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Slim Your Waistline
1. Cardio Intervals. Cardio doesnât have to mean that you are training for a marathon or running 5 miles a day. You can start out with simple cardio exercises, like walking or biking. The key here is that you are varying the speed of exercises. For instance, start out walking or biking slowly for about five minutes, and then pick up the pace to a higher intensity for about 60 seconds. Repeating this process, switching from low to high intensity, will help you burn more calories than you would at a steady pace.
2. Touch Your Toes. Any move that has you contracting your mid-section will help you get rid of your muffin top and slim your waistline by exercising your abdominal muscles. For this exercise, lay flat on your back, facing upwards with your arms stretched out to either side and your legs straight. In one fluid motion, lift your shoulder blades off the ground and bring your right arm straight up while you also raise your left leg. Touch your toe and return to the starting position, flat on the ground. Repeat this exercises 10 times on each side.
3. Lunge and Twist. This exercise will not only work on your muffin top, it will also tone your rear.Stand straight with feet shoulder-width apart, and hold a 5-pound dumbbell or other weighted object in your hands for added resistance. Stretch your arms straight out in front of you, keeping a firm grip on the weight. Next, take a large step forward with your right foot and lower into a lunge position. While you are lunging, twist your torso to the left to get your abdominal muscles involved. Return to standing, and repeat with the left side.
4. Scissor Kicks. Kick away your muffin top by laying flat on the ground, facing upwards. Lift your feet about 6 inches off of the ground, and have your arms flat with hands comfortably resting next to your hips. With your legs remaining straight, alternate kicking your left and right feet towards the ceiling. Remember to keep your feet off the ground, and not to arch your back. Repeat this exercises for 30-second intervals.
5. Arm and Leg Extensions. Easily tone your entire midsection with this easy exercises. In no time you will see results and slim your waistline. Get into a comfortable position on all fours. As you breathe in deeply, raise your left arm straight in front of you and your right leg straight behind you at the same time. Exhale and return to all fours. Repeat on the other side, doing this exercise 10 times on each side before taking a break.
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I have mentioned here and there the pain issue I experience with sugar. Well, it has gotten worse...it's now in my hands, randomly affecting joints.  It has worsened to the point it is taking out  my fingers...first my right pinky curled up and wouldn't unlock until after I had been up for a while.  And now, my left ring finger--it won't unlock at all, and it has been curled up since Friday.
Life has no meaning. Each of us has meaning and we bring it to life. It is a waste to be asking the question when you are the answer.
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Self Care Today
1. I will not binge eat.Â
2. I WILL NOT BINGE EAT.
3. I am starting off sugar again today. Â Lab results show nothing, but I know for a fact that if I eat sugar, my joints hurt. So: no sugar, no pain. This isn't hard math. Â The plan is to stay off sugar until my birthday (with the quick exception of my mom's rum cake for her birthday this week). But today, Friday, Saturday, no sugar. Sunday yes, after no until Oct.
4. Â I WILL NOT BINGE EAT.
5. Â I will print off the powerpoints for the test on Monday and I will spend one hour studying them. Â I will not spend more, nor will I obsess about it.
6. Â I will write tonight. Â Hopefully Magnus. Â
7. I will NOT take in any caffeine. Â It does nothing but fuck me up.
8. I will take time to meditate today.
9. I will take time for a nap today.
10. I will take the St. John's Wort.
11. I will NOT BINGE EAT TODAY.
An open letter to all the other writers who, like me, panic at midnight about being failures
The first thing you need to do is breathe.
Really, do that. Sit where you are and pull air into your lungs. Feel your body extracting what it needs and expelling the rest. Feel your blood collect it and carry it to all the other parts of you. Feel your pulse, feel the beat of your heart. Feel the firing of your synapses, if you can. Imagine all those little lightning flickers, and then imagine your brain lit up in brilliant rainbow colors as it goes about the endless process of making you who you are.
Reflect on how the myth that we only use ten percent of our brains is just that: a myth. Reflect on how youâre using most of your brain in some way most of the time. You are not a waste. You are not wasted. No part of you will ever be wasted. When you are done being you, every one of your atoms will go on to do something else. You will never run out of things to be, until the day when nothing is anything at all anymore.
So youâve got all of that going for you.
Do you create? Youâre a miracle. Do you create badly? Youâre still a miracle, and just because you create badly now doesnât mean you always will. Do you think you donât create enough? You create as much as you should, and if you should create more than you do, youâll find a way to do so. Do you have things left unfinished? You can finish them. If it turns out you canât, you canât. Itâs not a crime. Forgive yourself for it.
