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My name is Julia I'm french and I'm 22 years old. biology/chemestry student I'm a science geek. bi woman in political celibacy radical feminist/radical womanist

[unclefather]

@netflix, new idea. you can make a show called “your life” and when i click on it i can watch all the footage that the government has taken of me through my webcam and cellphone. i fucking know. i fucking

[thefemaleresistance]

13 reasons why but worse...

[magiquilt-deactivated20220601]

Ok I wanna just break something down for every delusional terf out there (and yeah, literally every terf I’ve ever met is delusional). And then I promise I’m done posting about this. You are not obligated to have sex with or date trans women. You don’t have to be attracted to them. You don’t have to like dick. HOWEVER, that is no fucking excuse to say that trans women aren’t real women, or they they’re bad people or “men in disguise”. They’re women. They’re women who often times (as in if they haven’t had a sex change) have male genitals. NO TRANS PERSON HAS EVER SAID YOU HAVE TO SLEEP WITH THEM. You’re all so self centered and delusional that you assume every trans lesbian wants to fuck you. I guarantee they don’t.

[auntiewanda]

NO TRANS PERSON HAS EVER SAID YOU HAVE TO SLEEP WITH THEM.

“Words for “Lesbians not attracted to trans women”- Transmisogynist - Vaginophile - pussy fetishist - transphobe - TERF”

“ You know if you’re attracted to a woman because she has a certain genitals that you deem to be good that’s actually really fetishistic. Don’t say “I’M NOT ONLY ATTRACTED TO HER GENITALS UWU” because you know it’s true… So if you refuse to date a WOMAN (yes, a WOMAN) because she has a penis, you’re fetishizing genitals.”  

http://www.thedailybeast.com/the-struggle-to-find-trans-love-in-san-francisco

http://freethoughtblogs.com/nataliereed/2012/04/04/caught-up-in-cotton/

So this isn’t shit women who are branded “terfs” just made up. This sort of rhetoric is everywhere and the message is clear: you’re a bigot and disgusting and a violent fetishist if you won’t have sex with trans people. Especially if you’re a lesbian who fails to desire transwomen. 

So what’s the only solution to not be a “bigot” here? 

Also a woman is an adult human female. That’s what the word means. Transwomen are male. If you think “woman” means something else that categorically includes both females and males then define it please.

they’re women who often times (as in if they haven’t had a sex change) have male genitals.

Oh and by the way you’re a “terf” now too cause you aren’t allowed to call penises “male genitals” if they’re attached to someone who says he’s a woman, whatever that even means. Didn’t you get the memo?

[lezzyfeinberg]

I was exactly like OP for so long. It’s just.. optimism. People aren’t like that to you and you like them so you assume they’re always nice, but they’re not. As Wanda made VERY clear, there i a growing movement founded on the basic principles of “touching my penis is the bare minimum requirement for allyship” and it’s fucked up. 

[nabokovsshadows-deactivated2018]

Do they ever reply to the evidence or just slink away?

[lesbatron9000]

Based on her answer to my reblog just now they slink away and pretend they never cared in the first place lol

[radfemarchive-deactivated202304]

they all talking how "radfems have the most boring sex" because radfems don't want being beaten by man? because sex is only good when a woman taking pain? god these girls are brainwashed if they think that sex is good only when a woman is beaten and men control her.

Libfems will try to make you feel bad because your boyfriend doesn’t hit you.

[radfem-femsep-femsup-amazon-blog]

[spacecelery0000-blog]

They think “cis” WOC are an entirely different species and do not think we have conversations about our bodily functions. They think because they don’t see these conversations taking place, possible due to their own racist convenience to ignore us if we can’t supe up their arguments,that acknowledging sex based oppression is “White Feminism”.

[auntiewanda]

The reasoning is usually something something pre-industrial PoC cultures had third gender concepts therefore not buying into men’s gender bullshit is white feminism so now I can obfuscate the issue by accusing you of being racist for no actually good reason. 

[hypnictwitch]

Sometimes it boggles my mind that women can spend decades of campaigning and get hardly anywhere, still have their rights up for debate as a political ploy or chipped away over time, and can have statistics and research to back up every claim and be laughed at, but some males go “actually, we’re women because we say so” and they’re let into female spaces like ????

