Thoughts, beliefs, ideas

#thehystericaltaurean #thtblog

[demonicangxl-deactivated2025010]

[somewordsarebiggerthanothers]

[akindplace]

the whole “we have the same 24 hours a day” phrase is so ridiculous cause yeah we all have 24h, there are people who are forced to work for most of them and still can’t make enough money to eat. there are people like me who spend most of them doing things to manage pain and illness. there are so many women out there who work, take care of their families and their homes while their husbands only have one job, so there is no point in acting like people who are struggling are just lazy. things are rarely as simple as the catchphrases people use to justify why some people are richer and more successful than others. you don’t need invalidate someone’s struggle to justify your own success, just to prove that you deserve it

[thepersonalquotes]

[strawberrymargins]

to be loved by the one you love.. is everything

[loish]

This one started as a drawing in my sketchbook, and then she blossomed into a digital painting 🌸 Still on my lifelong quest to paint the roundest, chunkiest, most squishable roses.

[diaryofarottingirl]

[cccomplecatedgirlxx]

Makes me sad but the songs r still bangers tho likeee….?!!

[girl-rotting-xoxo]

[weapon-of-mass-feminization]

People talking abt autism like its a set of quirky silly traits and not an often debilitating neurological disorder genuinely drives me up a wall, especially as someone who's support needs are higher.

"I want a gf with autism :3" ok are you prepared to help them with hygiene tasks? Are you gonna help them with laundry and cleaning their room? Are you gonna be patient with them when they're using AAC? Will you comfort them through meltdowns? Or do you just want a gf who talks to you about dinosaurs and has a cute "neurodivergent aesthetic"?

The minimization of autistic struggles to just "socially awkward sometimes" ends up making higher support needs autistics feel real isolated, because it's obvious that when you romanticize neurodivergence, you're not talking about us.

[fawnangel09]

can't believe men pay for nudes when they could look in the mirror and see a pussy for free

[bluering8]

listen to me, this is so so important: you've gotta get used to really giving it your 60% as a default. like don't half-ass it necessarily but try not to go over 70% or so of an ass. you'll feel better and live a happier more fulfilled life, and on the rare occasions where you do need to lock the fuck in you'll be able to pull off bullshit that the sad miserable wretches giving it their 100% can never dream off, because they're busy draining themselves dry and you have energy reserves to spare.

[smokingchagga]

This is actually what I was adviced to do at the work rehabilitation program I went to. Hasn't left my mind since. 10/10 solid advice

[simonrileyslover]

[beaft]

common advice for social anxiety is to tell yourself "people aren't going to think less of you just because you said something a bit daft" but the thing is. sometimes they will. and you just have to learn to be cool with that and to treat it as a dnd random encounter rather than letting it ruin your whole day

[beaft]

recent example. lady at my careers appointment had a post-it with her name on it stuck to the monitor, so i introduced myself by saying "hello, i'm eliot! you must be [name], it's nice to meet you!" and she stared at me as if i was the stupidest person alive and said icily, "yeah, i'm [name]. congratulations, you can read."

in bygone times this would have reduced me to a sort of quivering blancmange. thankfully i am now in a place where i was able to pull back, calmly evaluate this interaction, and say to myself "this woman should probably not be working in a customer-facing job"

[beaft]

important additions!!!!

[glowcowboy]

[suntinted]

[angelslovess]