Forgive yourself in general.
Maybe you love creating. Maybe, like me, you feel like you have to. Maybe you feel compelled. Maybe you feel empty and useless when you donât. But thatâs a lie. You are not empty, and you are not useless. You are full of wonders; you are a house in which every room brims with treasure. You are a cloud of interstellar dust in which stars are born. You are a strange and marvelous creature in a strange and marvelous universe.
And you are not alone. You are not unique. This is not a bad thing, because it means you are in good company. At this moment, feeling empty and useless and afraid, you are one among thousands, hundreds of thousands, and millions that stretch into the past and extend into the future. And letâs have none of this silliness about creative people being somehow exceptional; everyone feels empty and useless, and no one is, and everyone feels alone, and no one is.
You think you will never be the writer you want to be. Youâre probably right. Make your peace with that; it doesnât mean that you wonât be extraordinary. And even if you arenât an extraordinary writer, you are not a writer who is a person â you are a person who is a writer, and the value of your existence does not depend on your ability to put the precisely perfect number of words in exactly the correct order.
Breathe. Then get out of your chair and walk. Maybe go outside, just for a moment. Look up into the dark and think about where youâve come from and where youâll go to. Think about who you were when you were born and who youâll be when you die. You were born into and of worlds, and youâll die there. That in itself is something to celebrate. That you are here, in this moment, breathing and heart-beating with your wonderful head like a jar full of fireflies.
Now go back inside and have some tea or something. Pet an animal, if you have one. And go to bed.
Men come and they go and they trot and they dance, and never a word about death. All well and good. Yet when death does comeâto them, their wives, their children, their friendsâcatching them unawares and unprepared, then what storms of passion overwhelm them, what cries, what fury, what despair! [âŚ] To begin depriving death of its greatest advantage over us, let us adopt a way clean contrary to that common one; let us deprive death of its strangeness, let us frequent it, let us get used to it; let us have nothing more often in mind than death. [âŚ] We do not know where death awaits us: so let us wait for it everywhere. To practice death is to practice freedom. A man who has learned how to die has unlearned how to be a slave.
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There are lots and lots of ways to meditate. But our concern is not to find a perfect form of meditation â itâs to form the daily habit of meditation. And so our method will be as simple as possible.
1. Commit to just 2 minutes a day. Start simply if you want the habit to stick. You can do it for 5 minutes if you feel good about it, but all youâre committing to is 2 minutes each day.
2. Pick a time and trigger. Not an exact time of day, but a general time, like morning when you wake up, or during your lunch hour. The trigger should be something you already do regularly, like drink your first cup of coffee, brush your teeth, have lunch, or arrive home from work.
3. Find a quiet spot. Sometimes early morning is best, before others in your house might be awake and making lots of noise. Others might find a spot in a park or on the beach or some other soothing setting. It really doesnât matter where â as long as you can sit without being bothered for a few minutes. A few people walking by your park bench is fine.
4. Sit comfortably. Donât fuss too much about how you sit, what you wear, what you sit on, etc. I personally like to sit on a pillow on the floor, with my back leaning against a wall, because Iâm very inflexible. Others who can sit cross-legged comfortably might do that instead. Still others can sit on a chair or couch if sitting on the floor is uncomfortable. Zen practitioners often use a zafu, a round cushion filled with kapok or buckwheat. Donât go out and buy one if you donât already have one. Any cushion or pillow will do, and some people can sit on a bare floor comfortably.
5. Start with just 2 minutes. This is really important. Most people will think they can meditate for 15-30 minutes, and they can. But this is not a test of how strong you are at staying in meditation â we are trying to form a longer-lasting habit. And to do that, we want to start with just a two minutes. Youâll find it much easier to start this way, and forming a habit with a small start like this is a method much more likely to succeed. You can expand to 5-7 minutes if you can do it for 7 straight days, then 10 minutes if you can do it for 14 straight days, then 15 minutes if you can stick to it for 21 straight days, and 20 if you can do a full month.
6. Focus on your breath. As you breathe in, follow your breath in through your nostrils, then into your throat, then into your lungs and belly. Sit straight, keep your eyes open but looking at the ground and with a soft focus. If you want to close your eyes, thatâs fine. As you breathe out, follow your breath out back into the world. If it helps, count ⌠one breath in, two breath out, three breath in, four breath out ⌠when you get to 10, start over. If you lose track, start over. If you find your mind wandering (and you will), just pay attention to your mind wandering, then bring it gently back to your breath. Repeat this process for the few minutes you meditate. You wonât be very good at it at first, most likely, but youâll get better with practice.