[hypnictwitch]

“Power is being able to say complete and utter nonsense and have it be believed; powerlessness is where no matter how much cogent evidence and proof one has, to not be believed.” – Catherine Mackinnon

[nabokovsshadows-deactivated2018]

Anyone who thinks pedophiles belong in the LGBT community

Had lost their fucking mind. They have absolutely zero to do with LGBT people. End of story.

[notable-spinster]

Consent is like….the absolute minimum. Sex can be unhealthy, damaging, and traumatic without being criminal, and you have an ethical, if not legal, responsibility to do everything possible to avoid hurting your partner.

[my-sexuality-is-not-for-sale]

Denial of reality - how the sex-positive movement misunderstands "choice"

(TW self harm, sexual violence and blood)

I am sick of sex-positive so-called feminists, saying that “your sexuality is your, whatever you do in the bedroom is fine, as long as it is consensual”.

I need you all to understand that this is liberal capitalist propaganda. That the individual is not affected by the society/culture, and whatever we desire is completely fine, because it is our “personal choice” and appearently our personal choices are not affected by the culture around us.

So I guess people choose to be poor, because they chose that low-paid job. Well yeah, I guess you can choose wether you want to work at MCdonalds or KFC, but what is the fucking difference? You are still being exploited.

No, the reason it bothers me the most is that this choice-argument, kept me in the dark for so long. In reality it made me feel like I didnt have a choice. If I presented unhealthy masochistisc tendencies and desires to someone, and their answer was “people are different, it is your choice” I would go home feeling like there was no point in going in another direction. “well it must be biological then, right? My desire to be physically hurt, must be innate” - this my friend, meant I had no choice.

It was only when I was told that I could choose. My sexuality was of course deeply affected by the culture and the pornographic material I have exposed myself to. When I learned this, I made a choice. A choice I wish I had all along, And I accepted that I could feel this way, but still fight against it, unlearn it and get better.

What is so weird though, is how putting something in a sexual context makes everything okay. When my X sex-partner saw the self injury scars I had, he was horrified and he would always get this sad look on his face when looking at them, then afterwards embracing me and holding me tight (he was a bit theatrical). But when we talked about vampyrism in a sexual context (not that I was sucking my own blood before, we werent talking about my self-harm) he didnt hesitate to tell me in great details with sparks in his eyes, how we could do that.

So suddenly, cutting your own skin for endorphin highs, is okay if it is in a sexual context. Same way rape is fine if it is “rape-play”, then suddenly the idea of rape is sexy. Pedophilia is sexy, as long it is “roleplaying”, even though it is literally called daddy/little girl kink…

Put everything into a sexual context and you get away with it. Say you like to ejaculate women in the face, call them bitches, choke them and slap them, because it gets you off sexually. It is a free pass for fucked up behavior, and for me it was a free pass for others, not to help me, not even my therapist thought I needed any counseling, even though I said I wanted it. 

It is a free pass for our culture, to accept male domination over women, and female submission to such an extent that there is no limits of what a woman wants done to her and no limits to what a man wants to do to a woman “it’s okay, it is just a fantasy”.

But it is not just a fantasy, a fantasy stays inside your head, but what you are doing with your sexual fantasies, is bringing them to life. You enact them in real life, they become real, and it is a part of reality.

The best and biggest lie we have been told, is that everything sex related is a fantasy. It is like saying it isnt real. Because we know fantasy isnt real, if you use this rethoric on someone, their brain is gonna assume it is not a part of reality, and then we dont have to deal with it.

“Porn is just fantasy, BDSM is just fantasy, Your masochism is just fantasies”. Well I have the scars on my wrists and legs to prove differently. I have emotional damage to prove it. This is my reality, not my fantasy, and telling me it isnt real, is denying my experience, and frankly my dear that is bullshit.

Porn and BDSM is real, they even intertwine a whole lot, since porn is inspired by BDSM and kinksters are inspired by porn. No question, I have seen enough kinksters on this site, with their porn gifs to know what is going on.

Your culture, your life, especially your sex-life, your entire existence is infested with the sexualization of violence, dominance and submission, and it is done to your through porn, BDSM and all the public media these things are seeping into. 

You want a choice? How about we take away the propaganda, and stop getting bombarded with this crap, and then maybe I can make a choice, one that I really want and that is really good for me. You as well.

Yours truly, MBT

[here-for-my-sisters]

So called “Sex positivity” is not positive.

