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Stages of Twin Flames

From both research, experience, and intuition, these are the energetic and physical stages incarnated twin flames tend go through together. Like with all relationships models (i.e. a “healthy relationship” or a “codependent relationship”), there is a model that leaves for infinite variability when it actually comes to the details of the interactions! Twin flame relationships are just as variable and unique. 

Twin Flame…? What is that?

Let me do my best to define a twin flame. A twin flame is most often a singular other partner/spirit/soul who balances your energy, so that we can enter an energetic state together of unconditional love. This energy balance is done by sharing similar lifetimes (i.e. experiences that lead you towards being able to empathize with the others trials in a compassionate way, as well as forming similar or complementary egoic traits). 

There are also polyamorous twin flame groups, though! All that is required is that they inspire deep empathy and unconditional love, in a way that mirrors our own past pains and trials so that we can relate in an incredibly synthesized way. Love is an energy, that transcends the emotion specifically. Twin flames can have a range in how they express their love to another (it’s not always the romantic ways). Platonic and quasi-platonic relationships are just as valid. Twin flames are all in the extremely deep empathy, unconditional love, and mirroring. 

Twin flames are different than soul mates. Soul mates help us reach a point where we energetically evolve to be able to handle and express this love to our twin flame(s), and then to the universe as a whole. Twin flames are sort of like the “final” soul mate. Soul mate relationships are crucial and loving as well, as they help us become brighter and more evolved individuals! 

What are the (typical) stages twin flames go through?

Twin flames have to energetically evolve to a point of union with each other. Because of the intense empathy, knowing how to take care of ourselves and handle a deep release of past wounds is important. In some twin flame couples, this turns chaotic and painful quickly, when they aren’t yet ready to have such an intense reunion. With our twin flames, our wounds are freshly exposed, and we can feel this rawness. Not all of us are ready and willing to handle this immediately! 

In this, it’s a chaotic and often painful journey done together but also apart. We ultimately are our only healer, not our twin flame. Relying on our twin flame for support can be healthy, but relying on them to mend us quickly turns codependent and can start the cycle of separation. 

Stage 1:

We meet our soul mates and learn from them or we have other karmic relationships. Our healing journeys begin and deepen and we become more energetically balanced and able. Our energy and “vibration” raise. We do not have to be perfect or enlightened or anything to meet our twin flame(s); we just have to evolve to an undefined point, but a point where a union becomes possible. Typically, this evolution involves understanding two major things: that we are our only true healer, no one can heal us if we aren’t willing to do the work ourselves; and a willingness to face our past with honesty and compassion, gently healing our wounds and welcoming loving relationships into our lives to aid us in how to best do so.

We do not have a tangible, physical, relationship with your twin flame at this stage. Sometimes we can spiritually communicate with them, but we have not both met on the physical plane. Perhaps in passing glances we have seen each other! It’s also common to have dreams, intuitions, and other sensational experiences that note us becoming closer to our twin flames. 

This stage can take place even if we don’t meet our twin flame in our current life, in they case they aren’t incarnated with us. We are always evolving through every lifetime. But, if our twin flame(s) is/are incarnated on the planet at the same time, we will most likely meet and have a twin flame relationship. As long as we focus on healing, we’re constantly heading towards a reunion. We just need to be careful not to zone in and focus too much on this reunion. Missing the journey of life that we’re in will turn us away from our twin flame; it’s important to fully enjoy the journey in the present too. 

We’ll begin to desire our twin flame(s). We start to feel a deep and often painful yearning and longing.  Sometimes we will have increased dreams where our twin flames and us meet spiritually or astrally. Often the twin flame will have the same or a similar dream.

It’s possible we’ll find your twin, but not be able to get close them. Often, there is something in the way (a relationship one of you is in, if you’re monogamous; age gap; physical distance; parents; etc). Although frustrating, working through our own past pains in this time is the best thing we can focus on. Make sure not to bury yourself in work and distractions to avoid the ability to heal. It takes a lot of self-awareness and attention to embark on a deep healing! This goes for the running and chasing points of our twin flame relationships too. 

Stage 2

This is the stage where we meet our twin flame(s), in this physical life and incarnation. We may have watched each other from a distance, with one or both of you conscious, or they could appear out of nowhere. We feel a connection, but sometimes it’s brushed over. Later, we often can’t get them out of your mind. Sometimes this is similar to a typical crush or squish, but if often feels more intense.

It’s the idea of love at first sight, whatever love means to you. We may not feel ready for it, but this love is not something you can defend yourself against feeling. 

Often, the thing that pushes this relationship beyond a typical soul mate or other relationship is a deep moment of empathy. We talk or interact with our twin flame in a way that we drop all of the barriers and walls we’ve carried around with us. This opens a flood of past wounds, but also an incredibly empathetic moment. It’s a mutual discussion and understanding that the other has experienced pain as well. If there was one moment defined as a reunion, this would be it! 

The attraction lasts for a very long time if you knew each other before meeting. This ‘crush’ can go on for months, even years. 

After meeting and ending up “together,” we experience a near to perfect relationship. Everything in our lives start to work out and our past wounds heal deeply. 