And thatâs it. Itâs a very simple practice, but you want to do it for 2 minutes, every day, after the same trigger each day. Do this for a month and youâll have a daily meditation habit.
Expanding Your Practice
Sitting and paying attention to your breath is really mindfulness practice. Itâs a way to train yourself to focus your attention. Once youâve practiced a bit while sitting in a quiet space, you can expand your mindfulness practice:
When you feel stress, take a minute to pay attention to your breath, and return your mind to the present moment.
Try taking a walk, and instead of thinking about things you need to do later, pay attention to your breath, your bodyâs sensations, the things around you.
When you eat, just eat, and focus your attention on the food, on your feelings as you eat, on the sensations.
Try a mindful tea ritual, where you focus your attention on your movements as you prepare the tea, on the tea as you smell and taste it, on your breath as you go through the ritual.
Wash your dishes and sweep your floor mindfully.
This, of course, is just a start. There are many ways to practice mindfulness, including with other people, while you work, and so on.
Post written by Leo Babauta.
POSTED: 04.09.2012
Post written by Leo Babauta.
If I could make a single dietary recommendation to people looking to get healthier, it would be to move to a plant-based diet.
Eating plants has been the best change Iâve made in my diet â and Iâve made a bunch of them, from intermittent fasting to low-carb experiments to eating 6 meals a day to eating almost all protein to eliminating sugar (all at various times).
Plants have made me slimmer, healthier, stronger, more energetic â and have increased my life expectancy (more on all this below).
Of course, the diet is simple, but moving away from the Standard American Diet to a plant-based one isnât always so simple for most people.
Changing your diet can be difficult, but in this guide Iâll share a bit about how to change, talk a bit about why, and what you might eat.
Whatâs a Plant-Based Diet?
The simple answer, of course, is that you eat plants. You eliminate animals and (eventually) animal products like dairy and eggs.
The less simple answer is there is an abundance of plant foods that most people never eat, and eating a plant-based diet means you might widen the variety of foods you eat. For example, some of my favorite foods include: tempeh, seitan, tofu, kale, broccoli, quinoa, ground flaxseeds, ground chia seeds, raw almonds and walnuts, raw almond butter, olive oil, all kinds of berries, figs, avocados, tomatoes, lentils, black beans, spirulina, hemp seeds, nutritional yeast, organic soymilk, sweet potatoes, squash, carrots, apples, peaches, mangoes, pineapple, garlic, red wine, green tea, brown rice, sprouted (flourless) bread, brown rice, steel-cut oats.
A âplant-based dietâ can be basically another way to say âveganâ, though many people do use the term to mean that you eat almost all plants with some animal products. In this post, Iâll be focusing on veganism, as I believe itâs the ultimate plant-based diet.
Why Should I Change?
There are a few important reasons to eat plants:
Health. The basis of this guide is health, and many people switch to eating plants because they want to lose weight, improve their heart health, stay healthy as they age, improve blood pressure or deal with diabetes. A plant-based diet has been shown to help with all of these things â if you also stay away from the processed foods. A diet of processed flour and sugar and fried foods isnât healthy even if itâs all plants (more on this below). The healthiest populations in the world are plant based: the Okinawans (traditionally at almost all plants such as sweet potatoes, soybeans, lots of veggies, with a little fish and occasional pork), the Sardinians (beans & veggies, red wine, some cheese, meat only once a week), and the vegan Seventh-Day Adventists in Loma Linda, California who are the longest-living Americans. Eating plants is the best thing you can do to reduce your risk of the leading causes of death.
Environment. Honestly, while this is very important to me, itâs probably the least important of the three reasons on this list (for me personally, that is). But itâs huge: the biggest way to reduce your carbon footprint is to stop eating animal products â better than giving up a car (next best) or using less energy in your home or traveling by plane less or recycling or using solar energy or driving an electric car or buying fewer things. The animals we raise for food production use a ton of resources, eat way more plants than we do (which in turn also require resources to be grown), give off huge amounts of planet-warming methane, breathe out a lot of carbon dioxide, and create a lot of pollution. This 2006 United Nations report concludes that âLivestock have a substantial impact on the worldâs water, land and biodiversity resources and contribute significantly to climate change. Animal agriculture produces 18 percent of the worldâs greenhouse gas emissions (CO2 equivalents), compared with 13.5 percent from all forms of transportation combined.â And it takes 4,000 to 18,000 gallons of water to make the beef for one hamburger, according to a recent report from the U.S. geological survey.
