.com/p/Byauw1rFCld/?igshid=1kvxbemee2prm

[fashinperfect]

[miamlsunshine]

[amargedom]

““A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it. It just blooms.””

— Sensei Ogui, Zen Shin Talks (via amargedom)

[unwelcome-ozian]

[feverishpoptart]

Coercive Control

Coercive control is illegal in the UK and until we have laws in the US stating this, victims will not be taken seriously. I keep reading “why didn’t she just leave?” not understanding that leaving an abusive relationship can be extremely dangerous. Abusers are manipulative and tear you down emotionally. Leaving isn’t easy and isn’t obvious for victims. Victims can confuse controlling behavior for love, because they must care if they’re so controlling. Sometimes they are threatened in other ways if they want to leave. It’s a heartbreaking situation.

Here are some examples of coercive control:

Isolating a person from their friends and family

Depriving them of their basic needs

Monitoring their time

Monitoring a person via online communication tools or using spyware

Taking control over aspects of their everyday life, such as where they can go, who they can see, what to wear and when they can sleep

Depriving them access to support services, such as specialist support or medical services

Repeatedly putting them down such as telling them they are worthless

Enforcing rules and activity which humiliate, degrade or dehumanise the victim

Forcing the victim to take part in criminal activity such as shoplifting, neglect or abuse of children to encourage self-blame and prevent disclosure to authorities

Financial abuse including control of finances, such as only allowing a person a punitive allowance

Control ability to go to school or place of study

Taking wages, benefits or allowances

Threats to hurt or kill

Threats to harm a child

Threats to reveal or publish private information (e.g. threatening to ‘out’ someone)

Threats to hurt or physically harming a family pet

Assault

Criminal damage (such as destruction of household goods)

Preventing a person from having access to transport or from working

Preventing a person from being able to attend school, college or University

Family 'dishonour’

Reputational damage

Disclosure of sexual orientation

Disclosure of HIV status or other medical condition without consent

Limiting access to family, friends and finances

If you are experiencing coercive control in a relationship please seek help. You’re not to blame. It’s not love and you deserve better. ❤️❤️❤️

[incorrect-lpotl]

Henry: Is four a lot?

Ben: Depends on the context. Dollars, no. Bodies, yes.

[fruitsaladchewits-deactivated20]

well, well, well, if it isn’t the feelings i’ve been trying to avoid 

[paper-mario-wiki]

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And I get a little bit Genghis Kahnghis I don’t want you to get it onghis Nobody else but me (ooooh) With nobody else but MeeeeMe

I get a little bit Danghis Dahn Don’t want you to Genghis on with Nobody else but Mingus Nobody else but Mingus Kingus

[theelysiaann]

I’ve been laughing about this for three days y’all.