With poly twin flame partnerships, it appears that most will meet each twin flame at a different time (i.e. not all reuniting at once). Each has a deepening empathy to offer! 

Stage 3

When we meet our twin flames, we are not energetically perfect. We and our twin flames often still have “baggage” that sometimes seemed to have vanished in the first part of your relationship. Unfortunately, it comes back up in this stage. Not all relationships follow an exact “perfection then chaos” model. Many release the past wounds through a deepening empathy throughout! Running and chasing can and does happen in cycles, often–just like a normal relationship. The key is that the running and chasing does happen–we at times worry that we cannot handle the deep empathy and our egos cause us to run. Then the other will sometimes chase. Depending on the health of the relationships, how this stage manifests is highly variable.

This is a kinetic stage where the amount of spiritual evolution increases more than in any other spiritual relationship. Arguments combined with intense love and respect that transcend other past fights happen. We begin to realize that this is so different than other relationships, because so much growth happens even through anger and pain–we trust and love each other through it all. 

Our twin flames reflects us back at ourselves, making us realize all the things we need to change to really fulfill our full potential. We can see the barriers we held up in our twin flame, and recognizing this in another allows us to learn how we can drop our own walls. 

There is usually the runner and chaser in this stage: one twin flame runs and the other chases (with poly twins, it seems this usually happens at different times for each pair within the system). The runner feels like they are losing control over their relationships, lives, and self, and flees in fear. The empathy can become too much to handle, we worry the walls are crashing down too fast. The chaser, afraid to lose their ultimate partner(s), will pursue the runner and often push them father away. The chaser wants a commitment and feels further spiritually evolved (usually they have the energy that lifts the other, and the runner is afraid to evolve to that final point). How this manifests and how long this lasts depends on the willingness of both in the pair to face the empathy and understand that only healing will happen, even if it hurts to reopen the past wounds and let down our walls. 

Not all twin flames who incarnate pass this stage in one life. Sometimes, we will separate and reunite in another, future, life. 

Eventually, and usually within one life, we reunite and all past pains and energy that was a burden is resolved. Neither twin is perfect, but we have evolved because we commit to facing the pain, knowing that this awareness is empathy will allow us to truly heal. We also recognize that healing is a process and there isn’t one definite line we cross–empathy allows us to continuously heal and deepen our connection to life in general.

Stage 4

This is where the twin flames reunite and become energetically synthesized and connected as one. Once committed to empathy, our hearts collectively sing together. Our healing intensifies with this compassionate reunion. This stage is where twin flames become clearly distinct from soul mates. Your twin flame(s) are an integral part of your energy and will become one with you, in a spiritual sense. There is a necessary union and an incredible awakening of energy. This awakening can and does sometimes happen periodically throughout the relationship, growing deeper and deeper after each moment of running/chasing and committed to reuniting. 

Stage 5

The twin flames are totally “enlightened,” energetically, at this point, and they can fulfill their purpose as a joined pair (or multiple). This means we have fully recognized that empathy with another loving individual (or individuals) is the most spiritual experience we can have. This empathy shows us how to continue healing and growing. We recognize that enlightenment is a constant process, not an end goal.

Love, harmony, peace, and light radiate from their union, and each twin glows with the energy of the other.

The twin flames are in a constant state of intimacy, where one is always in energetic union with another. This occurs via emotional intimacy and deep empathetic connection, and sometimes also includes physical intimacy.

This stage is not totally free of human emotion, but the emotion is filled with peace and love as the foremost feelings. Communication is at its best, and pain, although felt, does not stick and cling to the energetic body or weigh us down like our past pain did.

Here we realize that empathy and unconditional love is something possible in all relationships, twin flame or not. We becoming willing to face all past and present wounds and trust ourselves in our ability to heal. Our twin flame(s) likewise trust themselves, so we embark on a beautiful and complementary partnership together.

Notes on Twin flames

Not all twin flames are monogamous. Often twin flames can have other lovers, as soul mates, and/or multiple twin flames. 

Twin flames can be any gender (or agender, etc); energy is not dependent on gender.

Aromantic and asexual individuals can and do have twin flames; it depends on the individuals’ involvement (like with any twin flame couple) whether they will meet their twin in their lifetime. These identities don’t erase the possibility of meeting one’s twin flame.

Twin flames are not all that common relationships for everyone in every lifetime. They require a lot of spiritual growth beforehand and it takes much self awareness for us to evolve to a point where it would be beneficial to meet our twin flame. But, our twin flames could be here for us! A lot of people are spiritually evolving at a faster rate now, so it appears more and more twin flames are reuniting.

If we want to meet our twin flame(s), don’t focus on them; let’s focus on ourselves. This is about our evolution, and we will meet them when the time is right. We have to commit towards our own individual healing journey first.

When we are with our twin flame(s), if you only have one, this doesn’t mean you can’t have other partners if you’re polyamorous. Twin flame relationships don’t limit other expressions of love or act as a block for this being the only manifestation of unconditional love. Instead, they teach us how all relationships can be founded in empathy and unconditional love.

We can always spiritually know our twin flame(s), but they will not always incarnated physically with us. Sometimes this is to learn a healthy detachment, and how love can transcend a physical attachment, but the reasons are as individual as the relationships themselves! 

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