Compassion. For me, this is the most important reason to move away from eating animals. Iâve talked a lot about compassion on this site, but by far the most cruel thing any of us does each day is consume animals (and their products). The cruelty that is perpetuated on these living, feeling, suffering beings on our behalf is enormous and undeniable. If you donât believe me, watch this video with Sir Paul McCartney or this video about pigs. While I became vegan for health reasons, I stick with it for reasons of compassion â wanting to reduce the suffering of other sentient beings.
But ⌠if you donât do it to avoid pollution, heart disease, cancer, diabetes, stroke, increased death rates, animal cruelty, global warming, deforestation, and higher costs ⌠maybe weight loss would do it. Vegetarians and vegans weigh less on average than meat eaters. Thatâs even after adjusting for things like fibre, alcohol, smoking ⌠and calorie intake! Half of Americans are obese, but vegans tend to be much less obese (with exceptions of course).
That said, just going vegan will not necessarily cause you to lose weight. You could easily eat a lot of sugar, white flour, fake meats and fried foods and gain weight. If you eat whole plant foods, youâre likely to lose weight. Plant foods, for starters, have pretty much no saturated fat, low calories and tons of fiber, while animal foods all have saturated fat, lots of calories and zero fiber.
Beating Death: I highly recommend watching this video on uprooting the causes of death using a plant-based diet. Itâs a bit long, but well worth the time.
How to Change
It will be no surprise that I recommend people start small and change slowly. A good plan is to make the change in stages:
Slowly cut out meat. This stage is actually several smaller stages. You might try starting with Meatless Mondays and then, over time, expanding to other days of the week. Another common idea is to start by cutting out red meat, and then poultry, then seafood, in gradual stages of a month or even six months. There is no rush â do it at the pace that feels good to you. Another important point is that, as you eliminate meat, donât just fill it with starches (which donât have that much nutrition). Try new foods, experiment with ethic recipes, and explore different nutrients as you make these changes.
Eliminate eggs. After you cut out red meat and poultry, youâll be pescatarian (seafood). When you eliminate seafood, youâre vegetarian! If youâre eating eggs and dairy, thatâs called a âlacto-ovoâ vegetarian. You can then eliminate eggs â and no, theyâre not cruelty-free. This is one of the easier stages, in my experience.
Cut out dairy. This tends to be harder for most people. Not because of milk (soymilk and almond milk are good alternatives that just take a few days to adjust to) ⌠but because of cheese. I hear a lot of people say, âI canât give up my cheese!â â and I empathize, as this was a sticking point for me too. It helps that there are better and better cheese alternatives these days (Daiya being a favorite of many). But for me, what made all the difference is not focusing on what I was giving up, but on the good things I could eat!
Eat whole, unprocessed foods. This is the phase that Iâm in, and I wholly recommend it. You can go straight here if you have no problems changing your diet, but people eating the Standard American Diet will find it difficult, because the foods are very different than what most people eat. For example, most people in the U.S. donât eat many vegetables, and find them distasteful, especially dark green leafy veggies, which are the best. I now love vegetables, and kale is my best friend. Most people dislike protein-rich plant foods like tempeh, tofu, seitan, and beans. Most people donât eat raw nuts â they eat roasted and salted nuts. However, all of this can change over time, which is why I recommend that you move into this slowly. What exactly is this phase? See the next section for details.
What to Eat
So what do you eat when youâre on a plant-based diet that focuses on whole foods? Lots!
A few categories of foods to include regularly:
Beans and other protein. This means the regular kinds of beans, like lentils, black beans, kidney beans, pinto beans, garbanzo beans, etc. But it can also mean soybeans (edamame), tofu, tempeh, and seitan (protein from wheat, not good for gluten-intolerant people). It can also mean soymilk, soy yogurt, and the like, which are often fortified. Get organic, non-GMO soy.
Nuts and seeds. My favorites include raw almonds and walnuts, along with ground flaxseeds and chia seeds, and hemp seed protein powder. Almond milk is also good. And quinoa â itâs like a grain, but really a seed, and full of nutrition.
Good fats. Fats arenât bad for you â you should just look to avoid saturated fats. Luckily, not many plant foods have saturated fats. Plants with good fats include avocados, nuts and seeds mentioned above, olive oil and canola oil.