[iamatinyowl]

No, not every man. But, it could be any man.

[socialjustice-whentheycry]

So you believe all men are rapists from default? Well that isn’t sexist at all.

[iamatinyowl]

“Not every man” - Me, in that post right there, the one you just read. the post you literally just replied to

[elfwreck]

All men start as Schrödinger’s Rapist - they are known to have the potential to be rapists, and they are known to not show traits that would specifically put them in the “yes” or “no” category.

But we do have some strong indicators of the potential, like “he ignores boundaries” - he keeps demanding attention, ignores “please leave me alone” requests, calls after being told “I don’t want to date you.” Another strong sign is defensiveness - reacting to that something said about a group he belongs to as if it were aimed at him personally.

If I said, “I work in a coffee shop, and sometimes, people who can’t pay come in and just stare at everything and make a nuisance of themselves. Not every man is unemployed, but any man I meet could be unemployed,” men with jobs wouldn’t jump on the post and say, “but I’M NOT UNEMPLOYED” nor “but you can’t just judge all men like that!” or “you shouldn’t accuse people of being jobless just because of what they look like.” No, there’d be some awareness that yes, some guys don’t have jobs, and while there are sometimes indicators of that, they’re not universal - “wears a 3-piece suit” is not a guarantee of having a job, and “wears ratty t-shirts and jeans that haven’t been washed in three weeks” does not mean he’s poor. Those might be the base assumptions when you see them, but you’re aware that those are just guesses.

Not every guy is a rapist. Most guys are not rapists. But - here’s the key part - we can’t tell who those are. There are no external identifiers we can use to say, “this one is a rapist; stay away from him.”

Cost for being cautious and refusing to be alone with a non-rapist, non-creep, honestly interested-in-you nice guy: You might be a bit lonely on a Saturday night.

Cost for failure to be cautious: You get raped or worse.

Statistics say the odds of Random Dude being a rapist are between 6% and 15%, depending on which surveys you think are more accurate.

Would you roll those dice? Eh; sometimes. But it’s not “abusive to men” to point out that those are the odds - that as many as 1 in 7, or as few as 1 in 15, of the guys around them ARE RAPISTS. And most of them are serial rapists - they find a method that works, and stick with it.

Most of them, of course, are not hiding in bushes with a club to grab women and beat them over the head. Most aren’t even slipping powder into strangers’ drinks at a bar. They’re going to parties, and looking for the girl who’s gotten wobbly, and pulling her into a spare bedroom even if she says “I don’ wanna,” but she’s too uncoordinated to get away. They’re telling their girlfriend “I just can’t help myself: I love you too much” after she says no. They’re telling themselves that their date is a slut, look at how much cleavage she’s showing, and they paid for dinner and the movie and they deserve something in return.

Dude, if you can tell us a 100% reliable way to spot these creeps, AND a way to refuse contact with them without getting physically attacked, socially ostracized, or losing our jobs, WE’D BE SO HAPPY to drop the “all men are potentially…” warnings we give to each other.

[unisaursarethebest]

Reblogging for the extremely articulate and well thought out response.

[teenscoolest]

[ithelpstodream]

[cybergata]

[adequategatsbys]

I have never before seen such a brown kitty.

[bando--grand-scamyon]

IT LOOKS LIKE A S'MORES POPTART

[freeselfdefense]

Rape Escape

Easy and very effective

Requires nothing but your body

Includes attack

[kny111]

Very useful to know, pass and share please.

[blog-archive-111189]

Worth watching

[heylookitseli-archives]

I don’t mean to impose a personal favour on you guys, but I really would like to ask that everyone who follows me reblog this. 

I don’t think I made it very clear but last month I was sexually assaulted by someone who I thought was my friend (I don’t want to talk about it don’t ask), and it’s… really fucked with my head. 

Had I known this a month ago I would have been able to get away. 

So, essentially, I’m really pleading with you to reblog this so everyone who follows you doesn’t get stuck in the same position I was with no way out. 

I mean again I don’t want the point of this to be my sob story or whatever but if you could reblog this it would seriously mean a lot 

[leo-bish]

and im asking to all of my followers who see this post in your dashboard to please press play to this video, you never know when this is gonna be

useful, PLEASE DON’T IGNORE IT.

[appropriately-inappropriate]

This is one of the first moves I was taught in Krav Maga, and it is one of the most effective.

