Where I don't have to pretend

Where I reblog things I like. 18+. I don't really tag things, please keep this in mind if you have block filters and/or triggers.

[collarmeprettyy]

in porn, gangbangs are always so rough and degrading and hard. where’s my soft gangbangs???? where all the guys call the girl cute pet names and actually try to make her cum and check in with her to see how she’s doing. they tell her she’s so pretty and she’s doing so well for them and making them feel so good and they just adore her okay. find me that porn.

[runawaymarbles]

...what is the "sex is just rock climbing" category

It was kind of a joke between me and a friend ("you wouldn't judge someone for having gone rock climbing with a bunch of different people") but honestly the more I thought about it the more I bought into it unironically because:

It is a physical activity done with one or more partners

You should only go rock climbing with people you trust to not let you fall

You should not go rock climbing with someone who is drunk or currently incapable of rational decision-making

Some people get super super super into rock climbing and do not shut up about all the places they have climbed and how many are left on their bucket list and these people are usually men between the ages of 20 and 35 and like it's fine dude I'm glad you're happy but I don't know what most of those mountains even are

While many consider it a fun activity, pressuring someone into climbing when they don't want to (or ignoring their feelings and just dangling them off a cliff,) could cause both psychological and physical trauma

There is no moral value to it whatsoever. Who you have gone rock climbing with (or whether you have rock climbed at all) has no bearing on who you are as a person. Imagine telling someone "it's not that heights make you nauseous, it's just that you haven't found the right person to belay you!" or "you need to save your first time rock climbing for someone special." That would be absurd.

For some people it is a deep and moving personal experience.

historically I have not asked myself "will this aggravate my hip flexor injury" before participating when perhaps I should have 😔

[certifiedsexed]

Certified Sex Ed Post!

[delightfully-clever-flower]

So soft.

And so freaking cold.

[rosenroll]

[normal-horoscopes]

A 4th century CE statue of Aphroditos. Her cock wards off evil spirits. Reblog to rid your blog of evil spirits.

[megalodonpussy]

[escuerzoresucitado]

[bentlady]

[prin-xxx-ess]

A reminder not all subs are the same. Tumblr sub blogs almost appear like a monoculture of “popular” kink but remember not all subs like being degraded, not all subs like being used, not all subs like being bratty. Not all subs are poly or play with multiple partners, not all subs enjoy sex, not all subs like being slapped, not all subs like being spit on, not all subs like being spoilt financially, not all subs like older partners, not all subs enjoy being tied up, not all subs are masochists!! And this doesn’t make them any less of a perfect sub.

[unclefather]

[lurkingodditieez]

It's too hot for clothes

[supremefliber]

[horny-inthehills]

Can we get an ass and side boob pic, please?

Counts?

[faekitti]

Feeling like a fairy fr rn :)

[ruinedwithlust]

Running my fingers through your hair before clicking your collar in place

[pup-jpg]

Subs who get giggly and shy and try to cover their faces and go "stoppp oh my god" as they're laughing and look at you like you're the only thing they worship and melt when you touch them and buck their hips into your hands and make little mewling whimpers all "pleasepleaseplease" and "it feels so good", unable to control themselves. Send post

[spacedykensfw2]

I realize that seeing subs uncomfortable/crying is The Thing for some folks, but when I’m watching porn I absolutely love seeing subs that are smiling and clearly enjoying themselves, maybe even getting a little goofy with it. Like when someone gets slapped across the face and just grins? Yeah. Smiling and agreeing with degrading names? Giggling when they gag particularly loudly? Even better: when the dom pauses during something somewhat intense/gross/kinky just to kiss their sub bc they’re doing so well, and they BOTH are smiling and enjoying themselves?????? God

[properplace]

A little kinky advice

Beware of people who push on hard limits. These are not an invitation to apply pressure. It’s a boundary that should be respected until you hear otherwise. If that doesn’t work for you, find someone more compatible with your needs.

Beware of people who try to convince you that you’d do something kink related for them if you just loved them enough/were devoted enough. Kink is not in itself an act of self-sacrifice or self-harm. It should not rob you. It should fill your cup.

Beware of people who say your safeword has conditions or think someone doesn’t deserve one, top or bottom.

Kink should be enjoyable for all parties. Limits matter for all parties. No matter how “fun” and “exciting” someone seems on this site, they have limits. And they should. Saying you don’t have limits is either foolish or unhinged.

There is no inherent role you should have to play based on your gender, size, sexuality, etc. There is endless variation and you can pursue what makes sense to you.

[certifiedsexed]

Certified Sex ED Post!