Greens. This is one of the most important and nutritious group of all. Dark, leafy green veggies are awesome, and full of calcium, iron and a ton of vitamins. My favorites: kale, spinach, broccoli, collards. Eat lots of them daily! They also have very few calories, meaning they pack a ton of nutrition in a small caloric package.
Other fruits and veggies. Get a variety â I love berries of all kinds, figs, apples, citrus fruits, peaches, mangoes, bananas, pears, bell peppers, garlic, beets, celery, cauliflower ⌠I could go on all day! Get lots of different colors.
Good starches. Starches are not bad for you â but ones that have little calories arenât great. So find starches that give you lots of nutrition. Sweet potatoes, red potatoes, squash, brown rice, sprouted whole wheat, steel-cut oats, among others.
Some other healthy stuff. I love red wine, green tea, cinnamon, turmeric, spirulina and nutritional yeast.
OK, by now you might be overwhelmed by all of this. How do you put it together? Itâs not that hard once you get used to it. Start learning some recipes that combine some of these foods into meals, and over time, youâll have a few go-to meals that you love that are full of nutrition.
Some examples that I like (but donât limit yourself to these!):
Tofu scramble w/ veggies: some organic high-protein tofu crumbled and stir-fried with olive oil, garlic, diced carrots and tomatoes, spinach and mushrooms, and spiced with tamari, turmeric, sea salt and coarse black pepper.
Steel-cut oats: cook some steel-cut oats, then add ground flaxseeds, raw nuts, berries, cinnamon.
Stir-fry: Hereâs my secret ⌠you can make an endless combo of meals by cooking some garlic in olive oil, then cooking some veggies (carrots, bell peppers, mushrooms, etc.) and some protein (tofu, tempeh, seitan, etc.) and some greens (kale, broccoli, spinach, etc.) and some spices (turmeric or coconut milk or tamari & sesame oil, black pepper, salt).
Veggie chili over quinoa: Black beans, kidney beans, pinto beans with olive oil, garlic, onions, tomatoes, bell pepper, diced kale, diced carrots, tomato sauce, chili powder, salt, pepper. Maybe some beer for flavor. Serve over quinoa or brown rice.
One-pot meal: Quinoa, lentils, greens, olive oil, tempeh (or a bunch of other variations). Read Tynanâs post on cooking this all in one pot.
Whole-wheat pasta: Serve with a sauce â some tomato sauce with olive oil, garlic, onions, bell peppers, diced kale and carrots, diced tomatoes, fresh basil, oregano.
Big-ass Salad: Start with a bed of kale & spinach, throw on other veggies such as carrots, mushrooms, cauliflower, snow peas, green beans, tomatoes ⌠then some beans, nuts and/or seeds ⌠top with avocado. Mix balsamic vinegar and olive oil, or red wine vinegar and olive oil, sprinkle on the salad. Yum.
Smoothies: Blend some almond or soy milk with frozen berries, greens, ground chia or flaxseeds, hemp or spirulina protein powder. Lots of nutrition in one drink!
Snacks: I often snack on fruits and berries, raw almonds or walnuts, carrots with hummus.
Drinks: I tend to drink water all day, some coffee (without sugar) in the morning, tea in the afternoon, and red wine in the evening.
My Food Journal: If youâd like to see my food journal (admittedly not always perfectly healthy), Iâve started one that you can see here.
Frequently Asked Questions
Iâll add to this section as questions come in, though obviously I canât answer everything.
Q: Isnât it hard to get protein on a vegan diet?
A: Not really, as long as you eat a variety of whole foods, and not a bunch of processed flours and sugars (the white kind that has little nutrition). There is protein in vegetables and grains, and even more in beans, nuts and seeds. I often eat protein-rich plant foods like tempeh, tofu, seitan, edamame, black beans, lentils, quinoa, soymilk, and raw nuts. Read more here.
Q: What about calcium or iron or B12?
A: Again, itâs not difficult at all. Iâve calculated the iron and calcium in my diet at various times, and as long as Iâm mostly eating whole foods, itâs really easy. Nuts and green veggies are your best friends, but thereâs also calcium-fortified soymilk and tofu and the like. Eat some kale, quinoa, raw nuts, various seeds, broccoli, tofu or tempeh ⌠itâs not difficult. Vitamin B12 is a bit more difficult to get from regular plants, as the main source of B12 is usually animal products â including eggs and dairy. But actually, vegans have figured this out, and now if you drink fortified soymilk or almond milk, or use nutritional yeast or a few other good sources like that, you will have no worries. More reading oniron, calcium and B12 for vegans.
Q: Isnât soy bad for you?