It took me about a half hour to get down with practice, but once you get it, it’s an intuitive movement.

Please pass this along, it will save lives.

[sprouting-colours-deactivated20]

Important

[hayei]

Please reblog this.

[madiithepand0rk-blog]

Please, if you see this, Reblog it. 

[nailtipflips]

If you see this, reblog please.

[onlyblackgirl]

This is actually really helpful and watch the whole thing cuz he explains important details I would never have thought of

[poetic]

[bando--grand-scamyon]

MESSAGE

[dripping-adorableness]

Whoo shit

[modernday-siren]

ooo bitch!

[stalkershandbook-deactivated201]

@qualitynighthideout fuckin cody almost had us goin for a bit but i stopped that noise

[leavemealoneyoufuckingweirdos-d]

I feel like this is a concise summary of this website

[confirmed-terfs]

it’s true tho. biology is indeed fake. lolllll terfs are so dumb

[thefemaleresistance]

If you want children just kiss your partner Stars in the sky are just little angels Gravity is fake you just have glue under your feet wait that's a lie... it's because the earth is flat!

[gluten-free-pussy]

“This is a POC movie”! “That person is LGBT”!

Like…if you know the person’s race and sexual orientation just say it. Just say their Black or Lesbian, stop hiding behind this weird alphabet soup. In your quest to be “inclusive” you’re actually erased fundamental aspects of people

[americanpsycho1991]

“Anti-terf” aka spouting as much regressive, misogynistic, anti-woman, antifeminist MRA garbage as I feel like, but like, only directed at women who DESERVE to be treated as subhuman

[chi-really-hates-terfs]

When? how? Got recipts?

[americanpsycho1991]

lmao yeah, I do.  I’m hesitant to post all this for you because you’re only 15 but honestly you should know what your “anti-terf” community is actually like. btw, the person whose inbox the first images are from is also a minor, as are the targets of several of the rape threats below, to give you some perspective.  i’m not asking you to change your views, but please think twice before getting into social communities like this.  they’re nice to you as long as you stay in line, cater to their feelings and keep your mouth shut about your own, but as soon as you disagree on anything or start to question things that you’re told to blindly accept, as soon as you start educating yourself about alternate views and theories, they turn on you.  I know cause it happened to me, and many, many women who I know.  please be careful.  these people are demented.

^ this person later apologized for the joke, not because they made a joke about gang-raping women, but because the joke “painted trans women as rapists”

This is by no means exhaustive, I didn’t take the time to find all the countless times “anti-terfs” have called radfems bitches and cunts, and all sort of other textbook misogynistic garbage like calling radfems ugly, making fun of women for not shaving, for being “obsessed” with vulvas, periods, etc. because some women make period art or celebrate our bodies… it’s just a mess.  I believe gender theory is inherently antifeminist, but even so, it shouldn’t be that hard to agree with trans theory without being such vile misogynists about it.

[americanpsycho1991]

hey, so @chi-really-hates-terfs and everyone else, it was rightfully pointed out that I failed to emphasize how much of the anti-terf harassment brigade is specifically targeted at lesbians, so much so that there are at least 2 whole blogs dedicated to documenting all this shit.  check out terfmeanslesbian and thecottongaslight for the full story.

so for that purpose, here’s round 2!

this entire fucking post

also this entire fucking post

^^^ the echo parentheses are a neo-nazi thing for targeting jews btw

[rat-librarian-deactivated202107]

I’m turning off anon because I know I’m going to get hate for this and I know I’m a book blog who only occasionally blogs about feminism, but I have seen some of this kind of stuff on my dash before and I feel the need to address it. 

I encourage everyone who thinks these types of threats are okay to actually read terf and radfem blogs and see what they are saying and what their arguments are. I’ve read a lot of the blogs posted on terf block lists and so far I have yet to see any terf say they want trans people to die or be raped. Many “terfs” are trans people themselves or previously were and detransitioned. The majority of the people I’ve seen be called terfs don’t hate trans people whatsoever: they are simply lesbians uninterested in certain bodies or people who are critical of gender theory or sometimes even just people who post feminist art including vulvas or ovaries. 

If you think I’m being hateful for this post then that’s fine, just unfollow me. But I encourage you to stick around and maybe look at the blogs of people you hate so much. 

[darthvatrix]

Hey @myloveholtzy @rowdyholzy