You know what?
When I was a teenager, I was obsessed with somehow being perceived as cool. As we all were, probably. Of course, what I thought was cool was quite different to the mainstream, so other people never thought I was.
Now I am 35. I came out as ace a couple of years ago which has freed me from ANY sort of social cliche. I just stopped giving a fuck. And now I have friends, I go to 20 gigs a year plus festivals, I speak at Anti Nazi demos, and I have recently picked up juggling. I think I'm quite cool. If other people think so too, that's really nice, but if they don't, I just don't care anymore. Freeing, really.
Okay, that's it. I just wanted to put that out there somewhere. Keep scrolling, thanks for your attention.
















