when it comes to body positivity, there is no such thing as a "correct" way for someone to look. every single body type is beautiful, and an "ideal" body type is however you want your body to look and feel. other people's opinions have no say in this, you can present in any way that you want to because it is your body, not theirs
not everyone can have a body type that they want though, myself included, which is why I'm transitioning m->f. some aspects of our bodies are always going to be imperfect to ourselves, but ultimately this is alright. our bodies are just the things that allow us to exist and live, they aren't perfect, but they don't need to be
I'm happy that my body let's me do things, and while I don't like how it looks, I'm glad I can make adjustments here and there to help me tolerate its appearance a little bit
sorry for the wordsoup have a great day whoever sees this