A: No. Thatâs a myth. I would stick to organic, non-GMO soy, but actually soy is a very healthy source of protein and other nutrients, and has been eaten by very healthy people for thousands of years. More info here.
Q: I follow the Paleo diet and believe this is how humans are meant to eat.
A: Well, if youâre eating unprocessed foods and have cut out white flours and sugars and deep-fried foods, youâre probably healthier than the average American. I admire the Paleo crowd that focuses on whole foods and that eats lots of veggies and nuts and seeds, but when itâs just an excuse to eat lots of meat, itâs not as healthy. Itâs also not true that hunter-gatherer societies ate mostly meat â the crowd that believes this has made a flawed review of contemporary hunter-gatherers. Most traditional societies eat, and have pretty much always eaten, mostly plants, including lots of starches â respected anthropologists such as Nathanial Dominy, PhD, from Dartmouth College say that the idea of hunter-gatherers eating mostly meat is a myth. Also read this. Iâd also warn against low-carb, high-protein diets over the long run â in the short term, youâll see weight loss, but in the long run theyâve been shown to increase cardiovascular disease (from June 21, 2012 issue ofBritish Medical Journal).
Q: It sounds difficult and complicated.
A: Actually itâs very simple â you just learn to eat a variety of plants. It does mean learning some new meals, but instead of seeing that as a hardship, think of it as something fun to learn. If you slowly change your eating patterns, itâs not hard at all. Be flexible and donât be too strict â youâll find that itâs much easier if you allow yourself an occasional meal with animal products, especially in the first 6-12 months.
Q: What about fake meats and cheeses?
A: Thereâs nothing wrong with giving them a try now and then when youâre having a craving for something, but in all honesty you donât need them. Theyâre more expensive and less healthy. Basically, theyâre convenience foods.
Q: What if Iâm allergic to soy or gluten or nuts?
A: Itâs still possible to get all the nutrition you need from a plant-based diets without a specific kind of food (like gluten or soy), from what I understand. More here.
Q: It sounds expensive.
A: Actually it can be a lot less expensive, if you stay away from the vegan convenience foods (which are fine on occasion). Meat is more expensive than beans or tofu, for example. While fresh, organic veggies can cost a bit, you should get these in your diet even if you eat meat â and in the long run, youâll save much more on medical bills.
Q: Thereâs no way Iâll give up (eggs, cheese, ice cream, etc.)!
A: Well, you donât have to. If you want to eat mostly plants but also eggs and cheese, thatâs much better than eating meat. But there are cheese substitutes you can try, and vegan ice cream, and in the long run, you might find that giving these things up isnât as difficult as you think.
Q: What about eating out at restaurants or social gatherings?
A: Iâd recommend you take it slowly at first, and eat mostly plants at home, and be more liberal when you eat out, for a little while. You donât want to make this too difficult on yourself. But actually, once you learn some simple strategies, itâs not that hard to find vegan food in restaurants â some are easier than others, and sites like Happy Cowmake it easy to find veg-friendly restaurants in your area. As for eating at friendsâ and familiesâ houses, Iâve learned to offer to bring one or two vegan dishes, and itâs not usually a problem.
Q: What if my family and friends donât support this change?
A: Itâs best if you donât start preaching â people donât like it. This article might seem like a violation of that, but actually I rarely push veganism on this site, and when I do itâs only as a way to show others a healthy and compassionate alternative. Remember that those around you probably donât know much about veganism, and are likely to react defensively. Take the opportunity, when they bring up the topic, to share what youâre learning, and the concerns you yourself had when you first learned about it. Show them some great vegan food. Share this guide with them. And always be patient.
More answers here: Vegan Outreach Q&A, Vegan Nutrition FAQ,Vegan Society FAQ.
POSTED: 09.27.2012
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Donât forget about His daring side.
Donât forget about the part of Him that seems largely uncomfortable for you.
Donât forget about the part of Him that always wants more, maybe more than you think you can give, and donât forget He will push, and will pull, and will absolutely drain. Itâs the best part. Endure.
Donât forget about the parts of Him that arenât always soothing, the parts that sometimes want to be destructive, that want to recreate constantly. Donât forget the parts of Loki that mean âcatalystâ, âbeginningâ, âpassionâ, âdestructionâ, âutter annihilationâ. Donât forget that He could take down your everything before He ever gets started on the rest of you.
Please donât forget that most likely He wants to include every one of these aspects when He integrates with someone and wants to impact their life in the biggest ways. Please donât forget how wonderful yet harsh and uprooting He can be. ~