Primarily Gay, But Also A Lush

Pics of me IG: @thegaycard Twitter: @thegaycard

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Happy Pride M’nth from your local he/they gay 🏳️‍🌈 featuring hair stylings by @hair_by_jeramie_alameda and my fave merch from @tryguys https://instagr.am/p/CeRPK-KF7Kz/

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Star Trek LIVE date night 🚀💫 im the lady in the back right 😘 https://instagr.am/p/CeMPKj4J_mg/

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2015 was a very hard year for me. Some of my closest friendships were changing as some had moved and others had faded. I ended a relationship of 4 years. Even my work life was in flux. It was to the point that I didn’t know if I could make it through, but luckily, I found the old adage, “when we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change” to be true. I moved into my own place for the first time since college, made strides in my career, and had my first solo adventure across New Zealand. When I reflected on this crazy time of my life, I was able to summarize the experience in one word: resilient. This word reminds me that I can survive life-changing disturbances and even grow and thrive in the face of them. I am resilient. Also, shoutout to @stewystixtattoos for another amazing and personal piece. https://instagr.am/p/CdmrxNjL2ku/

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Random photo dump 🦋✨🪨💚 https://instagr.am/p/CdfLsLLr34i/

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I wanted to put in some caption about which direction to take, but in reality, I don’t really know where I’m going. I’m still at a place in my mental health journey where I’m taking some things one step at a time, slowly discovering who I am and what I want/need. I’ll decide on a direction for my future when I’m ready, I’m choosing to put myself first. https://instagr.am/p/CcvUUrYr2sx/

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80s themed retirement party lewks 👩‍🎤🎈✨ https://instagr.am/p/Ccbinb7Pv1z/

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Post wrap party margs with the gurls 🍹💅🏾✨ https://instagr.am/p/CcTTBlOv6qn/

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🍃😮‍💨 Sometimes you gotta take a break to take care of yourself. Finding worth in yourself (rather than relying on external validation) is key to finding peace and stability. Love yourself, you’re worth it. 🧡✨ https://instagr.am/p/CcOLNhXPIig/

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As Trixie would say, “this show is lit 🔥” #trixieandkatya #trixiemattel #katyazamolodchikova https://instagr.am/p/CcEtzaareT0/

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Hey y’all, come watch the #Oakland #GayMensChorus in our concert, Be The Change! 🏳️‍🌈🎼🌸💛🍃🌷 https://instagr.am/p/CcCJw4rL2nh/

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Reviving this photo for your birthday because it’s my favorite and I miss you #happybirthdaybestie https://instagr.am/p/CaYxmUpLEWq/

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🍚 Fried rice is a staple in both Filipino & Chamorro cuisines. I cook varieties of this dish regularly and feel especially connected to my Lola when I make her garlic fried rice. I’m thrilled to have this permanent reminder of my heritage, my love of cooking, and my Lola… but also, it’s a sick ass design. https://instagr.am/p/CZ-ps6UpM2_/

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Vacation photo dump, Mexico 2022 🏝🌅 https://instagr.am/p/CZ7L-HTpdG8/

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Kristi Yamacoochie realness ❄️⛸ https://instagr.am/p/CZUgFbqJebG/

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Spotted on today’s sunset walk 🧣🌿 https://instagr.am/p/CYiWy4CrXkL/

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#tbt 8.21.2021 👨🏾‍🤝‍👨🏻💍 dance floor moments 📸: @gilleypics https://instagr.am/p/CYg-2s5lK61/

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#tbt 8.21.21 👨🏾‍🤝‍👨🏻💍 For our wedding reception, we wanted something uniquely us, so we made a show with some of our friends and family, directed by the fabulous @stephanielynnesmith https://instagr.am/p/CYe_3dYvzX8/