Dad

I like flowers and fairytales. Hot Dad af. 4 9. RL Dd and BDSM practitioner. Ask me philosophical, experiential, or worldview questions about D/s, kink, or BDSM and I will answer in long form. I don’t slide into DMs. I go my own way.

[thehotdomdad]

ur profile picture makes u look like wolverine 🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

Well fuck, if only I was as handsome, muscular, talented, rich, and invincible as the mighty Wolverine is.

[thehotdomdad]

I wish i had a dad like you

Sad face.

This is the payoff…when she’s hanging on me like a monkey and says “I’m so happy to have you as my Dad.”

[thehotdomdad]

i’m in love with you

No, you are not. You feel strongly about an idealized image of someone on social media. I am humbled beyond words but…RUN! Run fast! I’m fucked up, neurotic, depressed, emotionally I’m a desert, and picky, demanding, and pained. I’m sincerely all the things that come across on my blog but…far less worthy of love than it might seem.

[thehotdomdad]

Maybe you have already answered something like this but.. as a girl who has never had anyone attracted to her (both physically or romantically), what makes a guy feel some sort of attraction? Like, what am I doing that’s wrong? Lol. Although, I know you can’t speak for everyone.

I have no idea how to answer this question. And frankly, I have no idea what I would say. First of all, I can be sure that your assertion is not true. I am certain that men have been attracted to you physically and romantically. I don’t know what makes people feel attraction. For me, it’s a cocktail of 100 different things. Moreover, every man, every person, is very different from one another. So who is to say that you are doing anything wrong? I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 19. Life does all sorts of funny things. I would only recommend that you be your authentic self. I wish I had a secret sauce recipe that would aid in your struggles. Unfortunately, I don’t. If you have more specific questions to follow up with, you know where to find me.

[thehotdomdad]

do you have a favourite topic you particularly like to talk about?

I think my blog speaks for itself. That’s too general a question. There’s a lot of things I enjoy talking about. If you have a more pointed or specific question about a particular topic, you know where to find me.

[thehotdomdad]

Ive been looking at your page for a while, and youre a super interesting guy!

I think the girls who hear crickets when they randomly message to ask how my day was would disagree. Lol. That said…thank you! I hope my blog continues to interest, excite, and thrill!

[thehotdomdad]

How do you feel about heavier girls? :c

How do I feel? Heavier girls are just as submissive, kinky, and fun as any other “type.” Heavier girls need just as much love and attention. I’m certain you will find a man who recognizes your value and worth, young lady! 🖤

[thehotdomdad]

Oh my god, I see your answers and I could spend hours looking at your profile, translating text by text with Google because I'm from Argentina haha

Translate away, little lady!

[thehotdomdad]

what are your thoughts on trauma kinks and cnc? :) (I'm new here)

YES

[thehotdomdad]

From what I read on your blog and your general vibe, you seem like a man who has experienced many things in his life...is that true?

I have experienced many things.

[thehotdomdad]

Not flexing, not smiling, tired af, up doing stuff since 6, ready for a blessed nap (the old man holy grail) and I have a debauched night of poker and round of golf in the morning with six college friends of 30+ years.

[thehotdomdad]

i really want to text you but i’m scared

I’m not so scary. It’s more likely that you’ll be disappointed. I infrequently answer messages, especially vacuous greetings, and I get easily bored trying to carry conversations. It’s not you, it’s me. Then again, I’m a shameless flirt, verbose and articulate, a total pervert, a Dad goofball, and I am not shy in the least.

[thehotdomdad]

You like tall girls and you like girls in heels, what about tall girls in heels? :3

Sure. If I’m completely forthright, it would be a little jarring if a 5 foot 11 girl wore 4 in heels with me but if it didn’t bother her, it wouldn’t bother me. That said, 5 foot 11 girls generally don’t go for guys like me… They go for giraffes.

[thehotdomdad]

Do you like high heels on a girl?

Let me first say I do not have a foot fetish. However, I do appreciate beautiful feminine feet and I love painted toes.

I love high heels on a girl. They can be everything from slutty to chic. Love girls in jeans and heels. Of course a killer dress and heels. That said, I love adorable girls in cute sneakers. Sandals. And so on. Heels are sexy. Even when she’s not accustomed to them and walks like a baby deer. And when a girl struts in heels…I notice.

[thehotdomdad]

Not sure if this has been asked before, but do you prefer OG Dune or new Dune?

I prefer Frank Herbert‘s writing. I grew up on the old movie and loved it as a kid. However, part of Dune is the world building and scale and sci-fi things that we couldn’t create well in the mid 80s. Those are things accomplished in today’s cinema, and for that reason, I very much like the new Dune movies. There are definitely things in the third movie I’m going to be looking for and will be disappointed if they gloss over certain elements.

[thehotdomdad]

a love older men but they say i act to mature for my age and lose interest I don't know what to do!

Some older men who are interested in age gap girls seem to only value exceptionally young and immature girls. That’s not my thing (I like a variety of types of girls) and so you’ll need to ask them. Perhaps your maturity challenges their fragile ego. Or… sometimes the most simple explanation is the best explanation. He just likes very young and immature girls. I think this highlights a challenge in our community and also a challenge y’all face with meeting lovers. Just bc the perfect age gap exists and you both are attractive doesn’t mean he is your type. Just because he is loving doesn’t make him your type. Just because he’s sinister and got a little evil inside doesn’t make him your type. There are a lot of variables at play and you need to be aware that just because he meets your most important requisites doesn’t make him the right fit. Even in DDlg, there are daddies who seem exclusively interested in certain age ranges for adult littles.

There are plenty of older and mature daddies who value a mature young girl. A lot of you girls who grew up in difficult situations had to grow up at a young age. You were adult children more responsible than should be expected. You just haven’t found yours yet. Be patient.

[thehotdomdad]

how young is to young?

Illegal is too young. Please read my blog, princess. Irl, 18+.