PLEASE HELP: SIGNAL B*OST, D*NATE, OR C*MMISSION ME!!
Listed below are the TL;DR, How to Help, and Full story/Context. I’m sorry I had to resort to this but i have no other choice.
TL;DR version
Please help a mentally disabled fan artist’s family to pay for medical debts for c*ncer, insulin, maintenance meds (for depression, anxiety, etc), and cat food
How to Help
D*nations!!! - I only have P*yPal (also thru K*-fi) and GC*sh! Please dm me for the link or QR code
C*mmission me!!! - I really hate asking for help with nothing to give in return, so preferably please c*mmission me. I havent updated my new set of c*mmission sheet samples BUT heres a short, quick version attached on my post as a pic.
B*y my let-go collection of merchandise!!! (PH-based only please and sorry) - In order to try and make up for the em*tional ab*se me and my mom have to go thru on a daily basis just by living with dad, I ended up in a downward spiral and tried to buy things impulsively since 2020. So, now, we’re paying the price and I have been deeply regretting it ever since. So, plsase please please help buy my palugi (selling for a loss) let-go merchandise, theyre mostly official and am selling for a loss, we badly need the space and especially the funds. Weve only sold less than a half of my stock and it doesnt help that my dad keeps mocking me about it.
Share and S*gnal boost!!! - Tumblr is the only site where i have somewhat of an audience. Please please please help reblog, share, and signal boost.
Full Story/Context
Hi, I’m Theresivy (Teh-reese-ivy), I have been depressed and mentally impaired (among other things) who draws art as a multifandom self-taught fan artist, As of 2020 my mom’s tumor has turned into cancer that has only been given medical attention to in 2022 onwards. And as of then, i have indefinitely become a N,E.E.T for my mom and our finance’s sake while being there by her side. As of now she has gone through FOUR surgeries because more and more unexpected complications keep popping up. She doesnt deserve this, why couldnt it have been me,
We live with my emotionally abusive and manipulative dad (her husband) and our two fur daughters Pancake and Waffles (of which my cats and mom mean more than the world to me) while being forced to live in one of the countless apartment complexes my equally abuse maternal uncle (and his wife, my maternal A-I-L) as we have no other choice. And as such, my dad has been kissing their asses since we were forced to move here more than five years ago.
Both my uncle and my A-I-L took it upon themselves to become the defacto head of my maternal family ever since my maternal grandmother passed just because he became rich thru the means of evil entrepreneur practices. We cant do anything lest we want to get kicked and live on the streets. He is a real-life mastermind as he is always a few steps ahead of us, even making it so that his eldest daughter became his perfect pawn of being his personal lawyer. He always has connections and to them we are merely insects.
My parents and the rest of our family dont really see “artist” as anything that could get money rolling in (and day by day my failed attemptes have been proving them right), and on top of that, they see me being depressed and such as being the “freeloading couch potato”. So they keep bringing up how much of a failure I am. Weve been living in such toxic conditions that my mom has developed this sort of stockholm syndrome type relationship with my dad, and her younger brother (my uncle), and his wife (my A-I-L, her S-I-L). At first i thought i could try and save mom but shes too far gone that she strictly forbids me from fending for myself whenever either of the three try to berate me and drive me to tears and breaking down for the fifth time every week.
All i wish now is to be able to pay back at least some of the debt, for my mom and my fur daughters’ sake, and hopefully my own. I have been in a downwards spiral ever since i have been tolerating being the “odd one out” kid from school. in general, and even in the family, its been literal years and my entire life, im tired of being used and tossed to the side, im tired of being the punching bag of a cosmic joke, and im tired of my disabilities. im tired of being useless to the people i care for the most. so please. help us.
My wish now is to be able to help mom and our fur daughters move away from our domestic ab*sers. everything is an endless spiral of dead ends and im sick of it. ive been self sabotaging for years but a small part of me still has hope, please. i dont want to believe that this is where it ends for us. in this world of darkness and cruelty that spits on our faces, only my mom and our fur daughters have shown me the smallest glimpse of happiness. and even then ive failed them by becoming a barely functioning patient of depression. so, please, dont take my sunshines away.
Mom’s Bday
Coming back to bump this as it's mom's birthday tomorrow, as I continue working on my main commissions sheet. Please please help share and signal boost my post.
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UPDATE - JULY 04, 2024
Thank you all for the reblogs, but sadly my mom has lost her battle with cancer. She fought so hard since around 2020 even with her naturally frail body. She kept me going and was my only friend, it was her and I against the world. I even promised she would and deserved to live happy and healthily up til her 80s’ but of course that never happened and never will. She was so excited to come home, and I was just as excited, too. But, all the complications kept piling up. In terms of my art, I'll keep posting at my own pace, but my personal life is a whole different story. At the very least, I would still like to ask for reblogs, shares, donations, and commissions as we have spent more than a fortune trying to keep her alive. Shout out to my mom, who died a month and three days after her 66th birthday, thank you so much for being my only emotional support in this garbage world, and, I’m sorry what we tried and did weren’t enough. Maybe in another universe you lived to your hundreds and we are just happily telling each other all our untold stories, we’ve gone to all the places we wished to go to, and we’ve tried everything together for a bit longer. Thank you so much for being my mom, and theres no one else i would rather have as my mom. You were one of a kind, you were stubborn but soft, kindhearted and understanding, I will never forget you, thank you.
UPDATED COMMISSION INFO - FEB 11, 2025 ONWARDS
I have finally finished updating my commission info, please please PLEASE help spread and share my post around. I badly need all the help I could get, as more bad stuff keeps happening and are quickly piling up day by day (my car getting into an accident the other day, among other things). Our current total needed as of now is at least 90,000 USD, it would mean the world to me to help get the word around.
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UPDATED ART C0MISSIONS PRICE LIST (June 04, 2026 onwards)
Please please please signal boost and share, in the past few years we have barely scratched the 1% of my goal, and on top of that, things just keep getting worse and smthng bad just has to happen to me almsot every other day of my life. Please reblog and share.
